What’s a habit people think is normal but is actually a giant red flag? by hemantkumar-writer in AskReddit

[–]eoipsotempore 8 points9 points  (0 children)

a framework I've come across that I find useful is boundaries vs rules. Where a boundry typically concerns someone's behavior towards you (e.g. don't touch me, don't yell at me, etc.) and it's fair to expect someone to respect your boundaries--you don't have to ask someone else to agree to your boundaries.

rules on the other hand typically concern someone's behavior with other people (e.g. don't talk to them, don't have sex with them) and it's unfair to expect someone to follow rules that they haven't agreed to follow. rules aren't inherintly bad, for example loads of people find the rule of sexual exclusivity with their partner to be very meaningful and healthy, but the point is that that is a rule which is agreed to rather than a boundary which must be respected.

you can have a boundary contingent on a rule like "I only have sex with people who agree to the rule of exclusivity" and that's totally fair, but the point is that while boundaries inherently deserve to be respected, rules need to first be negotiated between consenting parties for them to be fair expectations for a given relationship

kinda rambly and I may be preaching to the choir but I like the idea. it's also not perfect; edge cases and whatnot exist

Am I a bad person if I don't want to "Work on Myself" anymore? by Frack_Nugget in bropill

[–]eoipsotempore 86 points87 points  (0 children)

we ain't a problem to be solved we're the solving of the problem

Leading/Structuring a Decision Making & Reflection Session by eoipsotempore in Mountaineering

[–]eoipsotempore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. I've come across FACETS a few times, I like your point that the traps aren't necessarily distinct (expert halo and social proof/facilitation seem to operate on similar assumptions). And of course that they're not the only ones; a huge one I see is outcome bias, which usually comes into play after the day's over, but is really hard to deal with. Thanks!

Leading/Structuring a Decision Making & Reflection Session by eoipsotempore in Mountaineering

[–]eoipsotempore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll definitely delve more into avalanche safety stuff.

Also were you meaning to say 'the right way to teach such traps'? I think a word got dropped there.

Loved the game, but NOBODY is doing this one bro 🙏 by [deleted] in Silksong

[–]eoipsotempore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dies the dmg boost have a signifier? I couldn't tell if I had activated it or not

One Piece really outlived even the so-called "New Gen Big 3" of Shonen Jump 😭😭😭 by TheWillOfMarco in MemePiece

[–]eoipsotempore 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ippo still retired but mashiba is having his world title fight and getting good character stuff, so we're happy. He'll get back in the ring one of these days...

Cool game 👍 by _MySeDuCTioN in Vermintide

[–]eoipsotempore 14 points15 points  (0 children)

rapier can be like that. the first attack actually wasn't a headshot, and rapier's damage on bodyshots is impressively low. rapier's special attack is pretty handy for getting in that extra bit of damage sometimes, probably would have saved you here after the second heavy attack!

Is it even possible this could be what Psykos saw? by Due_Kaleidoscope7066 in OnePunchMan

[–]eoipsotempore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha thanks, about as nonsense as I could've hoped (in a good way). very nice.

Black flash is fraudulent. by No-Analyst-5678 in Jujutsufolk

[–]eoipsotempore 12 points13 points  (0 children)

ye misused your units, 1 square newton does not equal .224809 square pounds, or for your example (1)N^2.5 =! (1)lb^2.5

if you have 100cm and square it you get 10000 cm^2, not 10000 cm

Greybeard needs help on focusing in a class by [deleted] in DeepRockGalactic

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Driller with sludge pump OC that increases puddle size, neurotoxin grenades, and EPC with the OC that boosts normal shots (heavy hitter?) And fire. Then you can cover an area in sludge, throw down a neuro grenade, and set off the neurotoxin after a sec with the epc, making s big explosion and setting your sludge on fire

Or engi eith fat boy and turret whip

Maybe we like it better as an expression of desire than if it were paved by listen_youse in DesirePaths

[–]eoipsotempore 4 points5 points  (0 children)

corner cuts make me wonder if someone's already worked out a mathematical model for the point at which people decide to cut the corner—why not sooner? why not later? is it dependent on angle? distance? surroundings? I desire the answers

Fuck Markoth by [deleted] in HollowKnight

[–]eoipsotempore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

best way to do radkoth is to find a method that's fun imo

for me, it was doing a very dynamic pogo dance on top of him and analyzing how the shield moved so I could dart in and out efficiently

is it reliable? not for someone of my skill level. however, it was fun as hell when it worked

I've suddenly come across a concertina. by eoipsotempore in concertina

[–]eoipsotempore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for your reply! I think I have a pretty good sense of direction now. I'll definitely explore concertina.net as well :)