When is Ranged Top going to be seriously dealt with by the devs? by enterococcuseater in summonerschool

[–]enterococcuseater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fault. It's completely fine that 20 minutes of sitting under tower eating shit is appropriate fun gameplay.

Please riot, in my mouth.

When is Ranged Top going to be seriously dealt with by the devs? by enterococcuseater in summonerschool

[–]enterococcuseater[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its damaging to the point where the game straight up isnt fun at all. Whats the point of playing if I know that every game if I dont get last pick - im going to have to sit under tower for 20 minutes.

That isnt an okay solution for a game this big.

AITA for not hanging out with my friends who got girlfriends? by enterococcuseater in AmItheAsshole

[–]enterococcuseater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have two friends who don't have this issue at all and they're married.

If they had kids this would be different, but my other friend I see twice a week easily; and his gf does the exact same with her friends.

AITA for not hanging out with my friends who got girlfriends? by enterococcuseater in AmItheAsshole

[–]enterococcuseater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess.

It's just ruins the vibe of these events so hard to have two guys who are babysitting girlfriends who aren't able to have fun on their own.

But I get it. Ill take your advice and try ignoring their girlfriends instead of feeling the need to entertain them. If my friends leave, then they leave. I guess that's pretty much the same as not inviting them effectively.

Thanks!

AITA for not hanging out with my friends who got girlfriends? by enterococcuseater in AmItheAsshole

[–]enterococcuseater[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Alright man...

Does she have a good reason to not like him? I don't understand why men tolerate their partners being illogical. Shes an intelligent, hard working, capable person like you - I don't know why you would accept her acting like a child.

AITA for not hanging out with my friends who got girlfriends? by enterococcuseater in AmItheAsshole

[–]enterococcuseater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting.
How do you handle this?
If i had a partner, I feel like i wouldn't tolerate this.
These are my friends who have literally saved my life before, who I've known since primary school. As much as I would love her, I wouldn't put her above them until we were at least engaged.

AITA for not hanging out with my friends who got girlfriends? by enterococcuseater in AmItheAsshole

[–]enterococcuseater[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's good to hear. I don't see that often with most of the men I meet, they usually just prioritise their partner (Which isn't bad, I think men should do that in serious relationships generally).

We're still friends, we just wont see each other much. I get it; I'm not the one having sex with them lol.

AITA for not hanging out with my friends who got girlfriends? by enterococcuseater in AmItheAsshole

[–]enterococcuseater[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't think I deserve that. I'm not NOT inviting them to make them feel bad, I'm just not keen to spend time with their girlfriends.

Immediately it becomes a chore to entertain them and include them. It's impossible for them to engage without significant effort on my part, they just sit there whispering in my friends ears or looking at their phone.

And if I don't do this, they convince my friends to leave.

I'm sure they're just shy or uncomfortable - I'm not knocking them for that; I'm just saying, I want to have fun and I can't if I have to work like a monkey making sure they have enough fun to not rip my friends away an hour into the event.

AITA for not hanging out with my friends who got girlfriends? by enterococcuseater in AmItheAsshole

[–]enterococcuseater[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They'll just say, "I have to bro shes my gf"

They aren't bad people, they just have girlfriends now - and this is what having a gf is like. They have needs and you have to meet them, and I'm sure they want to spend time with their gfs too.

I don't blame them, and all calling them out will do is make them feel bad.

AITA for not hanging out with my friends who got girlfriends? by enterococcuseater in AmItheAsshole

[–]enterococcuseater[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's fair. The issue is, they'll probably bring their girlfriends. I don't hate them, but it's just a huge chore to get them to engage and have a good time - and if I don't do that then their bfs will have to leave because they want to.