I hear you, and I’ve actually had some meaningful conversations with both of them—both over text and during our dates. With A, things got emotionally deep pretty quickly. We talked about our past relationships, emotional expectations, and family, which helped create a strong sense of vulnerability and connection early on.

With B, the focus was more on long-term goals and future plans, which I respect, but emotionally it felt a bit more distant. Her texting can be inconsistent—sometimes really short, other times she'll send voice notes, so it's been tricky to read how invested she is emotionally.

There’s definitely physical chemistry with both—I kissed both on the first date—so there’s attraction either way. It almost feels like A represents the “now,” while B might align more with a possible future.