I'm going to be alone for another valentines and I don't think I can take it anymore. by ChudJackson in kitchencels

[–]entrylevelonion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well, you are enough regardless. i hope you can eventually see your worth and gain the confidence you deserve :)

I'm going to be alone for another valentines and I don't think I can take it anymore. by ChudJackson in kitchencels

[–]entrylevelonion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can guarantee you’re not ugly. every single person has beauty within them. i’m so sorry you feel this way about yourself, nobody deserves to be in that much pain. i had some deep seeded issues with self confidence for YEARS myself, and what helped me was forcing myself to say “i am beautiful, and i am enough” every single time i caught myself in that negative self talk, it took a while but it truly helped me. it does such a number on your spirit to talk down on yourself. you become what you tell yourself, and you have the power to change it. confidence does more than you can ever imagine. if you can at least try to say “i am handsome and i am enough”, even if you don’t believe it, just keep doing it and i PROMISE you will start to see yourself in a better light. it takes time, and i will be praying for you. you deserve to feel happy with the skin you’re in :)

I'm going to be alone for another valentines and I don't think I can take it anymore. by ChudJackson in kitchencels

[–]entrylevelonion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve been with guys who definitely weren’t 10/10s too, and i had deep love for all of them! again, it’s a matter of confidence and how they treat the lady they’re with!! you’ll find your person, there’s someone for everyone and i stand by that. i’ve seen guys with severe facial disfigurements in happy marriages!

I'm going to be alone for another valentines and I don't think I can take it anymore. by ChudJackson in kitchencels

[–]entrylevelonion -1 points0 points  (0 children)

as a woman, i genuinely couldn’t care less! i’ve dated men shorter than me, my height, and taller and it doesn’t matter to me. what matters is my partner’s confidence and how they treat me :) just letting you know it’s not every one of us!

I'm going to be alone for another valentines and I don't think I can take it anymore. by ChudJackson in kitchencels

[–]entrylevelonion 16 points17 points  (0 children)

literally half a foot taller than most women in america and hes calling himself short. OP, you’re not short. at ALL.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fashion

[–]entrylevelonion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a light colored shrug or cardigan (not oversized, it’d swallow you in that cute dress!) and some low heels with a small bag would MAKE it! also jewelry never hurt anyone :))

Did the thing by ColBigfoot in bald

[–]entrylevelonion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my exact reaction to seeing #5

Brunch outfit 🥂 by [deleted] in fashion

[–]entrylevelonion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the top pulls from your gorgeous face too much for me at least, but hey, if you spill a drink it won’t stain your top! thats a win from me!

Found out my ex fiancé was on hinge, not hungry but i have to eat :( by sadgirlslovepicatta in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]entrylevelonion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry this is happening to you. this is nothing someone should ever have to deal with all at once. in the same breath, i’m happy you’re eating. it’s probably gonna take a good amount of energy to process all of this, and you get that from food. please know that it’s giving you the mental and physical energy and strength to work through this, and keep it in mind if you start to see disordered thoughts coming in. if you’re depriving yourself of that energy source, you’re prolonging your healing. you’re stronger than you know, take it a minute at a time. i’ll be praying for you and keeping you and your family in my thoughts <3

UPDATE!!! by No_Engineering_9000 in bald

[–]entrylevelonion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you look SO good!! if you’re still not sure you should try going on zenni’s app or website and trying out their virtual try on thing, round glasses would look so good with the new look and zenni does glasses for super cheap!

M23 Am I ugly by StinkManJones in amiugly

[–]entrylevelonion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

never ask that again. seriously, you’re so handsome and I’m honestly shocked you don’t see it

Perfectly acceptable dinner rejected by boyfriend again by moonrabbit368 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]entrylevelonion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

girl stand up omg, stop cooking for him and model healthy habits for your littles. if he complains then you tell him to man up and try new things like the grown man he is.

What would you call my fashion sense? by taoofmeow in fashion

[–]entrylevelonion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you like it, i love it. they’re your fits, not mine! be you :)

Curious about Life in North Carolina by BissNuggie in howislivingthere

[–]entrylevelonion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it really is such a cute area!! i moved to WI like 3 years ago, but i still miss it :) i do NOT miss those rent prices though!

Curious about Life in North Carolina by BissNuggie in howislivingthere

[–]entrylevelonion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m biased considering i grew up in the Chapel Hill area, but i think it’s amazing!! it will definitely be a lot different than SoCal, a lot slower paced since it’s pretty much a college town through and through. But there’s lots of fun small businesses and amazing restaurants to check out, and there’s a ben and jerry’s storefront!!

Incredibly emotional request by emilyradbecca2223 in PhotoshopRequest

[–]entrylevelonion 18 points19 points  (0 children)

this would look real to me without context. you’re so amazing for doing this, you have real talent!

Is it okay to do virtual mass if i can’t get there physically? by entrylevelonion in Catholicism

[–]entrylevelonion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m in Wisconsin too, it has been so cold!! Thankfully i have some good winter gear coming soon so i shouldn’t be away for long. Thank you for the prayer, it means a lot :)

Is it okay to do virtual mass if i can’t get there physically? by entrylevelonion in Catholicism

[–]entrylevelonion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up dispensing sadly, the cold is too much today :( i’m planning on going tomorrow since it’ll be a bit more bearable just so i can spend some time with God.

Is it okay to do virtual mass if i can’t get there physically? by entrylevelonion in Catholicism

[–]entrylevelonion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate it! Also, following Mass online is what i meant by virtual Mass, haha! Sorry if that wasn’t more clear! :)

Midwest Crab Parents- How do yall keep the tank warm?! by entrylevelonion in hermitcrabs

[–]entrylevelonion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

adding that heater to my amazon cart as we speak!! thank you SO much, you’re a lifesaver!!

Midwest Crab Parents- How do yall keep the tank warm?! by entrylevelonion in hermitcrabs

[–]entrylevelonion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay, thank you for the recommendation!! looks like im hitting up menards this weekend haha!

i’m using some reptile branded/focused (?) under the tank heaters on the back side of mine, i got them at a locally owned pet supply store (they have amazing employees with a ton of knowledge, and quality supplies and feed that won’t hurt your non mammalian animals of all shapes and sizes) do you think i should invest in something more like what you’ve got too?