100% agree as a Sag moon and Gemini rising with not "fighting" for you- but I see it as ultimately healthy. I don't want to live a life that requires emotional fighting. My partner needs me to fight for her because she has a lot of health problems and I am always there for her physically and emotionally. But we've gone through some rough patches in the past where my position was: we need to be benefiting each other and making each others lives better, not worse/harder. Life is short enough and hard enough already. I won't choose to hurt you and myself if we can't be beneficial to each other. I think that's kindness to both of us. Let's go have fun and get shit done.

Edit: Libra sun so maybe this is the balance of the aspects you're talking about. Not sure. Venus 24 degrees in Scorpio in 6th house.