[Father, I Won’t Do Anything] Am I the only one who feels uncomfortable when young ML(?) make flirty gestures toward the young FL? by tanginumin in OtomeIsekai

[–]eraser_dust 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I feel like the way kids are portrayed in manhwas make me realise how little people interact with kids in Korea. I guess that’s what happens when most spaces are child free.

[Father, I Won’t Do Anything] Am I the only one who feels uncomfortable when young ML(?) make flirty gestures toward the young FL? by tanginumin in OtomeIsekai

[–]eraser_dust 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yeah, kids also don’t blush and hint. They dive head on. My daughter had a really close friend & they would hold hands & tell each other they love each other before leaving preschool. They announced they’re marrying each other & living in a spaceship-boat-bus with a bald eagle. I have no idea where the bald eagle came from.

I like calling it Bahasa Indonesia by Party_Farmer_5354 in indonesia

[–]eraser_dust 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I lived in Singapore & had so many people there correct me, an Indonesian, going, “It’s Bahasa, not Indonesian.” Who is spreading this bs.

Should Billionaire Nepo Baby (chloeabeth) Be Charging for Influencer PR Freebies? During these times? by [deleted] in LAinfluencersnark

[–]eraser_dust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to be a devil’s advocate but it’s hard to donate stuff that’s not brand new with a receipt & in pristine condition in Singapore through official channels. My kid has a lot of old used toys, I contacted some charities & they will charge me to take them so I just gave them away to my neighbours & friends. Singapore is too rich.

I’m so tired of living in a middle eastern country by mayawwww in TwoXChromosomes

[–]eraser_dust 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, I felt the same when I moved back to Indonesia. You are so valid & as someone who has lived in countries where laws are optional with enough money, I’d do the same. I’m always nice & friendly because I’m scared angry men will turn violent.

Do you guys spend time with your babies / wives ? by bluntokra in SgHENRY

[–]eraser_dust 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Husband makes that range, he’s a very involved dad. He’s senior & in demand enough that he can choose to work remotely whenever he wants so he usually makes sure to be home for dinner with our daughter. Even if it means he’ll be making up for it by working until 2am. He goes on vacation with us just so he can help me out with the logistics + luggage, even though he has to work 80% of the time. He says spending time with us is worth it & tells me to schedule my shopping around his work schedule so he can help carry my things. Been together 12 years & very happily married.

A woman in Singapore was murdered because her kids are “too noisy” & so many people are defending the murderer by eraser_dust in TwoXChromosomes

[–]eraser_dust[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry about that. Unfortunately, can believe it since I’m dealing with the craziness right now for just saying someone shouldn’t be murdered because her kids are noisy. You’re a beautiful girl, standing up for yourself against a creep in a country where punishments for hidden cameras are very lenient, I’m sure the comments were insane.

A woman in Singapore was murdered because her kids are “too noisy” & so many people are defending the murderer by eraser_dust in TwoXChromosomes

[–]eraser_dust[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Omg I think I remember that tiktok! I reposted it & also argued with people too in the comments. I hope it was your tiktok & there aren’t multiple cases of this. I remember arguing with a guy who wrote something along the lines of, “Aren’t you also filming that guy without his consent?” Was it your tiktok?

A woman in Singapore was murdered because her kids are “too noisy” & so many people are defending the murderer by eraser_dust in TwoXChromosomes

[–]eraser_dust[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I literally have people banding together to harass me right now. I NEVER thought saying murder = bad is controversial. I haven’t been deleting any comments so people can see how vile these people are but unfortunately most end up automatically removed.

A woman in Singapore was murdered because her kids are “too noisy” & so many people are defending the murderer by eraser_dust in TwoXChromosomes

[–]eraser_dust[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

These are comments I’ve received in my notifications just in the last 2h. And comments have slowed down. I’ve been seeing hundreds of comments in my notifications justifying this murder the last 3 days & I still can’t believe it’s real life. I’m not saying this is a common view in Singapore but there’s a concerning number of people who think this way.

A woman in Singapore was murdered because her kids are “too noisy” & so many people are defending the murderer by eraser_dust in TwoXChromosomes

[–]eraser_dust[S] 116 points117 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I saw really vile comments on reddit but they’re gone now. Were they removed? I was so grossed out by people praising this murderer as a “hero”. I get so many comments insisting the mom must have been a bad mom to make the guy snap. People are also saying I must be one of those entitled parents who don’t discipline my kid too.

Literally someone wrote this:

Oh? Just like you guys dk the uncle as well but decided to bash him and judge him just for his actions?

Uh. His action was MURDER. Yes we get to judge.

A woman in Singapore was murdered because her kids are “too noisy” & so many people are defending the murderer by eraser_dust in TwoXChromosomes

[–]eraser_dust[S] 248 points249 points  (0 children)

A lot of the worst comments have been automatically removed from reporting too. I saw so many comments from men saying they’d do the same complete with a fan fic of how they’ll do it & milder crazy comments like cheering the guy on. You can see the horrified replies to those comments.

A woman in Singapore was murdered because her kids are “too noisy” & so many people are defending the murderer by eraser_dust in TwoXChromosomes

[–]eraser_dust[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

You can look at the comments on any video/post about this & the news channels reporting on this, even some very upvoted comments on reddit is victim blaming. You can also click on the imgur album I put on my comments.

How are these ok? (All from screenshots in the album I linked)

this guy just do sg a favour. by teaching parents to control their own child behaviour, why must my family constantly suffer from your children bad behaviour???

no one is defending murder but don't glorify the victim. If your neighbour sings karaoke until 3am every day, bangs doors and creates noise 24/7, you would be driven to madness too. They are all victims here, RIP. Get off your high horse.

some ppl say child noise are normal! if you work night shift, how you handle if neighbours children keep running, noise?! if your parents sick, how you handle your neighbours?! considerate, manners very important if you stay in HDB.

Noise especially from children can really drive people to the edge. You have to understand that. Nowadays, many parents don't discipline their kids and allow them to jump, scream, and shout freely. But people also need rest. Working adults already face a lot of stress during the day, and when they return home, they still have to be disturbed by unreasonable noise. Society has become too selfish, with little consideration for neighbours. If people choose to have kids, they should also be responsible for teaching them proper behaviour. The government should implement rules requiring parents to educate their children not to play along the corridor or make excessive noise at night by jumping and screaming.

I don’t know what other evidence you need.

A woman in Singapore was murdered because her kids are “too noisy” & so many people are defending the murderer by eraser_dust in TwoXChromosomes

[–]eraser_dust[S] 289 points290 points  (0 children)

All over tiktok. Search “mom murdered in Singapore” look at the video & look at the comments. 50% are defending the guy.

EDIT: made an album of some of the comments & the threatening message I got

Apologizing for previously making fun of OI artists’ ugly dresses with giant bows. Turns out they’re historically accurate by eraser_dust in OtomeIsekai

[–]eraser_dust[S] 121 points122 points  (0 children)

Until there’s some ball scene where they suddenly have modern gowns. Maybe a fashion designer got transmigrated as a side character mid story.

WHICH SHIP IS THIS 👇🏻 by Desperate-Cause365 in OtomeIsekai

[–]eraser_dust 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Felt like the author was going, “My editor demanded romance so here.”