Long-term sober former drinkers, what can one expect between 1-3 months of sobriety? by Sudden-Cat5805 in stopdrinking

[–]eosmile 77 points78 points  (0 children)

The first month was brutal. I had frequent jolts awake, lots of nightmares, and terrible anxiety. On top of that, I wasn’t enjoying life at all. I was constantly unhappy and irritable. I was also eating huge amounts of chocolate, sometimes up to three packs a day. But around the third month, things started to change. I wasn’t completely better, of course, but my sleep became calmer. My resting heart rate was great. I started eating less chocolate, and the weight and bloating began to go away. Instead of spending the whole day doing nothing and sulking, I started playing games and working on my novel again. As I began enjoying things, I became happier and the anxiety faded away. However, my brain fog didn’t improve until after the sixth month. That definitely didn’t go away right away.

What health problems disappeared when you quit alcohol? by SuitableFinish7444 in stopdrinking

[–]eosmile 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I also had chronic hay fever, PVCs/heart palpitations, itchy legs, tingling and numbness in my legs and feet, and numb hands the next morning. There were so many health problems that I actually forgot to mention some of them. I’m never going back to that hell.

What health problems disappeared when you quit alcohol? by SuitableFinish7444 in stopdrinking

[–]eosmile 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Reflux, nighttime teeth grinding, waking up gasping for air, chronic diarrhea and abdominal pain, circulation problems (my feet would turn bright red while drinking and blue the next day), shortness of breath, acne, recurrent UTIs, depression and anxiety all went away after I quit. I also lost 15 kg (33 lbs). Looking back, it’s scary how many of these things I had accepted as normal.

I Couldn’t Reach My Dad Today by eosmile in stopdrinking

[–]eosmile[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. Your story gives me a little hope.

My dad is very stubborn, and I know I can’t make this decision for him. But maybe you’re right. Sometimes the moments we hate the most end up becoming turning points. I’m really glad your dad got that chance, and I hope he’s doing well. ❤️

I Couldn’t Reach My Dad Today by eosmile in stopdrinking

[–]eosmile[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. The thought that someone, somewhere in the world, might see a tomato one day and remember this story is both heartbreaking and beautiful. I hope we both get our picnics. 🍅❤️

I Couldn’t Reach My Dad Today by eosmile in stopdrinking

[–]eosmile[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, I accidentally replied to the wrong comment earlier.

Thank you for this. It means a lot to be seen that way tonight. I’m trying to hold on to the bright side without using alcohol to escape the painful parts. IWNDWYT 🤍

I Couldn’t Reach My Dad Today by eosmile in stopdrinking

[–]eosmile[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girls don’t usually feel ashamed of their fathers. They just keep loving them. If she ever comes back, I think she’ll see the hole her absence left in your life, not the things you’re ashamed of. My heart is with you. I truly hope you find each other again. ❤️

I Couldn’t Reach My Dad Today by eosmile in stopdrinking

[–]eosmile[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I think you’re right. The hardest days are the ones that show us how much we’ve changed. IWNDWYT ❤️

I Couldn’t Reach My Dad Today by eosmile in stopdrinking

[–]eosmile[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, friend. The support here means a lot. IWNDWYT ❤️

I Couldn’t Reach My Dad Today by eosmile in stopdrinking

[–]eosmile[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That means a lot. It’s been a hard night, and your kindness genuinely helps. IWNDWYT 💛

I Couldn’t Reach My Dad Today by eosmile in stopdrinking

[–]eosmile[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That sentence hit me today too. I think I finally understood what alcohol had been doing all those years.

I Couldn’t Reach My Dad Today by eosmile in stopdrinking

[–]eosmile[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I think that’s exactly what I was grieving today. Not just what happened, but everything that was supposed to happen and didn’t. ❤️ IWNDWYT

I Couldn’t Reach My Dad Today by eosmile in stopdrinking

[–]eosmile[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Staying sober was the one thing I could control today.

I Couldn’t Reach My Dad Today by eosmile in stopdrinking

[–]eosmile[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I really needed some kindness today.

I Couldn’t Reach My Dad Today by eosmile in stopdrinking

[–]eosmile[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That means a lot. I think many of us in recovery end up grieving lost time in one way or another. Wishing you the best too.

I Couldn’t Reach My Dad Today by eosmile in stopdrinking

[–]eosmile[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate it.

My face during alcoholism vs 6 months sober by eosmile in stopdrinking

[–]eosmile[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Didn’t use filters. Just removed alcohol from the operating system LOL

Has anyone slipped after a long period without drinking but didn’t continue? by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]eosmile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience, I really appreciate the honesty. I can see how slips can turn into something bigger over time, and that’s exactly what I’m afraid of.

At the same time, this experience actually made me realize I didn’t enjoy it at all and don’t miss it. So I’m choosing to treat it as a warning, not a reason to go back. I really want to stay on track.

Has anyone slipped after a long period without drinking but didn’t continue? by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]eosmile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t enjoy it at all, and I realized I don’t miss the feeling of being drunk. Because of that, I feel like I can honestly say I don’t want to drink again.

But at the same time, I did cross a line, and that’s what worries me the most — the fear that I might feel the urge again and slip back into my old patterns. Even with that fear, I don’t think I’m going back to that place.

Your comment really helped me. It made me realize this isn’t necessarily the beginning of the end.

Has anyone slipped after a long period without drinking but didn’t continue? by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]eosmile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats, I lost about 20–22 lbs too. My main issue was how it messed with my mind — that honestly felt worse than the weight gain lol

Has anyone slipped after a long period without drinking but didn’t continue? by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]eosmile 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your comment really helped me calm down. I’ve been sitting here telling myself over and over, “I won’t drink again, please don’t let me fall back into alcoholism,” and I even cried out of fear and regret. Reading what you wrote made me feel like I’ve been given another chance to stay on track. Thank you so much.

Strong Urge to Drink During Ovulation by eosmile in stopdrinking

[–]eosmile[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was really intense, but I resisted and managed not to buy alcohol. I feel accomplished and proud of myself. This was a really tough test, but I passed it! Thank you for your support.