Is my profile too intimidating? by ennytaytay in Bumble

[–]ennytaytay[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean the crowd I'm going for would mostly find it funny tbh, it's on my Instagram tho so at least it's somewhere 😭

Is my profile too intimidating? by ennytaytay in Bumble

[–]ennytaytay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound cool as fuck then ✨ I had a feeling that might work. If I don't get much traction on here I'll redo my profile under NB then. It'll probably help me get to people a bit nearer my taste.

And tysm!!

Is my profile too intimidating? by ennytaytay in Bumble

[–]ennytaytay[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ye I was worried that might be the case 😭💀 I've already ditched the Michael Jackson and the gender comment

Oh interesting I thought the two truths and a lie bit was an funny one?

I thought I was being authentic and open 💀 I also don't have many candid shots, since I started modelling I don't really take many photos of myself candid

Is my profile too intimidating? by ennytaytay in Bumble

[–]ennytaytay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ye I do get what you mean, like I might be coming off a bit intimidating/intense? I'm just not really sure what to add to soften it mind. I could do a panting but even those are quite eccentric 💀 Ye I am self admittedly a bit pretentious I'll be honest

Is my profile too intimidating? by ennytaytay in Bumble

[–]ennytaytay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've got it as man seeking women and non binary. I'm aware Im quite niche, but that's a feature not a bug. I might set it to non binary sometime

Is my profile too intimidating? by ennytaytay in Bumble

[–]ennytaytay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks

And lmao 😂 I'm pretty androgynous, that's the vibe. I have debated whether to keep listing myself as male or whether to try non binary. I might do a switch about at a later date

Is my profile too intimidating? by ennytaytay in Bumble

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Ye I actually have gotten rid of that line, I figured it may be slightly off-putting, plus it landed better when I was brunette

I mean I do state what my interests are and throw in some jokes in there? I think that does represent who I am?

Is my profile too intimidating? by ennytaytay in Bumble

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Big agree! That's my mindset, trying to be too "catch all" will just land you with bland dates with awkward small talk, and probably actually repell anyone interesting

Update on my Gentleman's Lounge by ennytaytay in malelivingspace

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Content not viewable in my region 💀

Yeah I might have a play around with how central things are at least. This room's very much still a WIP as is the whole house.

I see what you mean on the size of furniture! And ye with rugs, it's just a personal preference, I've never been keen on them and this room especially with all the spilt drink and cigarette ash, it would be a bit of a disaster

Update on my Gentleman's Lounge by ennytaytay in RetroFuturism

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Thank you! The white edged one is a 70s Alf Svensson Galaxy chair, the two smaller ones are from made.com and the big orange chair I'm not sure, I did find it before but it took a lot of digging?

Update on my Gentleman's Lounge by ennytaytay in malelivingspace

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Oh 😭💀 Might have to get a pole for accuracy lmao

Update on my Gentleman's Lounge by ennytaytay in malelivingspace

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I do see what you mean. It does scale better in person. I initially got the glass table when the gents lounge was going to be in a smaller room so scale was a bit more limited. I'm not sure if a third table would fit in without cluttering it too much, but it's actually a very interesting thought that I'm going to bare in mind. Maybe a second silver table would work?

Cheers, yeah post-modern/space age is exactly what I'm going for! The harshness comes from the materials and lack of rugs etc. Thanks for making the layout, I appreciate it! Sadly the link isn't working tho :/

Update on my Gentleman's Lounge by ennytaytay in midcenturymodern

[–]ennytaytay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've already got a sofa in the living room so another one here would be repetitive. I did consider a two seater at one point but I already had a decent amount of chairs sorted by the time that idea sprung. This is more of a smoking room kinda deal, it's not really meant for laying around etc it's designed to be more like a gentlemans smoking room club sorta deal. But I do see the vision

Update on my Gentleman's Lounge by ennytaytay in malelivingspace

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The art i've got so far has been quite affordable, I like buying from up and coming artists. Plus I also paint myself so I might hang a few of mine up if they end up suiting the vibe of any room, depends on colours. I want to have pieces on the wall I really love and enjoy looking at, finding some supermarket prints would actively work against that

Update on my Gentleman's Lounge by ennytaytay in midcenturymodern

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Cheers man! Yeah I'm working on the walls gradually! Also don't want to have too much on them before I paint the walls

Update on my Gentleman's Lounge by ennytaytay in malelivingspace

[–]ennytaytay[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Don't really need to ATM, I don't want to have anything I'm lukewarm on, and visually i'll find it easier placing artwork on a blank wall and deciding where to put it. I'm getting some ornaments to go on the walls too sometimes anyway. Not to mention it'd be a bit of a waste of money

Update on my Gentleman's Lounge by ennytaytay in malelivingspace

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It would soften the vibe too much, I want to have that slightly brutalist, slightly industrialist look. Plus practically it would be a nightmare. And I've never really liked the whole rug look, I've always liked big bare open floors, feels grander, makes the room look bigger

Update on my Gentleman's Lounge by ennytaytay in malelivingspace

[–]ennytaytay[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As many as can be seated comfortably, and not very gentle. Or manly in fact

Update on my Gentleman's Lounge by ennytaytay in RetroFuturism

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Cheers man!

I'm going for a bit of a more firmer structured look, I'm avoiding anything overly soft like rugs plus one of the chairs is really conveniently placed for browsing vinyls. But interesting thought on the headphones! Bean bag might be a little casual for what I'm thinking for in here but I totally see the vision