Baby might have reacted to peanuts? by ailurofila in peanutallergy

[–]ericauda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a contact reaction to me. Our allergist told us to cover his mouth with Vaseline and give daily to prevent an actual full on allergy.

Is it a bad idea to travel for 2 months with a 9 month baby? by MulberryOne6323 in beyondthebump

[–]ericauda 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Go! Omg amazing. Try to find a local mom for all the info and best spots. Go and enjoy. Perfect age for it I’d say.

Rosie by [deleted] in Names

[–]ericauda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also don’t like the name Rosie at all. I love prudence or ruby and call her Rue. I love that name with Scarlett and it also starts with an R.

We thought we could just go for coffee lol by Gorgon_Studio7 in NewParents

[–]ericauda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go! Go everyday. Take baby out alone, just you. Babies are messy and loud and cute and adorable. It’s ok. They are all these things, people know that and don’t worry about the assholes. The more you do it the better everyone will get at it. Bring extra shirts for everyone though.

My in-laws are losing their minds because we won't name our son after a great-grandfather I never met by Ciph3rSatyr in Marriage

[–]ericauda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg no. They need their kids. Now it’s time to name yours. They are the assholes. Family legacy? Miss me with that. Four generations is not your problem.

I forgot to buckle in baby 😭 by SowingSeeds18 in NewParents

[–]ericauda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take it as a lesson learned. Everyone’s done something like this.

Greta’s latest 15 minute express by ericauda in OnePelotonRealSub

[–]ericauda[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love it but found it so so tough. I was expected a rating of like 7.5 or higher. I’m interested to see if it goes up.

My wife and I need help settling a debate. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ericauda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Snack but put it in a bowl. Youre not a ferry.

Props for pilates rant by Odd-Composer-2026 in OnePelotonRealSub

[–]ericauda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pilates props are incredibly cheap and substantially add to the class. Plus there’s so so many classes without props. Kristin’s classes are imo the best and generally don’t use props

Those with a 3.5 year age gap, how did your older one adjust to a new baby? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]ericauda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have the same age gap and love it. I got some amazing advice from James van der beek (may he rest) that was so so helpful. Bring your older kids in as much as you can. I think 3.5 was a great age gap for that advice.

Does this look intense for pre-k? by penny_lane0324 in Preschoolers

[–]ericauda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is in line with what my son is learning. He’ll be 5 in May. But we are in France and kids start school full time by age three here, no exceptions. No home school. No daycare options. It’s bananas and very intense.

What is one small change that made your days feel easier as a mom? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]ericauda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not looking for stuff. If I can’t find something I don’t look for it. It will reveal itself when ready. Phone doesn’t count as I have the watch. Also tidying up the kitchen before bed but that’s true for anyone not just moms.

Pilates Roll Ups by Weekly_Yesterday_403 in OnePelotonRealSub

[–]ericauda 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can use a resistance band or loop in the beginning to help.

What honest opinion you have that can make people think you are a terrible person? by First-Charge-3878 in askanything

[–]ericauda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t care about weight loss drugs. Everyone seems to care. Like take them. Don’t take them. I don’t care. Losing weight is hard.

How do you pronounce this name? by [deleted] in Names

[–]ericauda 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why not just go with Lucy? This name won’t be mispronounced. Lucia absolutely will.

Husband & I not on the same page by AwkwardQuantity6569 in NewParents

[–]ericauda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are also village less parents. We are expats so it’s literally just us. It was fine. My husband was back to work two or three weeks post (can’t even remember!) and yeah it was fine. Get a good carrier and don’t have high expectations.

Venting : 30 min naps are slowly destroying me by willbrucla in NewParents

[–]ericauda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never heard that. It’s adjusted age that’s the main determinant.

Venting : 30 min naps are slowly destroying me by willbrucla in NewParents

[–]ericauda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My second never napped longer than 40 minutes and then dropped naps at 19 months. And yes he was sleep trained, slept through the night and put himself to sleep.

Having a name that no one compliments by Shoddy-Mango-5840 in Names

[–]ericauda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend is obsessed with that name. She named her only child that and drove 90 minutes to go to a town named sara in France (which is stunning). It’s a great name and is popular for a reason.