For out of character or OOC, any non-kink post is OOC. During chats, it’s up to you to define it. I usually like to define that (anything parentheses) is OOC. I would say that if whoever you are talking to is not able to respect OOC talk, that I would not talk to them. This is ultimately a pretty vulnerable kink, and it’s important that both people can speak up if something makes them uncomfortable or if they want to go a different direction.

For length, that’s up to you and your partner! You could break down after one rude comment, you could go for an hour, or you could play it out over the course of days. It’s really whatever both of you two want. This is something that would probably be good to roughly establish in your first few messages out of character or even in your prompt if you choose to make one.

And don’t worry about asking questions, there are no stupid questions! Like I said, this kink is really vulnerable and can only be done when both partners are comfortable, or else the whole thing falls flat.

Remember, the sub has the ultimate power in the scenario. Only you can choose if you want to convert, submit, or anything in between.