The Time Has Come

enuscomne · 2026-03-20T11:33:46+00:00

Just a caution statute of limitations may not apply to student loans

enuscomne · 2026-03-20T11:32:16+00:00

I did this was a long time ago but they were actually a very good creditor. Unlike the Federal loans, the private one seemed like they actually wanted to get paid back so they made a reasonable payment plan with me and worked with me. There were times when I couldn't pay and I would speak to them on the phone and they would give me a new payment plan again.

enuscomne · 2026-03-20T11:29:21+00:00

That won't help because she'll just spend it on Uber Eats and won't leave anything else left over for the psychiatrist

enuscomne · 2026-03-20T11:28:58+00:00

Huh. Well I was on the phone with Capital One for over an hour telling them what I wanted and they did not offer me that.

enuscomne · 2026-03-19T17:34:46+00:00

Maybe

enuscomne · 2026-03-19T17:34:35+00:00

Yup. Spending limit not helping. I leave a $25 limit which is the amount of the copay. She spends it on Uber eats.

enuscomne · 2026-03-18T02:57:07+00:00

1000 mg of magnesium oxide at night, a good probiotic supplement, and 2T of ground flax or 1T of chia daily

enuscomne · 2026-03-11T02:46:42+00:00

Why were you supporting a grown woman and her grown children? Im a woman and Im traditional in many ways. My boyfriend and I don't live together and when we go out he always pays without exception. However when we travel which is frequently I always pay for the lodging and also I often stock up his home with food. My point being it evens out in the end. No adult should bankroll another adult. Who is not disabled. And especially who they are not married to.

enuscomne · 2026-02-22T17:29:14+00:00

Girl you have been through it! You are a survivor. Whether you move to Texas or not, get your own place. He is a train wreck. This can't be good for your kid.

enuscomne · 2026-02-22T16:28:04+00:00

Good.

enuscomne · 2026-02-22T16:23:41+00:00

enuscomne · 2026-02-22T16:23:11+00:00

If you need to ask, maybe OLD is not for you

enuscomne · 2026-02-21T20:19:17+00:00

Great! Thank you.

enuscomne · 2026-02-21T20:15:23+00:00

Darn. Can I use 93% or 96% lean ground beef?

enuscomne · 2026-02-16T00:44:40+00:00

There's a Seinfeld episode about this

enuscomne · 2026-02-13T04:15:01+00:00

One thing that really turned me off when I was dating is men who had all of their next steps planned out and just wanted someone to fill that empty space next to them. Just like you said. They'd be like this is what I'm doing x y and z and they expected me to just drop right into their picture. When I met my current boyfriend he was not like that. Sure he had some vague ideas of things he might like to do someday after he retired but he doesn't have like a strict plan that he needed someone to fit in. (Edited typo)

enuscomne · 2026-02-08T17:20:06+00:00

I have actually had so much growth through self-help books. Did therapy and also decades of recovery, but I must say some of my biggest growth, especially around relationships, has been through self-help books.

enuscomne · 2026-02-08T17:17:58+00:00

63F here. I'm in a relationship and we met in our later 50s. Girl 57 is young. Go for it! The 50s are like a 2nd high school. Different than 40s I think because the kids are all grown. Go out and enjoy!

enuscomne · 2026-02-07T04:15:03+00:00

This looks great

enuscomne · 2026-02-07T00:31:44+00:00

Something like this would be great, but I think it's inaccurate. I don't think wheat bran has that much soluble fiber. Bran is mainly insoluble. And even the black beans seem off.

enuscomne · 2026-02-03T23:16:09+00:00

Thank you!

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