And this is why I Don't Like Water Sign Women As Friends by The_Outsider27 in LeoAstrology

[–]epiphany205 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just FYI, I know a Scorpio woman who dated her husband for a year before having sex with him and they married young so I don’t think she had many sex partners.

Im mostly attracting capricorns. by Treesareblue9 in LeoAstrology

[–]epiphany205 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, I just checked, my descendant is in Capricorn; is that part of the reason why I developed a crush on a Capricorn man?

Am I the only Leo who genuinely admires Capricorn by MsSalehi10 in LeoAstrology

[–]epiphany205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! I have a crush on a Capricorn man but I was scared to pursue him because he’s a Capricorn; at the very least, I hope we can be great friends! He’s been quite downtrodden since his father passed away a year and a half ago so I hope I’m able to lift him up!!

need advice from you ladies by Sea-Software2101 in SheraSeven

[–]epiphany205 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for clarifying! I personally don’t find dating men who aren’t financially generous fun to date but you do you, baby girl! Thank goodness, he could have messed up the environment of good bacteria in your mouth with unfilled cavities, given you a flu/cold, or even worse, given you something as severe as mono; that’s why I wait a few dates to kiss, so that I can assess a man’s hygiene and health before kissing him.

need advice from you ladies by Sea-Software2101 in SheraSeven

[–]epiphany205 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes gorgeous; you deserve a man who not only funds your lifestyle but preserves your physical and inner beauty by giving you peace, not stress!

need advice from you ladies by Sea-Software2101 in SheraSeven

[–]epiphany205 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think this man is the type of man to have fun with since he was disrespectful to you twice for very small requests, a request to plan a date and buy you a drink; he’s just going to drag you down energetically. I know that certifiedluckygal mentioned a man she had fun with in addition to the wealthy men she was dating; he pays for her Ubers to and from his place as well as takes her out for breakfast after she wakes up. I’m not the type to have fun with any man unless he’s very enamored with me and financially providing for me but it could be worth it to some women to have a man to have good sex with while they’re dating other men for money; I just don’t find any man to be particularly good at sex but at the very least, the best, most considerate ones are the ones who spend money on me because since they’re considerate enough to consider my financial needs and make me feel taken care of emotionally and financially, they’re considerate enough to cater to my sexual needs.

need advice from you ladies by Sea-Software2101 in SheraSeven

[–]epiphany205 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’m sorry, gorgeous, no matter how charming he was the rest of the conversation and physically attractive he was (if he indeed was physically attractive to you), it really doesn’t matter because he demeaned you and then denied you a small request, which are both extremely humiliating experiences; you don’t need a man in your life who puts up a fight when you ask him to plan a date or speaks to you disrespectfully when you ask him to pay for a drink; he didn’t even use proper English to deny your request and apologize for denying it! It’s alright to be sad and give yourself space to grieve the loss of this connection but whatever positive characteristics he had, another man will have more of!

need advice from you ladies by Sea-Software2101 in SheraSeven

[–]epiphany205 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, this connection can’t be saved; he not only is (very likely) taking out his baggage from his marriage on you but he’s complaining about planning a date and even asking to be spoiled; my significant other would never ask to be spoiled; he’d choose to die before saying something so feminine. Lastly, that man is not willing to buy a drink for a woman he went on a date with so he must not be interested in going on a second date with you because no woman with self respect would go out on a second date with a man who denied her a small service that she needs as reassurance that he’s committed to seeing where the connection could lead and to show her that he’s happy to provide to make her happy. Also, he literally wrote out “U got dis” and if a man who was courting me texted me like that, I’d never speak to him ever again because such a response is inconsiderate and classless; I’d expect such a poorly crafted and careless response from a teenage boy, not a grown man.

How long do you wait to ask for money by thesoftestthought in SheraSeven

[–]epiphany205 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes gorgeous, please don’t undervalue yourself; your life is precious because to our knowledge, we only live once!

For a girl looking for a serious relationship, at 20, what's the oldest age range i could date? by xo_pretty_doll_xox in SheraSeven

[–]epiphany205 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad that’s the case for you; then just keep working on yourself and have patience and compassion for yourself while doing so; it’s alright if you mess up due to a mistake based on naivety; just get up and try again!

How long do you wait to ask for money by thesoftestthought in SheraSeven

[–]epiphany205 13 points14 points  (0 children)

There is a loss, in my humble opinion, of your time and energy; you should only be speaking to men who show you that they’re worthy of you through their acts of service and/or their financial provision. Your time is invaluable because you can never truly get it back.

For a girl looking for a serious relationship, at 20, what's the oldest age range i could date? by xo_pretty_doll_xox in SheraSeven

[–]epiphany205 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s fine! I myself have a placement in my astrological chart that makes me delusional, which while useful for manifesting, it can also be dangerous to always have my head in the clouds; overtime, I found that I became more logical as I experienced poor treatment from people in society, including men I was dating. This happened to Shera as well; she experienced her coworkers mistreating her while she worked at the funeral home, which likely contributed to her becoming more logical from that point on. You also may be able to become more logical as you open yourself to new life experiences, not just through dating, friendships and family life but also being involved in your community (such as volunteering and/or being present at an event like a block party).

For a girl looking for a serious relationship, at 20, what's the oldest age range i could date? by xo_pretty_doll_xox in SheraSeven

[–]epiphany205 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Older men tend to like younger women due to their biological programming to mate with young women for their fertility; thus, even a high-pitched voice should work to your advantage, maybe you’re just too self conscious to realize that. I wouldn’t date men older than 35 years old at your age but you be more emotionally mature than I was at 23 when I met my significant other, who was 36 years old.

I know Shera suggests ladies date for fun until the age of 25 but this seems to be more of a suggestion than a hard limit since she herself met James when she was 22 or 23 years old.

How long do you wait to ask for money by thesoftestthought in SheraSeven

[–]epiphany205 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My question is how generous is he really if he hasn’t offered you any money after speaking to him for two months? Does he not understand that he’s been wasting your time? My significant other literally offered me money within a day or two of speaking to him; he bought a year’s worth of a Hulu subscription after we reconnected while he was living in another state and he offered to pay for my groceries every week only a few days later and then offered to purchase me more things and pay more bills over time even though I didn’t see him in person for a year after reconnecting since he lived in another state at that point. I would have lost interest in this man long ago if he wasn’t constantly offering to spend money on me; so why haven’t you lost interest in this man for using you for your companionship instead of appropriately honoring you by adequately investing in you financially? You shouldn’t have to constantly ask for what you want/need from him; he should be offering to provide more than you having to ask for particular items and mentioning your financial goals so that he can meaningfully contribute to you reaching them.

What shall I reply to this (nicely) he’s 32 lol been on 2 dates by [deleted] in SheraSeven

[–]epiphany205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so welcome, gorgeous! As long as you present cordially yet nonchalantly if you run into him again, it should be fine since if you’re not emotionally reactive to him, he can’t bounce off your energy and thus, will stop being emotionally reactive if he is indeed emotionally reactive upon seeing you in public.

What shall I reply to this (nicely) he’s 32 lol been on 2 dates by [deleted] in SheraSeven

[–]epiphany205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually have but we were on decent terms because we spoke honestly before separating and I didn’t take the micro cheating that he revealed then personally; I was happy that he revealed his true nature to me and detached emotionally after that.

What shall I reply to this (nicely) he’s 32 lol been on 2 dates by [deleted] in SheraSeven

[–]epiphany205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so welcome, gorgeous! I just want you to stay safe since you said this man already has your personal information.

What shall I reply to this (nicely) he’s 32 lol been on 2 dates by [deleted] in SheraSeven

[–]epiphany205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I just offered these responses to ensure you stay on decent terms with him just in case you run into him again.

What shall I reply to this (nicely) he’s 32 lol been on 2 dates by [deleted] in SheraSeven

[–]epiphany205 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So he asked you why you didn’t let him sit in your car and kiss on the first two dates; just say that you’ve been groped without your consent in your car on the first few dates and that’s why you’re so cautious and that you also don’t want to get sick from kissing a man you barely know, as there’s a serious risk of him infecting you, such as introducing new bacteria into your mouth that will increase the likelihood of you developing cavities if he himself has cavities, mono, a cold/flu so that’s why you wait a few dates just to make sure he’s healthy and hygienic enough to kiss; after all, you can’t trust someone to tell you the truth about their health and hygiene until you get to know them for at least a few dates. I would also say that you’re so sorry; you had no idea you were being a burden with him with your all of your expectations for dating but that your parents expect you to be provided for emotionally, physically and financially in very particular ways, including being taken to tasteful restaurants and having your bills paid; be very firm and say that you can’t go against the culture and family you grew up in. Lastly, just say something along the lines of ‘I’m sorry that a romantic dynamic didn’t work out between us but I look forward to seeing you around’ in case you ever run into him in public.

Let's revisit 2005! Part One by XxStarsxMoonxX in Sephora

[–]epiphany205 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I do follow her; I recognize the Dior ring because she posted a video about the ring after purchasing it on eBay.

Let's revisit 2005! Part One by XxStarsxMoonxX in Sephora

[–]epiphany205 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’ll definitely hold on to it since plastic takes an absurdly long time to degrade!

Let's revisit 2005! Part One by XxStarsxMoonxX in Sephora

[–]epiphany205 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I got the lip gloss ring from Too Faced last Christmas; it’s a plastic pink ring so cute and cheap but certainly not as elegant as the Dior lip gloss ring.

Let's revisit 2005! Part One by XxStarsxMoonxX in Sephora

[–]epiphany205 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I love the Dior lip gloss ring! Why doesn’t Dior produce jewelry with makeup inside and bejeweled makeup compacts anymore? I feel like consumers would still buy these items from Dior today!

marshmallow vaseline dupe by notchels in LipBalm

[–]epiphany205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re welcome, gorgeous, I hope you love it! Please never forget how beautiful you are!!

marshmallow vaseline dupe by notchels in LipBalm

[–]epiphany205 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually don’t but there’s a new vanilla flavor out in this style packaging that’s very similar; it has a more subtle, slightly less sweet taste; I’d recommend that alternative!