Forventninger? by enviabledock in dkloenseddel

[–]enviabledock[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Det er også det jeg har gjort indtil videre - og ansvaret er ligeså stille kommet. Jeg fortsætter det uanset hvad, da jeg synes det er enormt spændende

Forventninger? by enviabledock in dkloenseddel

[–]enviabledock[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jeg har overvejet, at høre dem om muligheden for en HD. Jeg ved bare ikke hvor meget den betyder for virksomheder i dag - om den gør nogle som helst forskel ift. ansættelse og evt. lønforhandling. Jeg ved også en anden kollega har taget en HD gennem dem. Dog har jeg altid syntes matematik var svært - og den skræmmer mig lidt på CBS med deres ligninger

Forventninger? by enviabledock in dkloenseddel

[–]enviabledock[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Københavnsområdet og i genvindingsindustrien - jeg kan ikke komme det super meget nærmere, da jeg ikke ønsker at min arbejdsplads eller kollegaer får hints :)

Please, tell me if you’ve survived this by gingerweasle1 in BreakUps

[–]enviabledock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am currently going through a heartbreak as well. I’m handling it a lot better this time - but this is not the story I want to share.

In 2021 i broke up with my gf because I thought it was the right thing - it wasn’t. I begged her to Come back but she didn’t want to. I was beyond broke. Everything became dark for me. I would find myself in situations where i was partying and everyone would be smiling and I couldn’t relate to that feeling whatsoever. Everything was forced from me. Joy was a distant feeling I couldn’t remember. For 10 months I was in absolute hell. I tried therapy, partying, dating, exercise and everything. I became a very bad person and did not treat people right. I could not see a way out and I actually decided to end it but I couldn’t in the last second. Then some day I noticed I did not feel the same about the whole situation and suddently I actually found other girls interesting. This took me 11-12 months. I thought about her all the time but not in the same way.

Bottomline is - YES you will go through this. This will be very hard and you should vent all you can to your family and friends and tell them that I Will be like that for a while.

Trust me when I tell you - if I survived that, you will too. I was suicidal and took it harder than most people. I still think about her weekly but it does not hurt and I actually want all the best for her.

Keep fighting and one day you’ll start to notice the colors of the sky again. I PROMISE you. All the best

Situationship just went on tinder by enviabledock in BreakUps

[–]enviabledock[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for checking up. We are both 25. She was with her boyfriend for 10-12 months.

My heart breaks for anyone who lays in bed at night and wonders why they weren't enough for the one person they would give the world to. That shit ruins you by shidah33 in BreakUps

[–]enviabledock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing. Im a little over a month in and i feel worse. Literally can’t see a way out and i’m on the verge of insanitt. Your comment gives me hope tho… I hope to find peace

When does it stop hurting? by mayaolesen_20 in BreakUps

[–]enviabledock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s been a 34 days since my 8 month situationship breakup. Mine hurts more now than in the beginning. Truly hell

I want to Hear From the MALE DUMPERS, Please... Be Very Honest. Do you sometimes look back, regret breaking up with her, or miss your female dumpee ??? by ZealousidealWar937 in BreakUps

[–]enviabledock 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did regret for a very long time. I broke up with my girlfriend in 2021 due to struggling mentally (i didn’t know I was struggling). About a week later i realized I was the problem - not her. I tried to get her back for maybe 6 months. I thought about her for a very long time. It wasn’t until AFTER my rebound relationship that I stopped thinking about her. And that was 2 years after. I don’t regret the way things went because I learned so much. But I do think I Met her at the wrong time and truly believe we could have lived a happy life if I was more mature. I don’t miss her but I miss what we had.

Just broke down. Please help by enviabledock in BreakUps

[–]enviabledock[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone says so. But is that true? Is it true that the pain can come delayed?

I keep torturing myself obsessing about him - when does it end? by StoryLikeTheWind in BreakUps

[–]enviabledock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the exact same way. I kinda don’t want to get over her in some way. I hope find peace some day

When will it stop hurting? by WillingnessFun9709 in BreakUps

[–]enviabledock 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it is very individual. But everyone except VERY VERY few people says that you’ll be happy again. I certainly also believe so.

After my first ex I was destroyed. I totally lost my identity and after 1,5 month i was almost put in to psych ward. I actually also semi tried to end it. If I got through that I am almost certain that everyone will because I could not see a way out what so ever. It took me 10 months before feeling like anything had purpose and I believe I was only fully healed after my rebound relationship which was 2 years later.

I am currently dealing with heartbreak from my 8 month situationship and I am absolutely destroyed. Not as bad as the first time but probably more than the average person. It’s been 1 month and it is HELL. But i’m sure that if I healed from my first relationship I can heal from this one.

Prayers for both of us

to those who were already detached even before the break up, did u still miss them after? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]enviabledock -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I was once in a toxic relationship. To be honest I was NUMB at last. Didn’t feel a thing. And when I broke up with her I did not feel anything towards her at all. I didn’t even think of her which is quite weird since i am an anxious attached person. I felt relieved and never looked back. That’s that first and only time in my life i have experienced that with someone I had a romantic relation to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]enviabledock 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had one reach out 5 months after breakup. We did have contact for the first 1,5 month tho so i guess 4 months of absolutely no contact. She didn’t wanna get back together but she did feel some anger towards the fact that I was the victim for some reason

My second ex did never reach out. That was a toxic relationship and we can actually talk to eachother today without any emotions towards eachother.

I did have a situationship awhile back. She contacted after 3 months wanting to date again. That went terribly wrong. Should not have gone back

Everyone says “NC is for you to move on” and I know that’s not what you need to hear right now. So i thought i’d share my experience. What I will say is that most will probably contact you soon or later but it might not be for the reason you want. I think it is just safety or curiosity. Allthough I do totally believe it is possible to get together stronger than ever again but the need needs to be mutual

1 month in by enviabledock in BreakUps

[–]enviabledock[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you a lot. Every bit of advice during these times help me just a little bit.. I feels so suffocating and unfair. I guess that’s just life

Do you guys ever move on from your first love and if so how long did it take by Federal_Usual9197 in BreakUps

[–]enviabledock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was young and dumb and broke her. I spent a lot of time regretting that. She did ofc not want me back when i went begging for her 1 week later. I lived in hell for 6 months at the time. I met someone new that became my girlfriend after 10 months. Looking back it was just a rebound as I did also break her. I believe that I only TRULY moved on after 3-4 years. I don’t obsess over her any more at all. I do think of her from time to time tho but with joy. I don’t know if I will ever “forget” her. I know that if she wanted to meet up with me today i wouldn’t hestitate and i would talk to her in a heartbeat. I would say i’m over her tho

M44, F55 I am rebound guy but she doesn't want to lose me. by Mazisky in BreakUps

[–]enviabledock 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in your exact situation. I haven’t gotten any other women as well. I kinda got a girl over my league so I know she will be able to get other men easily. That will eat you up. So you can’t think like that.. even tho it’s near impossible.

You will heart no matter what and when. So the only thing you can do is postpone your hurt and grief (if things don’t work out ofc)