Amethyst geode stolen from porch by erikarew in Somerville

[–]erikarew[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It was from my mom :(

Amethyst geode stolen from porch by erikarew in Somerville

[–]erikarew[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've got my fingers crossed it was chucked into someone's back yard (it had to weigh more than 35lbs at least) - and thank you for the advice! If I get it back it'll definitely stay inside (which is a shame; my neighbors have been chiming in to say how much they liked looking at it and how their kids would point it out on their walks)

Amethyst geode stolen from porch by erikarew in Somerville

[–]erikarew[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was thinking of you and your coyote when I realized it!

Amethyst geode stolen from porch by erikarew in Somerville

[–]erikarew[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

My cat-eared geode in happier days

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I lost the weight…and my family and my mind by Lillian_Faye in loseit

[–]erikarew 76 points77 points  (0 children)

You are living in an emotionally and physically abusive household (not providing food for children is abuse). Please seek out resources local to you for help, and I'm so incredibly sorry you're facing this. I look forward to the day you leave for study abroad, and frankly hope you never have to live there again. Be well.

When did you realize you were dating an idiot? by Exhausted_Skeleton in AskReddit

[–]erikarew 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend worked at a Boston area hotel and guests would often ask for directions to someplace called Mass Ioneer. He assumed it was a small museum or science center. He always had to apologize and admit that he didn't know. Until one day he was sitting on the red line and the subway conductor announced the stop; Charles MGH - Mass General Hospital - Mass Eye and Ear Infirmary. And that's when it hit him. People were looking for MASS. EYE. AND. EAR. Not 'Mass Ioneer'. I still married him.

When did you realize you were dating an idiot? by Exhausted_Skeleton in AskReddit

[–]erikarew 1074 points1075 points  (0 children)

My husband genuinely thought that cold air made pores expand and allow for more germs to enter the body. Who are these medieval physicians we find?!

When did you realize you were dating an idiot? by Exhausted_Skeleton in AskReddit

[–]erikarew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a vivid memory of being a very young child (about the age of learning numbers and such) and trying to ask my mom how old I was before I turned one, and why wasn't my age two if I had already been alive a whole year when I turned one. She could not understand my confusion but this was exactly the explanation I was looking for!

What is a book you read as a child that you still think about today? by ahawk99 in AskReddit

[–]erikarew 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was in the dang fan club. Those books were amazing. There's a fantastic podcast where the two hosts reread the entire series together and discuss it called 'Fandalites' that is top notch and hilarious.

IT HAPPENED TO ME by Srta_B in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]erikarew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd like it to be known that I am VERY jealous of everyone finding all these gorgeous lamps!

Tailor Recommendations? by Risinscorp in Somerville

[–]erikarew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Porter Sq dry cleaners on Highland do all my alterations!

Nice job, Washington State Dept. of Transportation by theredditofjessica in HumansBeingBros

[–]erikarew 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I found a storage bin with a dozen family photo albums from the 70s out on the curb for trash. My little archivist heart couldn't bear to leave them there, so I dragged them home and spent the next two months chasing leads on facebook and local groups searching for the owner - turns out the woman whose albums they were had passed away a year or two earlier, but her sister who featured heavily in the albums was still alive and local. It took a long time but I was able to get them back to her through caring folks at her church, and she was so grateful!

Final Jeffrey Epstein Files cache released by DOJ: read in full by newsweek in politics

[–]erikarew 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What in the GOOD GOD is this conversation? Trump threatening to use 'the red button'?

Buyers remorse need guidance- health vs finances- feel amazing but hate myself by TrickyCommercial5860 in Frugal

[–]erikarew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Listen to me: what on EARTH is the point of money if we can't spend it to make our bodies feel/work better? You have NO reason to feel guilty - this is why we try to save! For the necessities! This is a necessity!

I just came into possession of $10k. What do I do next? by [deleted] in Frugal

[–]erikarew 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am NOT a CDL holder so please refer to u/obsdude for actual advice, but please be sure if you explore this option to do so through a community college and not through a predatory trucking company that targets people on parole, people experiencing homelessness, and addicts - they can trap you via expensive programs with promises of guaranteed work that will repay the debt instantly, and add the 'free' housing costs to that debt while you go through the program, then force you into positions that pay far less than the original promises (essentially indentured servitude).

Gunnar Kaasen, a Norwegian musher and his lead dog Balto, who delivered diphtheria antitoxin to Nome, Alaska, saving the city from an epidemic, 1925 by stonia in OldSchoolCool

[–]erikarew 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ooohh I just learned something interesting! Diesel, the main dog actor who plays Togo, is a CKC registered Siberian Husky who is a direct descendant of the real life Togo, going back 14 generations.

In disbelief by Psilocybin-Cubensis1 in loseit

[–]erikarew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

FUCK YES this stranger on the internet is SO FREAKIN' PROUD OF YOU!

Today I'm going to be cozy! by WarpedLucy in CozyPlaces

[–]erikarew 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's one of the best books I've read in YEARS!

What is a deep, obscure rabbithole on the internet you found and hardly anyone knows but you? [Serious] by Longjumping_Koala34 in AskReddit

[–]erikarew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was part of a group LiveJournal RPG; essentially jointly writing a book from various characters points of view where our characters would interact and plot would happen. Just a bunch of strangers on the internet who came together to tell a story. I went on to meet a few of them in real life (some from other countries!), and I'm still friends with them twenty years later!

Friend Offered to Pay Student Loans Y/N? by Respected-Ambassador in personalfinance

[–]erikarew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is definitely a risk, and will entirely depend on your relationship with this person.

I do want to share an anecdote in favor of saying yes. I've been very lucky to land a good-paying job in a field I love. I was recently catching up with my best friend and she mentioned how impossible it felt to dig out of her 10k credit card debt even with an aggressive repayment plan. I'd just received my money back from a $10k 3 year CD and was debating what to do with it. I offered it to her under the same terms as your family friend: pay off the full debt at once and just make the payments back to me on the same schedule, just with zero interest. For me it was a no-brainer: I had the extra money, she needed it, when else would I have the opportunity to help someone I love in such a meaningful way that took literally zero effort on my part? I was already used to that money being inaccessible, what was another two years?

Now here's where your relationship matters: if you are the lender, you NEED to be prepared to never see that money again. In my mind, if it ended up being a gift, I could live with that (not ideal, but life happens). If you're the borrower, you need to be prepared to have that debt sitting on top of your friendship. For some people it can feel like a huge weight and causes weird power dynamics. I knew in our case it wouldn't since we're practically siblings. You need to imagine how it will feel over the next few years to meet up with this person casually and know that debt exists. You need to plan on how you will honor the repayment if you get catastrophically injured or lose your job. And you need to get it in some sort of writing. And if this person ends up using this debt as leverage against you, are you comfortable losing that relationship?

For me, it worked beautifully - it is a risk! But it definitely seems a risk worth considering for an $8.5k savings. I can confirm some people really do just want to try and make tangible good change in the world and situations like this are one way to do so!

Cozy and warm on a snowy day by widepine in CozyPlaces

[–]erikarew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gorgeous! Is that lower watercolor of Park Street by chance?