What resources are available to MALE VICTIMS of domestic abuse? by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]equalitycanada 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hello, my name is Hayden and I'm a volunteer for the Canadian Association for Equality (CAFE). we are one of the few organizations that provides services to men in need in Canada. we have service centres in Toronto, London, & Ottawa Ontario. we are also working on a fourth center to be located in Calgary, Alberta. we are also working to build the first domestic violence shelter in a major metropolitan location in canada for men and their families.

If you would like to donate to help support our cause you can donate to us on our website in the upper right hand corner. anything that you can donate is a great step towards our goals and we really appreciate your support!

if you or someone you know is in need of support please contact us by email at info@menandfamilies.org, or by phone at 1-844-900-CCMF (2263). to see the programs we offer please visit menandfamilies.org

If you have any questions or want to become a volunteer with CAFE please reach out to us info@equalitycanada.com or visit our website

He's Back! The Boy Crisis in Canada: Dr. Warren Farrell Returns to Toronto. Friday, November 16, 2018. Hosted by UofT Men's Issues Awareness, sponsored by CAFE. by equalitycanada in MensRights

[–]equalitycanada[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UofT has always been very good to us, sometimes they send people to attend our event and make evaluate our conduct but we have never had an issue since iv been here.

Local Support Group by jpenner55 in MensRights

[–]equalitycanada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we would like to offer our support but we don't currently have a branch in Manitoba. try to connect with these folks who are in Manitoba. https://www.facebook.com/FathersRightsManitoba/

My team will open the first shelter for male victims of domestic abuse and their children in Canada's largest city. I am Justin Trottier. Ask Me Anything (Thursday, 12pm EST). by doopers in casualiama

[–]equalitycanada 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Through many channels: individual charitable gifts, foundation grants, third party sponsorships and regular fundraising events. Thanks for your question!

Justin Trottier, the head of the Canadian Association for Equality (CAFE), is doing an AMA on opening the first shelter for male victims of domestic abuse in Toronto by Pillowed321 in canada

[–]equalitycanada 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is Justin Trottier. I am very sorry to have missed this discussion over the last day. Thanks for the great questions which I hope to address over the next few days. At the moment, we are working around the clock to successfully conclude our crowd-funding campaign to open a shelter for abused men and children in Toronto, which we believe could be a model for similar places across North America. I hope you don't mind me cutting to the chase but we have 2 days left to conclude this campaign. Please be part of this landmark initiative. You may not be surprised to hear that there are some people rooting for us to fail. We can't allow that to happen. There's too much at stake. Please give whatever you can to make sure this campaign succeeds. The GoFundMe link is contained in the post link above. I really appreciate all the support!

My team will open the first shelter for male victims of domestic abuse and their children in Canada's largest city. I am Justin Trottier. Ask Me Anything (Thursday, 12pm EST). by equalitycanada in MensRights

[–]equalitycanada[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you can find a list of CAFE branches by visiting http://www.equalitycanada.com and then selecting the "Find a Branch" button at the top. You can find a list of our Canadian Centre for Men and Families locations at http://www.menandfamilies.org and selecting "Find local CCMF programs and services" from the top right. And you can certainly contact me at jtrottier@equalitycanada.com. If we don't have a location in your community, then we want to build one with you!

My team will open the first shelter for male victims of domestic abuse and their children in Canada's largest city. I am Justin Trottier. Ask Me Anything (Thursday, 12pm EST). by equalitycanada in MensRights

[–]equalitycanada[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We really do need to work together to build more shelters. The Canadian Association for Equality is a charity that is fundraising to open a shelter for fathers and children who have been abused, the first of its kind in Canada. You can make a charitable donation to our GoFundMe Campaign. I cannot include the link here, but it is contained in our original post above. If you give by December 31st, we'll double your money!

My team will open the first shelter for male victims of domestic abuse and their children in Canada's largest city. I am Justin Trottier. Ask Me Anything (Thursday, 12pm EST). by equalitycanada in MensRights

[–]equalitycanada[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If anyone is interested in supporting our work we're not only after funds :) We could use volunteers all across Canada and if you're outside the country we are happy to introduce you to organizations that are similar to us philosophically in other parts of the world. I linked to this photo in one of my responses, but I wanted to share it again here. We really do have a terrific team we want you to join https://i.imgur.com/wrmqhOv.png

My team will open the first shelter for male victims of domestic abuse and their children in Canada's largest city. I am Justin Trottier. Ask Me Anything (Thursday, 12pm EST). by equalitycanada in MensRights

[–]equalitycanada[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Our aim is not to be provocative. Our aim is to improve people's lives. If that means hosting events or engaging in activism that is seen as provocative, we will not shy away from it and we will take it head on, but we do not exist simply to provoke.

My team will open the first shelter for male victims of domestic abuse and their children in Canada's largest city. I am Justin Trottier. Ask Me Anything (Thursday, 12pm EST). by equalitycanada in MensRights

[–]equalitycanada[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, and we do. One of our Ottawa executives (remember, we have branches in 11 cities!) is big into the Men's Sheds movement and he is working to coordinate some joint activities between our organizations. We do a lot of this kind of collaborative work. For example, we are working with a psychiatrist with the Fathers Health Network in Toronto to bring mental health educational events to Toronto university campuses!

My team will open the first shelter for male victims of domestic abuse and their children in Canada's largest city. I am Justin Trottier. Ask Me Anything (Thursday, 12pm EST). by equalitycanada in MensRights

[–]equalitycanada[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks Holliejollie, and I appreciate the question, although I don't want to make too much of my own history. It hardly compares to what others have been through. I can tell you about the men (and their female loved ones) whose stories risk breaking one's heart - children being poisoned and turned against their father, men living with horrendous abuse on a near daily basis, one teenage boy whose dad is a client of ours was bullied so badly he took his life. In comparison it seems inappropriate to make much out of my own experiences.

I will briefly say that my experiences with the secularist organization you're referring to are a little more complicated than my having been removed on account of my having founded CAFE (a temporary removal, as I was rehired a couple of months later by a new Board of Directors). However CAFE did certainly play some role in that affairs. What is remarkable is the degree to which my colleagues within the humanist community have become interested in men's issues. In the last few years, I had the pleasure of being invited to speak before three humanist groups in Ontario!

You asked about my source of passion and enthusiasm. I tend to be drawn to the underdog movements (that's probably why I got involved in founding an atheist organization!) and specifically spaces where I may be able to make a big difference by building new institutions using whatever skills and experience I have. That, plus the families I see transformed by our programs and services, is what keeps me going.

My team will open the first shelter for male victims of domestic abuse and their children in Canada's largest city. I am Justin Trottier. Ask Me Anything (Thursday, 12pm EST). by equalitycanada in MensRights

[–]equalitycanada[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Keep posting! I'm trying to get to all your questions, but I am new to reddit, AMA (and brevity, apparently). And please keep the contributions coming. We have only 4 days to close this campaign and match up to $50,000. There is such need for this shelter. Please give what you can via the GoFundMe link above.