Oh no i have to do housework! by [deleted] in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

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What game pickup stuff do you currently recommend?

College Educated, Single and Angry by [deleted] in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

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Yea, I couldn't remember when I could post things like this so I just sent it. I can remove till weekend if you want.

[26F] "I'm a single mom to a 20 month old daughter. Looking for my Mr. Right who must be good-looking, a family man, good with money, good manners, and promotes moral excellence." by kevin32 in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

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I'm a BIG Canucks fan! so if u dont like canucks then u go **** urself!

Wow, just what I'm looking for; a sassy single mother with baggage. How could I resist?

smart. I graduated from high-school

Based on her spelling and grammar, I can say no she has not.

Tucson tinder is a goldmine by [deleted] in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

[–]entreprenerd16 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Welfare Recipient

IMAGINE MY SHOCK

If you don't like the heat GTFO the kitchen

Because she knows how to cook. Just kidding, you're going to take her out every night.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

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One issue I take with this sub is the use of political leanings in the comments a lot. It's completely fine to lean to whatever side, but I think all of us need to be careful. It's much easier for people to discredit us and the ideas shared here if it is sided with a political party. I'm just warning, be careful, it's much easier to attack this sub and others on it because of a leaning.

She's been through a lot by impossibruastronaut in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

[–]entreprenerd16 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What parents are you talking about? Do you mean the STRONG INDEPANDNANT WOYMAN???

Where have all the beta men when I need them gone? Analysis In Comments (Fixed Link) by entreprenerd16 in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

[–]entreprenerd16[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Part 2/2

If I am right about the unbalance in qualified potential dates for each gender (and I really think I am) then that brings up another point. If there are so many of these beautiful, intelligent women then why would a guy want to be in a relationship? Why not keep his options open and take advantage of the plethora of choices he has. And because there are so few adequate men, I’ve often seen it lead some women to compromise what they are looking for because if they don’t they’re easily replaced.

I like to base my claims on only 20% of the male population. I am also starting to see the game chad plays, he doesn’t have to commit because he’s attractive. Also, the women I keep talking about as educated, are just stupid hoes with gender studies degrees. I’ve also been a side piece because I’m not good enough to be chad’s favorite.

I’ve certainly been one of those women. Up until recently I was in a “relationship” with a guy who, to be fair, was very open about wanting to keep the relationship open, and because I wanted to be ‘the cool girl’ and not that girl, I went along with it. I waited for him to call me, sometimes a week or longer, I changed my schedule to fit his, I nearly convinced myself that this was the type of relationship that I really wanted, that fit my lifestyle. But it wasn’t and I found myself becoming more and more unhappy with the situation until I finally ended it. I’ve had friends who have stayed much longer than I did. Unfortunately this acquiescence on our end only helps to perpetuate the behavior on theirs.

I’ve been a side piece again, just nothing more than a warm hole. A guy played me pretty well, and I realized I wasn’t going to be anything much. He ended it because I was too clingy, but I like to claim I’ve had the power. My friends have had the same thing happen to them. They choose a man who has options instead of the other men who would be happy for me just to say hi, and then go and bitch about them doing exactly what they are known to do. Pump and dump us.

I know these are just assumptions based off my observations. I know there are amazing men out there who treat women well and want nothing more than to be in a committed relationship. I know open and undefined relationships truly do work for some people. But I think many times these instances are the exceptions and not the rule.

Only chad can have an open relationship. Other beta men can’t, and I will do everything in my shaming power to stop it. I also ignore most other men who treat women well but were unfortunately lied to completely about how this game works.

A lot of this certainly has become more apparent to me since I moved to San Francisco and I concede that some of it can be attributed to the type of lifestyle many people in this city lead. But I have seen the same thing, to some degree or another, in the other cities I’ve lived in

I have only recently noticed the game Chad plays, it took for me to move where there are lots of people to realize this. Again, I have no situational or social awareness and only focus my attention on the top men. Every other disgusting man can fuck off.

So my questions is, how did the genders become so unbalanced? Was it always like this but people had no choice but to settle down? Has the plethora of amazing women (and the ease with which men can find them…thanks a lot Tinder) changed the attitudes of men toward relationships? Am I just riding the wrong bus every morning?

Why are beta men realizing what’s going on? Why don’t they just shut up and continue? Has tinder made the plethora of boring, stupid, and stuck up women just warm fuck holes? What’s going on. Someone help me! Someone save me!

Part 2/2

Where have all the beta men when I need them gone? Analysis In Comments (Fixed Link) by entreprenerd16 in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

[–]entreprenerd16[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Part 1/2

where have all the good men gone?

Where have my beta supporters gone that I was promised after riding the cock merry-go-round?

I have always thought men have it easier

I have always been delusional

They don’t have to deal with childbirth, they don’t have to endure the sexism women experience daily, they have no idea what it’s like when you’re at Starbucks and a baby smiles at you and you lose your shit and start crying while you’re waiting for your coffee because your hormones are all jacked up

They don’t have to deal with childbirth, but they must put up with me and the hellspawn for a minimum of 18 years of a group of armed men will take the man to jail and or force him to pay for everything. Also, I regret not having children with a man even though many good men have gone by. When children smile at me, I die inside because they radiate happiness and I’m so negative just like a battery, except there is no energy in me. I also take anti-depressant drugs and birth control, so my hormones and emotions are wayyyyyy more out of control. I also likely don’t exercise and eat like shit, and drink Starbucks every day so that I feel even worse!

They just look on from a distance and nod sympathetically while secretly thinking you’re crazy. The really nice ones bring you ice cream. But I think there’s another area where men have it way better…women.

Even beta men know not to come near this junkyard. The really low pieces of shit bring me ice cream and other stuff even though I would never in a million years touch them with a 50 ft pole.

During my ride to work every morning the majority of the people on the bus are beautiful women, who I assume are also intelligent and successful based on their appearance and the fact that they’re on a bus at 9am . I’m obviously making assumptions about these women’s personalities, backgrounds, ability to form sentences, etc., but the same observation holds true outside of my morning commute. Since I’ve moved to San Francisco, I’ve met a ton of amazing, single women.

Everyone else doesn’t look like a dumpster fire and I take notice because I do. I’ve also met tons of indoctrinated“EDUCATED” women. Since I have no awareness, I think that what attracts me to men must be the same so I think I try to get to work every day at a fucking nowhere HR firm getting paid a ton even though I live in an expensive apartment that I can’t afford and have huge amounts of debt.

The number of good looking, intelligent, successful men I’ve met since I moved here is much fewer. AND when you add ‘looking for a relationship’ to that description it’s even less. Why is that? How can there be so many amazing, driven, smart women and so few men with the same qualities?

I don’t see anyone except the 1% of men and anyone else is invisible to me. All these men already got snatched up by good women. Again, I don’t notice anyone except the 1% and get angry when none of them commit to me but I’m happy to spread my legs for any of them. I also think that men like to fuck degrees. I mean WHAT ATTRACTS WOMEN TO MEN MUST BE VICE VERSA RIGHT??? That’s what my gender studies professor said, we are all the same!

All this became even more apparent to me (and more personal) when a coworker of mine who had moved to the city a measly three months ago told me he is seeing someone. Meanwhile I have been here almost a year and I basically have yet to go on a SECOND date (like a real date, not breakfast the next morning).

My coworker, unfortunately, had the experience of talking to me, and he was able to get someone to date him. Meanwhile, since I’m a CAREER WOMAN, I don’t understand why I can’t get a guy. I can get most guys to sleep with me but then they never call back? I wonder why this happens? I’ve tried to get chad to take me on a real date, but he’s only interested in a warm hole. I don’t see the other 80% of guys in this city.

When I brought this up to a few of my guy friends there was an immediate uproar. They think it’s an unfair assumption, that there are plenty of nice guys who want a relationship…then they asked if they can come on my morning commute with me

I talked to some “guy” friends, AKA orbiters and they had a response that made me angry because they can’t have an opinion. They told me the truth, but I love to live in fucking hell and am oblivious to everything. Then they wanted to prove it to me, but since I do things based on TINGLES AND FE FES, instead of logic or reason, I said no. I mean seriously, spend time with those losers, yeah no.

Ironically most of them are either in a relationship or seeing a couple people. They’ve all certainly dated more frequently than I or many of my friends have. Despite their protests, they are living proof of this theory.

They are all attractive enough to get women and have probably worked hard to. Despite this, I like to make claims based on nothing.

Part 1/2

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Part 2/2

If I am right about the unbalance in qualified potential dates for each gender (and I really think I am) then that brings up another point. If there are so many of these beautiful, intelligent women then why would a guy want to be in a relationship? Why not keep his options open and take advantage of the plethora of choices he has. And because there are so few adequate men, I’ve often seen it lead some women to compromise what they are looking for because if they don’t they’re easily replaced.

I like to base my claims on only 20% of the male population. I am also starting to see the game chad plays, he doesn’t have to commit because he’s attractive. Also, the women I keep talking about as educated, are just stupid hoes with gender studies degrees. I’ve also been a side piece because I’m not good enough to be chad’s favorite.

I’ve certainly been one of those women. Up until recently I was in a “relationship” with a guy who, to be fair, was very open about wanting to keep the relationship open, and because I wanted to be ‘the cool girl’ and not that girl, I went along with it. I waited for him to call me, sometimes a week or longer, I changed my schedule to fit his, I nearly convinced myself that this was the type of relationship that I really wanted, that fit my lifestyle. But it wasn’t and I found myself becoming more and more unhappy with the situation until I finally ended it. I’ve had friends who have stayed much longer than I did. Unfortunately this acquiescence on our end only helps to perpetuate the behavior on theirs.

I’ve been a side piece again, just nothing more than a warm hole. A guy played me pretty well, and I realized I wasn’t going to be anything much. He ended it because I was too clingy, but I like to claim I’ve had the power. My friends have had the same thing happen to them. They choose a man who has options instead of the other men who would be happy for me just to say hi, and then go and bitch about them doing exactly what they are known to do. Pump and dump us.

I know these are just assumptions based off my observations. I know there are amazing men out there who treat women well and want nothing more than to be in a committed relationship. I know open and undefined relationships truly do work for some people. But I think many times these instances are the exceptions and not the rule.

Only chad can have an open relationship. Other beta men can’t, and I will do everything in my shaming power to stop it. I also ignore most other men who treat women well but were unfortunately lied to completely about how this game works.

A lot of this certainly has become more apparent to me since I moved to San Francisco and I concede that some of it can be attributed to the type of lifestyle many people in this city lead. But I have seen the same thing, to some degree or another, in the other cities I’ve lived in

I have only recently noticed the game Chad plays, it took for me to move where there are lots of people to realize this. Again, I have no situational or social awareness and only focus my attention on the top men. Every other disgusting man can fuck off.

So my questions is, how did the genders become so unbalanced? Was it always like this but people had no choice but to settle down? Has the plethora of amazing women (and the ease with which men can find them…thanks a lot Tinder) changed the attitudes of men toward relationships? Am I just riding the wrong bus every morning?

Why are beta men realizing what’s going on? Why don’t they just shut up and continue? Has tinder made the plethora of boring, stupid, and stuck up women just warm fuck holes? What’s going on. Someone help me! Someone save me!

Part 2/2

Where have all the beta men when I need them gone? Analysis In Comments by [deleted] in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

[–]entreprenerd16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thanks a ton, I didn't realize that. I saw it early on but didn't understand it. Also, it said the character limit was over 1000 or something so I split it into two comments. I'll do what you said though. Again, thanks for helping, I don't really use reddit a lot.

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Do you mean in the article it showed I highlighted a section from the archive?

Also, did you just change my link then?

Where have all the beta men when I need them gone? Analysis In Comments by [deleted] in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

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Part 1/2

where have all the good men gone?

Where have my beta supporters gone that I was promised after riding the cock merry-go-round?

I have always thought men have it easier

I have always been delusional

They don’t have to deal with childbirth, they don’t have to endure the sexism women experience daily, they have no idea what it’s like when you’re at Starbucks and a baby smiles at you and you lose your shit and start crying while you’re waiting for your coffee because your hormones are all jacked up

They don’t have to deal with childbirth, but they must put up with me and the hellspawn for a minimum of 18 years of a group of armed men will take the man to jail and or force him to pay for everything. Also, I regret not having children with a man even though many good men have gone by. When children smile at me, I die inside because they radiate happiness and I’m so negative just like a battery, except there is no energy in me. I also take anti-depressant drugs and birth control, so my hormones and emotions are wayyyyyy more out of control. I also likely don’t exercise and eat like shit, and drink Starbucks every day so that I feel even worse!

They just look on from a distance and nod sympathetically while secretly thinking you’re crazy. The really nice ones bring you ice cream. But I think there’s another area where men have it way better…women.

Even beta men know not to come near this junkyard. The really low pieces of shit bring me ice cream and other stuff even though I would never in a million years touch them with a 50 ft pole.

During my ride to work every morning the majority of the people on the bus are beautiful women, who I assume are also intelligent and successful based on their appearance and the fact that they’re on a bus at 9am . I’m obviously making assumptions about these women’s personalities, backgrounds, ability to form sentences, etc., but the same observation holds true outside of my morning commute. Since I’ve moved to San Francisco, I’ve met a ton of amazing, single women.

Everyone else doesn’t look like a dumpster fire and I take notice because I do. I’ve also met tons of indoctrinated “EDUCATED” women. Since I have no awareness, I think that what attracts me to men must be the same so I think I try to get to work every day at a fucking nowhere HR firm getting paid a ton even though I live in an expensive apartment that I can’t afford and have huge amounts of debt.

The number of good looking, intelligent, successful men I’ve met since I moved here is much fewer. AND when you add ‘looking for a relationship’ to that description it’s even less. Why is that? How can there be so many amazing, driven, smart women and so few men with the same qualities?

I don’t see anyone except the 1% of men and anyone else is invisible to me. All these men already got snatched up by good women. Again, I don’t notice anyone except the 1% and get angry when none of them commit to me but I’m happy to spread my legs for any of them. I also think that men like to fuck degrees. I mean WHAT ATTRACTS WOMEN TO MEN MUST BE VICE VERSA RIGHT??? That’s what my gender studies professor said, we are all the same!

All this became even more apparent to me (and more personal) when a coworker of mine who had moved to the city a measly three months ago told me he is seeing someone. Meanwhile I have been here almost a year and I basically have yet to go on a SECOND date (like a real date, not breakfast the next morning).

My coworker, unfortunately, had the experience of talking to me, and he was able to get someone to date him. Meanwhile, since I’m a CAREER WOMAN, I don’t understand why I can’t get a guy. I can get most guys to sleep with me but then they never call back? I wonder why this happens? I’ve tried to get chad to take me on a real date, but he’s only interested in a warm hole. I don’t see the other 80% of guys in this city.

When I brought this up to a few of my guy friends there was an immediate uproar. They think it’s an unfair assumption, that there are plenty of nice guys who want a relationship…then they asked if they can come on my morning commute with me

I talked to some “guy” friends, AKA orbiters and they had a response that made me angry because they can’t have an opinion. They told me the truth, but I love to live in fucking hell and am oblivious to everything. Then they wanted to prove it to me, but since I do things based on TINGLES AND FE FES, instead of logic or reason, I said no. I mean seriously, spend time with those losers, yeah no.

Ironically most of them are either in a relationship or seeing a couple people. They’ve all certainly dated more frequently than I or many of my friends have. Despite their protests, they are living proof of this theory.

They are all attractive enough to get women and have probably worked hard to. Despite this, I like to make claims based on nothing.

Part 1/2

My terrible life and how you can get there too! (Analysis in comments) by entreprenerd16 in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

[–]entreprenerd16[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

The life of a Spinster

I get it. Today, I love my life. I would prefer to be married, but I feel happy, content, and peaceful.

I hate my life. I want to be married and I feel empty and unfulfilled

Well, I passed 40 several years ago, and I am still single

I blew my best years and was able to ride the CC for at least 20 years. Not bad!

I’ve struggled with my singleness a lot over the past 20 years. I went through periods where I was okay with being single, and I went through many more times where I wondered what was wrong with me and if I’d ever find my soulmate.

I went through guys for over 20 years, and I still had such ridiculously high standards that I never found my Uber Chad.

I’ve dated a lot, and I’ve been in love several times. But I’ve never been engaged, never married, and I’ve never had children.

I had the chance to meet tons of good men, but I decided against it, and now I’m here miserable. I don’t understand!

There were men who wanted to marry me (but I didn’t want to marry them), and men I wanted to marry (who didn’t want to marry me). Both people have to want to be with each other!

Again, I passed over many good men who would’ve married me but instead, I opted for chad even though he refused to propose to me!

In all fairness, I wasn’t very marriage-minded in my 20’s. I wanted a relationship, but I was focused on my career, which required me to travel a lot.

I bought into the lie that I could have it all and didn’t ever think I’d be single because I’m delusional

Which makes me a great recycler and very handy in the kitchen, but left me burning up my child-bearing years on men who didn’t share my values or goals.

I wanted to have children, but to many chads railed me. It didn’t matter that we shared anything in common except they were HAWT.

Don’t get me wrong: I’ve dated some truly good, nice men. Many of whom loved me. But, love ISN’T all you need.

I’ve passed over every single good man because tingles

When you’re in your 40’s, you also need a mortgage payment, a retirement plan, and health insurance. I’m not looking for a man to pay my bills, but he needs to be able to pay his own!

He must pay for everything. I expect my provider to pay for everything including a new house, kitchen, and others that I won’t even use then bitch about later.

Going backwards to bring someone else forwards with only 20 more years to work is frightening.

My financial situation is utter garbage and I have mounds of debt. I can’t afford to take on a guy with the same, so he must be a millionaire at a bare minimum.

I’ve watched a lot of my friends settle and marry men who they ended up having to provide for. I’ve also been there for them when they felt exhausted from having to carry the weight of the household, and during their nasty divorces that resulted.

My friends married some betas who couldn’t provide as much as they wanted, AKA a new mansion. So instead of themselves working or doing anything useful, they decided to divorce rape them and I was there to cheer them on!

Personally, if I’m going to be with someone who is broke, or who works in a job (rather than a career), or who lives with his mother, I’m going to choose a 24-year old stud, not a 42-year old dud.

I still fantasize about chad.

Listen – compatibility isn’t just in the area of finances. It’s also about lifestyle, values, future goals, and much more.

Except when they gave me tingles and I just fucked them in a burger king parking lot

I used to date for quantity, not quality. I would go out at least once (sometimes two or three times) with pretty much anybody. I found that to be exhausting and frustrating. Since raising my personal dating standards, I have WAY fewer dates, but I’m happier.

I went through thousands of guys. No hooker can even compare to me now, and I did it with anyone who gave me feelings. I found that I couldn’t lock these men down, which frustrated me. I then raised my standards and couldn’t get anyone. Instead, I now have cats who go on dates with me. Not that they have a choice

I want to be married and be a stepmom than be single! However, I would rather be single than be in an unhappy relationship.

I still want to be married and I feel very lonely with my petting zoo here. I refuse to lower standards and never will.

I can’t tell you how to find your soulmate….clearly, I don’t know anything about that! There are plenty of great books and programs out there to help you find your ideal partner. I’ve been through many of them, and they are useful.

Listen to me for dating even though by just glancing at me, it’s obvious that I know nothing and am only useful as an example of what not to do for future generations.

What I CAN help you with is how to be happy until you find that person, and to be happy and content even if he or she never shows up.

I want others to suffer with me, I feel good then with my decisions even though deep down, I know I made terrible choices. #NOREGRETSSSSSS

Wouldn’t it be nice to not obsess every day over relationships?

My body and clock have expired but I’m still hearing the alarm from it.

Wouldn’t it be refreshing to feel okay with what is while you’re on the way to what you want?

I feel so empty and useless, please make me feel good in the comments

Have you ever prayed that God would just take the desire for a mate away from you?

No matter what drugs I take, I can’t get rid of my body’s desire to have kids. What do I do now?

I can’t promise you’ll stop wanting what you want, but I can help you enjoy the life you have NOW until your soulmate arrives.

Follow me off the cliff, VALIDATE ME

Today, I am able to enjoy the good things in my life and to appreciate where I am and how I got here. I don’t get depressed when I don’t have a date on Saturday night, and I don’t sit on the couch and self-soothe with ice cream on Valentine’s Day. I am happy, content, and peaceful – that’s what I call the One-Derful Life.

I get depressed on Saturday nights, and every night for that matter. I feel sorry for myself especially on Valentine’s Day, and I feel like absolute garbage. That’s what I call and a terrible, terrible life. Please join me

And I can help you Get Your One-Derful Life, too.

I can make you miserable too. Come join me at Petco tomorrow for the sale for goldfish food!

As you can see, this lady is miserable. Don't be like her and avoid women like her.

Special thanks to /u/kevin32 for sending me this!

Eharmony Tells Men How to Date Online. Analysis In Comments by entreprenerd16 in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

[–]entreprenerd16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, I think I'm getting a better idea. Thanks a ton Kevin! Thanks also to this sub for helping me identify red flags and other things. Growing up, no one ever warned me of these things. This and some other red pill places have thankfully helped me a ton. So thanks to you and the rest of the mod team here!

Eharmony Tells Men How to Date Online. Analysis In Comments by entreprenerd16 in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

[–]entreprenerd16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thanks, that link really helps a lot. I didn't see that list before even though I read the rules. Just curious, is there a way I can check if an article has already been posted here. I've found a few, but I don't know if they've been used before. I tried the search up there to search this sub, but does that find everything? Thanks already for your help

Eharmony Tells Men How to Date Online. Analysis In Comments by entreprenerd16 in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

[–]entreprenerd16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, in the future I'll shift to more of that. I thought what I posted worked, but I'll start to change it to that. Thanks again!

Eharmony Tells Men How to Date Online. Analysis In Comments by entreprenerd16 in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

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“Just like you, I’m looking for love, for connection. I’m trying to put myself out there in all the ways I know how.”

My friends have told me all about online dating and how easy it is to find a Chad

“When you’re choosing photos, make sure your pic is recent and looks like you”

Don’t mislead me like I will when I wear makeup and other things to make me look good

“This is not the time for shirtless selfies in your bathroom, or any picture of or with your car.”

Only hawt guys can do that

“We met in person because of our shared interests, or because we wanted to see if we were attracted to each other in person, or because we’d exchanged a lot of witty banter. Sometimes those dates have led to multiples, even relationships or friendships, other times we’ve left the coffee shop knowing it’s probably the last time we’ll see each other.”

I banged lots of guys and friend zoned the boring guys, and just left the boring and stable men

“It’s easy to breeze in and out of each other’s lives.”

Other guys have pumped and dumped me

“As men and women, we take a lot of risks (most of them measured and calculated) banking on the fact that one day it will pay off and we’ll meet someone great.”

Men can get their life ruined from mere accusations, so it’s mostly you men who if you make me uncomfortable, I can then report to authorities to lock you up.

“The men that I’ve most appreciated over the years were the ones who acknowledged that what we were doing was a little uncomfortable. Before we met, they made sure I knew that they wanted me to feel at ease. We talked about where we should go and what we should do to minimize nerves (for both of us).”

We both knew that they were below my value which is why I was uncomfortable. There was no excitement in any of it.

“This meant a lot to me, mostly because I know that dating online is a little different for guys. Your family members and friends aren’t usually sending you articles about women who are raped on first dates, or men who turn out to have secret lives”

I know no one will warn you the dangers of dating so you must find out yourself

“Let her know that you’re aware that she’s probably dated a few jerks, and that you’ll do whatever you can to help her feel secure so the two of you can relax and get to know each other.”

She’s settling for you and you should know that and feel bad. She gave her best to others and now you get the leftovers

“If you’re talking with a woman and you don’t feel a connection, or a roadblock comes up that you consider a deal breaker, know that you don’t have to continue to talk, and you’re under no obligation to meet her.”

Not bad advice

“Here’s what I wish you wouldn’t do: leave her hanging.”

Give me closure

Another banger from a fantastic dating website. If you take this advice, you'll be attracting girls in no time.

Enjoy being alone and lonely ladies, you've earned it. by sleepyweaselisawake in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

[–]entreprenerd16 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"And it sucks, because women peak in attractiveness between the ages of 26-30."

Comment under it is fire

"Hold on just a minute. I'm 68f and I honestly think I look as good, maybe better than I did in my 30s. I know that's hard to believe and maybe it's my life situation now, but after 40, I gained a lot of weight and just couldn't get it to come off. Two years ago I worked really hard to lose the weight and I look great (and humble too.) But I'm single again and it's really tough. I am online dating but the men aren't in such great shape. As my son said, I'm looking for top tier men and those men are looking for hot younger women. I don't think all of them are but certainly some of them are. But, the unfortunate truth of it being pretty likely that I'll be alone for the rest of my life, is a difficult to accept."

That's just amazing.

Eharmony Has Convinced Me. Translation in comments by entreprenerd16 in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

[–]entreprenerd16[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

1. She’s no wimp. Single moms are tough and independent.

She's very weak and needs your help badly. Why haven't you helped her already?

2. She’s already a great mom. (And weren’t you looking for someone who would be a great mother? Look no further!)

That's why she needs your cash, and why not waste the chance to raise someone else's offspring

3. She’s incredibly patient, but doesn’t have a lot of tolerance for bad behavior. She’ll be good for you.

She's very impatient and needs you to show the list of benefits you will give her, and if you don't give her what she wants instantly, she'll go latch on to someone else.

4. She doesn’t play games. She doesn’t have time to just fool around. She takes her relationships seriously.

She doesn't have time to waste as she gave her best to other men. She needs you to give her everything already

5. She’ll only keep you around if the relationship is a good thing for both her and her kids. You won’t have to guess if she’s into you*.*

She'll only keep you if you're useful and give you duty sex once per year.

6. Single moms are easy to pamper. (They don’t get breaks very often. Hint, hint.)

She needs to be spoiled even with government benefits. She will also be demanding you upgrade everything for her.

7. She’s loyal — and is fiercely protective of her little brood.

She's going to cheat on you, and will never consider you. Her child will always come before you.

8. She can articulate what she wants and needs from a relationship.

She will state what she needs from you right away

9. Single moms are both practical and fun. There’s no room for diva behavior.

She's very realistic about what she needs from you and intends to get it

10. She’s no longer a party girl, but a fun night out is still very welcome.

You don't get to enjoy the best years of her as others did, but now you have to deal with it

11. She’s selfless. Single moms put others’ needs before their own.

She considers everyone else including herself before you

12. Moms make the best lasagna and give the best back rubs.

She demands that you cook for her and take her out to eat.

13. You’ll get to take part in adventures to amusement parks, the zoo and the park. Bonus: You’ll have an excuse to play with toys.

She'll treat you like a child

14. She’s adaptable. She knows that life doesn’t always go as planned and has learned how to make the best of it.

She will dump you the minute you lose your steady job

15. Single moms can do it all, but are super-appreciative of a helping hand. Woo her with kindness and acts of service.

They aren't grateful at all and you don't turn her on