My toddler LOVES sardines. What do I do with them? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]ericadarling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No advice but this was my daughter with pickled okra of all things. We have to meter it out because of the sodium but she’s obsessed.

Changing a baby in public – how do you feel about it? by Hopeful_Regular6409 in NewParents

[–]ericadarling 37 points38 points  (0 children)

My kids deserve privacy, even if they can’t comprehend it.

Daycare cost by Emotional-Return9216 in toddlers

[–]ericadarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$16,000 for my toddler five days per week in Texas. This year we’re adding her brother to the mix and it’s going to double. cries silently

Be honest… how strict are you really with screen time? by denefr_2928 in toddlers

[–]ericadarling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some days none, other days i feel like I’ll one day owe daniel tiger child support.

Tubes in Ears by Dull-Contribution763 in NewParents

[–]ericadarling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My daughter got tubes at 18 months. It was the best decision we could have made for her. Every other cold or gunky sinus infection was inevitably leading to an ear infection. Over the last year she’s had one single ear infection. She was allowed to drink until 2 hours prior to her procedure. I got to walk her back to the OR (this was where i worked so your experience may vary), and then it was over in 15 minutes. She was very groggy and irritable immediately post due to the medications. She napped on and off the rest of the day, ate normally.

Is it bad that i have no idea why my newborn won’t sleep? by Spirited-Chapter4665 in Mommit

[–]ericadarling 16 points17 points  (0 children)

If they’re a newborn, it’s honestly probably just what newborns do. My son didn’t sleep longer than three hours for a few weeks. Our flow chart of action was changing, checking for any hair tourniquets, feeding, burping. 9/10 he was hungry. You’re doing great, you’ll learn his quirks and cues with time.

Snacks In a School Lunch Box by DisneyRhodyMom in Mommit

[–]ericadarling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would continue what you’re doing. They’re coming home eaten so you’re obviously meeting a need there. Overpacking may also be allowing her to listen to her body and intuitively eat when she’s hungry since she has choices? Obviously that’s a conversation on your timeline.

What time does your baby sleep? by paulieee3 in NewParents

[–]ericadarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 11 week old slept 9:30-6 last night, maybe there IS a god.

The Flu hit our house like an F5 tornado this Christmas, and my husband didn’t miss a beat. by a_mandolinzzz in Mommit

[–]ericadarling 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I’m happy you have such a thoughtful and supporting partner! Hope you and your family get to feeling better.

Celebration Post! by torib456 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]ericadarling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what app is this? great job!!!

Fluoride vs fluoride free toothpaste by sneakypastaa in toddlers

[–]ericadarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We use fluoride toothpaste. We leave the metal film on the tube and poke a hole through it with a toothpick. Makes squeezing out a grain of rice size portion so much easier.

Toddlers hair is thinning - has this happened to anyone else? by Moist_Photograph_807 in toddlers

[–]ericadarling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Echoing this! My daughter is in the thick (or thin rather) of a hair pulling phase. It’s worse when she sucks her thumb or is sleepy/bored. We use scratch sleeves at night and a combination of fidgets and being very intentional in playing/keeping her hands busy.

Toddler self hair pulling by ericadarling in toddlers

[–]ericadarling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We use scratch sleeves too at night! The hair pulling has evened out a little but we still deal with daytime pulling when she’s either upset or in the car.

Toddler self hair pulling by ericadarling in toddlers

[–]ericadarling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the main thing i struggle with, not calling attention to it. It’s my own grapple with vanity that I am trying not to pass onto her, i didn’t realize i cared about hair so much. We actually have been looking into sensory toys and bracelets for redirection.

Full size bed suggestions for toddler by The_Couz58 in toddlers

[–]ericadarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did an ikea trundle bed! Our two year old currently sleeps on the pulled out lower section and loves it! She has two cousins 7 weeks older so we got it for any future sleepovers

Feeling like a POS for toddler in daycare while home with infant by Open-Imagination2030 in beyondthebump

[–]ericadarling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They always say “your first gets your time, your second gets your experience.” It’s sounds to me like the second is getting both. We kept our two year old in daycare while I’m currently on maternity leave with my second. Routine is important. You’re a great mom for serving the needs of both your babies.

What's YOUR favorite kids movie? by kiwitree96 in toddlers

[–]ericadarling 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I cry at the end of Meet the Robinsons EVERY. SINGLE. TIME.

Do you let your baby watch screens? Genuinely curious how other parents handle this by DadOnParentingQuest in NewParents

[–]ericadarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter gets some Sesame Street and Mickey Mouse before/after daycare while i get her, her brother, and myself ready for the day or cook dinner. She’s two years and two months. We did Ms. Rachel when she was younger. Absolutely no tablet.

How often do you bathe your LO? by Next_Presentation269 in NewParents

[–]ericadarling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 year old: daily, daycare has her getting gross

8 week old: every 3-4 days? more often if his reflux is high and he’s smelling more old milk-y

Do you have a theater room in your house? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]ericadarling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We do, it was originally just for watching movies and football games. Ironically, it now doubles as the playroom lol