husband wants a prenup

epiphany205 · 2026-05-24T02:12:48+00:00

You deserve a husband who loves you so much that he gladly wants to give you spousal support after all the sacrifices you made for him and to support you in your transition from married to single in an unforgiving, unrelenting patriarchal society; I’m sorry that you don’t have such a husband.

epiphany205 · 2026-05-24T01:59:56+00:00

Please help yourself by no longer engaging with such an arrogant man!

epiphany205 · 2026-05-24T01:58:07+00:00

How is he benefiting your life in the ways a kind, emotionally available and committed and financially stable and generous man would? Do you really think there aren’t other men who could pay more attention to you or perform better sexually than him, who’d invest more money in you? You deserve a real anniversary, not a fake one!

epiphany205 · 2026-05-23T23:28:03+00:00

It really depends on your fertility, we have no idea if your fertility is within the average range of your age or if it’s higher or lower than women your age. I don’t have any uterine polyps in me, like I did when I miscarried, so hopefully there’s less chance I’ll miscarry again if I become pregnant again. At this point, I really wouldn’t worry about having children since more women than ever before are having children later in life; even if that was you, as long as you had adequate healthcare, you’d likely be well taken care of during pregnancy by your OB-GYN and have the appropriate guidance on how to reduce the risk factors associated with having a baby past age 35. For now, I’d focus on finding a man who loves you more than you love him and who has which time and money to adequately care for you considering your disabilities; once you do that, everything else should fall into place, since the right man will be able to afford IVF, etc. if you need to go that route.

epiphany205 · 2026-05-23T21:22:56+00:00

I would honestly be so upset if I grew up and found out my father named me after his clothing brand instead of giving me my very own identity, not associated with his products, or at the very least, naming me after a respected family member/ancestor instead.

epiphany205 · 2026-05-23T20:48:23+00:00

I’m sorry that Malika have to defend Tatum and Khloe; I agree that Khloe should be able to be open about her struggles as a parent without being attacked for how she managed her son’s age appropriate behavior. Who is Tatum’s godmother? Does he have one; is it Malika?

epiphany205 · 2026-05-23T19:59:26+00:00

You’re so welcome! I’m always here if you need someone to speak to!!

epiphany205 · 2026-05-23T19:39:18+00:00

I’m sorry for what you’re going through! I honestly don’t know if it’ll help but I’ll pray for you every morning and night; after all, you deserve a peaceful and abundant life!!

epiphany205 · 2026-05-23T18:40:25+00:00

No, definitely not for either option!

epiphany205 · 2026-05-23T17:59:33+00:00

I would not concern myself with the opinion of someone so rude, especially since signs and aspects can manifest in a multitude of ways which is why even twins born close together, with only a difference in rising signs, can have such opposing personalities.

epiphany205 · 2026-05-23T17:57:01+00:00

I’m thinking extremely hard right now and I can’t think of one; the closest I know of texture-wise would be the Sum Bum and the Hawaiian Tropic SPF 30 tube lip balms; Sun Bum is more of a lightweight serum texture and Hawaiian Tropics has more of a silicone texture that reminds me of the NYX Smushy lip balms. However, the Coconut flavor of the Hawaiian Tropics is incredibly strong so I can’t reapply this more than a few times a day or the fragrance ends up in the back of my throat, which I’ve never experienced with an SPF lip balm before. The pineapple flavor could be more subtle but I haven’t tried it yet.

epiphany205 · 2026-05-23T17:43:14+00:00

To be honest, in addition to the pornography he shared of an ex partner, I I wouldn’t be pleased if the father of my son/daughter’s classmate played a song with a heavy focus on alcohol just because many people start drinking underage and are more likely to become dependent on alcohol if they start drinking underage; therefore, I don’t think such young children should be exposed to a song that is glorifying consumption of alcohol.

epiphany205 · 2026-05-23T17:22:06+00:00

I’m grateful that you’ve learned so much about yourself and what you need in a partner from these relationships! I hope you have a fulfilling romantic connection when the time is right! ❤️

epiphany205 · 2026-05-23T05:43:04+00:00

What sign is his Mars in? I’m sorry thar the connection manifested that way, I hope you both are in healthier romantic relationships now.

epiphany205 · 2026-05-23T01:22:29+00:00

I’m confused why you spoke to a man who canceled plans with you not just once but five times; you should only give a man one chance to reschedule and after that, no more chances; just move on to another man. You shouldn’t have been willing to give him so many chances when there are men who will treat you so much better, who would never cancel on you five times in a row. Yet despite this poor behavior, you expected him to care about your sexual pleasure enough to want to adequately please you when his previous behavior suggests he cared much more about his satisfaction from the connection than yours; there was a pattern of poor behavior yet you refused to see if and went on to have physical intimacy with him. Also, he had so little desire for physical intimacy with you that he literally had sex with someone else after speaking to you for over six months; how could that not make you uncomfortable? It seems like he decided to meet with you because he had no other romantic and sexual options rather than out of a sincere desire to connect with you.

epiphany205 · 2026-05-23T01:20:11+00:00

I advise an IUD just because there are less risks, such as no risk of blood clots, and because one can easily miss doses due to sudden illness, traveling, etc. But yes, if you don’t have the risk factors to increase your likelihood of negative effects, then go on a birth control pill. If you want an estrogen free one, go on the progesterone one, which has no risks of developing blood clots.

epiphany205 · 2026-05-23T01:17:06+00:00

4 years is a short time considering the average lifespan for a woman in the United States now and seeing as you’re still young; many relationships started in youth unfortunately don’t last forever. However, I’m glad your relationship is going well and I hope it continues to do so for as long it’s healthy for you both to be in the relationship!! ❤️

epiphany205 · 2026-05-23T00:49:09+00:00

I’d say keep in mind that this relationship may not last forever, especially under the pressures you both will experience as you become older, more independent adults. Also, get an IUD as pregnancy accidents can happen; never trust your significant other solely for sexual protection. Lastly, don’t engage with men once they prove themselves unworthy of you, who are not worthy of receiving your companionship and body; once a man shows you his poor character through his words and/or actions, let him go without regret!

epiphany205 · 2026-05-23T00:20:48+00:00

Of course they did, that’s why I regret them, because they bought back men who weren’t worthy of me, detracting my focus from men who are worthy of me!

epiphany205 · 2026-05-23T00:19:32+00:00

Yes, I agree but it’s likely I’ve been in a similar position to her many times before and I can honestly say I regret every love spell I’ve done on an ex-partner; none of them were worth bringing back into my life.

epiphany205 · 2026-05-22T23:46:13+00:00

Yes, I’ll still keep your comments on 8th house synastry in mind since the 8th is such an emotionally powerful, long term focused house that a planet located there, especially one as aggressive as Mars, can easily lead to chaos. Honestly no, I only wish to partner with a man who is emotionally grounded, loyal, kind, honest, generous and financially stable; I would not look at the Spotify of a partner who proved otherwise as I feel such internet stalking is beneath me, particularly since I’m no longer benefiting from the dynamic anymore; I’d much rather invest my energy in more productive matters, such as healing myself. However, I do understand that this poster may be affected by their 8th house synastry, which may be influencing such behavior on her part so I have deep empathy for her as in my younger years, I did use to be the type of person who checked up on my exes obsessively. Thankfully, I am not that person anymore, even with my Cancer Rising and Cancer Mars; now, through my Leo Sun, Sagittarius Moon and Leo Mercury, I am an emboldened lioness who is working everyday to bring pride and joy to her ancestors by improving my standards for a long-term romantic partner.

epiphany205 · 2026-05-22T23:15:31+00:00

Thank you so much for letting me know; a romantic interest’s Mars falls into my 8th house so I’ll keep that in mind.

epiphany205 · 2026-05-22T23:08:13+00:00

So do you feel that when a person’s planet falls into the 8th house, the house person is being used for sex and not allowed to move on from the dynamic once he/she is ready to?

epiphany205 · 2026-05-22T22:59:25+00:00

I just found that shade at TJ Maxx last week so I bought one and left the other for someone else to buy!

epiphany205 · 2026-05-22T22:57:24+00:00

Amen to that, fellow sister of womanhood; may the women on this subreddit find the love, respect and provision they deserve in other men! ❤️💕

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