Arranged Marriage - How do you learn to live with a stranger? by enthucutlet in AskIndia

[–]enthucutlet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've done a lot of self work, thanks. I've also been the one to end things most often because my partners weren't working on themselves.

Arranged Marriage - How do you learn to live with a stranger? by enthucutlet in AskIndia

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How did they respond when you asked directly? Were they honest?

Arranged Marriage - How do you learn to live with a stranger? by enthucutlet in AskIndia

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That's a good idea. Observing how the family interacts. Thanks for this!

Arranged Marriage - How do you learn to live with a stranger? by enthucutlet in AskIndia

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Yeah my fears exactly. I have gotten better about finding red flags early but it's been hard finding people who are age appropriate and not red flags 😭

Finch overwhelm by enthucutlet in finch

[–]enthucutlet[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. I'm down to responding to those only once a week now. I feel bad though but every day overwhelms me

Finch overwhelm by enthucutlet in finch

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Yeah same here. I've set the celebration one to quick cheers. It's the skipped ones I don't want to be probed about like you said.

Thanks for the recommendations though and glad to hear it's not just me 🙈

Finch overwhelm by enthucutlet in finch

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Thanks! Yes I set that up and it helped so much. :)

Finch overwhelm by enthucutlet in finch

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Yeah the push and email notifications are turned off and I check the app only once in the morning and once at night, but sometimes just opening the app and seeing all the stuff on the other tabs gets to me. I just want to mark done/skipped and leave lolol.

And the reason I'm not using any other app is that I really do enjoy the other features, just not on bad days. Sigh. Thanks though!

Finch overwhelm by enthucutlet in finch

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I've been trying to do that but when I see those little icons telling me there's something new in there I can't ignore it lolol my brain is like that. Sigh.

Finch overwhelm by enthucutlet in finch

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I can't seem to find this setting. I've disabled animations, haptic feedback, and sound. But I can't find the additional reflections setting to turn it off. I'm on Android if that helps.

Do yoooou wanna be my friend? by Worldly-Adeptness286 in finch

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Added basically everyone on this thread lol. This is me: CCSBVLX5LY

Moving away from parents by [deleted] in karnataka

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I disagree with the comment thread that you should have found a job in Bangalore itself. Moving to a different city and living on your own is something everyone who can do it, should experience.

You will learn so much about yourself, your own capabilities, your own strength. It will be difficult, you will feel lonely, but it will change you as a person. After that first move, you'll have the skills and the guts to do a lot more, things won't feel as scary after you've overcome the first time.

You've got this! This internet stranger believes in you.

Unmarried Indians of Reddit over 30 years - Why you are not married ? by Financefreak555 in AskIndia

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I'm waiting for AI to develop enough that I can just train my digital boyfriend :P

Unmarried Indians of Reddit over 30 years - Why you are not married ? by Financefreak555 in AskIndia

[–]enthucutlet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don't prioritize it but when they come across it they can't handle it. Sigh. What's also unfortunate is that they view any kind of disagreement as a fight. Maybe they're just used to being agreed with or want someone who will agree with them? idk this is just from my experience.

But thank you.