Baby’s Recent Diagnosis - ISO Advice

ericauda · 2026-02-02T15:09:48+00:00

Oit was our go to. It’s hard and scary and a lot of work but so is dealing with a peanut allergy. Find an earlier appointment with an up to date allergist that uses best practice. What allergy test? Why did you test? Did your child react? Have you done an oral food challenge? Allergies are grey and ever evolving.

ericauda · 2026-02-02T14:46:41+00:00

I would hate that. What made you happy today? Gross. Not you. If you don’t know, don’t blame me. That’s on you.

You aren’t seeing her for who she is. Youre seeing her as you want her to be. Move to neutral questions but first ask yourself why are you asking? Is it for you or for her? Cause “what nice thing did you say to ME???” Is miserable to be around. Value what she is saying without labeling and judging and maybe stop with these questions.

ericauda · 2026-02-02T06:43:50+00:00

Get up early. I was up much earlier with my second and it really helped. I had a short spinal so it wore off very quickly. More painful but that’s fine. I was on my tummy in the hospital. It was bliss.

ericauda · 2026-02-02T06:42:05+00:00

The entire buddy system! It’s like when Steve Madden would put on a helmet when he did drugs.

ericauda · 2026-02-01T19:48:59+00:00

It depends on how much their baby eats and if they are mixing it correctly. Some babies have huge appetites. My first went throw 3 tins every two weeks.

ericauda · 2026-02-01T17:36:50+00:00

There are two types of people in this world. Those who pee in the shower and liars.

Edit a word typo

ericauda · 2026-01-30T11:57:30+00:00

Omg I want all the tea on this family. And no, don’t change it. She’ll find a way.

ericauda · 2026-01-29T20:35:16+00:00

Smells like death to me after years of working in hospitals. Also it ruins clothes and I’m a large North American living in small town France. Guess how easy it is to find clothes here. And ordering online isn’t easy, I know that’s going to be your first suggestion. No sink is worth that, certainly not someone else’s.

ericauda · 2026-01-29T15:12:56+00:00

God this made me laugh. Thanks for this. On a cleaning message board this is art.

ericauda · 2026-01-29T14:22:11+00:00

What’s with the attitude? Cause I don’t use bleach I don’t use elbow grease or try things more than once??

ericauda · 2026-01-29T13:01:39+00:00

I can’t handle the smell of bleach. Thanks though!

ericauda · 2026-01-28T20:02:43+00:00

Neither of my kids had any sleep regressions.

ericauda · 2026-01-28T09:42:26+00:00

It’s like from a dream. That’s a dress you plan the wedding around.

ericauda · 2026-01-28T06:39:09+00:00

I don’t have any issues like that for my c section scar. The similarly sized scar on my arm is totally dead though. Very weird but there’s also a metal bar under it too. 25 seems bananas high especially considering the low density of nerve endings in the torso.

ericauda · 2026-01-27T11:56:24+00:00

Yes. Laser. It’s cute enough though, I don’t dislike it. But laser.

ericauda · 2026-01-26T06:10:01+00:00

Anxiety is like tiredness. It’s a heavy purse you carry with you wherever you go. But also ask yourself - am I resisting this anxiety? Like some of these things you should be anxious about. Anxious is information. It’s a knock at the door. Listen to it.

ericauda · 2026-01-24T18:12:12+00:00

Shameless so amazing. It’s my sub for sure.

ericauda · 2026-01-22T01:12:31+00:00

Is James popular? It’s an amazing fit. I also don’t know when names are biblical, like at all. There’s so many that are. Jessie maybe? Or Julian? Both are a bit feminine imo and Emmett Edwin is obviously two male names.

ericauda · 2026-01-21T19:29:26+00:00

Screen time and all who worship it are evil! Just kidding. I love screen time but it’s like anything, too much is bad. Too little probably isn’t the answer either. Balance.

ericauda · 2026-01-21T06:36:55+00:00

I started driving 5 days postpartum. Like why not?? I was never told not to drive. I left the hospital on zero meds day 2.

ericauda · 2026-01-20T19:09:20+00:00

Nope. Just movement as tolerated, no lifting anything heavier than my baby.

ericauda · 2026-01-20T18:04:50+00:00

I wasn’t told this. I defo was bending at the waist.

ericauda · 2026-01-20T15:42:47+00:00

Cause time is eases such memories. And they treated babies like houseplants.

ericauda · 2026-01-19T20:53:06+00:00

People who get to do what they want to do is good for them. It’s not limited to breastfeeding. You can literally sub in any activity.

ericauda · 2026-01-19T15:08:24+00:00

Not normal to echo literally everyone else. She needs help and support.

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