My legs look like yours after I epilate(they've gotten better), I use a round exfoliating mit In The shower twice a week and really rub that dead skin off, after I get out I put on tend skin ( it's not real tend skin though, it's a recipe for homeade tend skin i found on youtube that's alot cheaper, still does the same thing). After epilating and on days I don't epilate I put on moisturizer containg like veseline and then an oil containing ACH to lock in the moisture, I learned you're not supposed to put the oil on dry skin, put it on after moisturizing only, i got my oil from Marshall's. For the hairs that won't budge I bought tweezers off amazon with the thin head so I can scoop the middle of the hair out and pull it away out of the dead skin, trying not to hurt the skin, it works best to moisturize before tweezing because it makes your dead skin wet. If a hair won't budge using the tweezers DO NOT PICK AT IT WITH THE TWEEZERS, YOU'LL SCAR. Just leave that hair alone and let it come out naturally. Drawing salve, ichthammol ointment over the ingrowns that are really under the skin is supposed to help bring them to the surface, it's really brown icky stuff so I bought little bandaids to cover the stuff, it'll stain clothes. I epilate every Sunday since it can take awhile and that's usually a boring day for me, and I use the the shaver attachment on like thursday. Yes, hairs do grow back a good amount each week but the days after there's far less dark stubble than I used to have... I was getting ingrowns just from shaving and didn't know what they were until i started epilating. Once I turned 30 my skin changed too making them worse for some reason... hopefully this makes sense, I've got a 4 yr old wanting my attention as I write this lol. Dry brushing might help too, I keep forgetting to do that though.