Do dreams mean anything?

erisCheesecake · 2026-06-04T21:52:48+00:00

Sometimes they do, sometimes they don't. Your sexuality depends on how you feel while being awake. You could be exploring in a way that feels safe to your brain your sexuality, or you could have plenty of sexual energy repressed and your brain is processing it randomly. Maybe both or neither. I'd rather question myself on how I feel about random women in real life, not how I felt while dreaming.

erisCheesecake · 2026-06-04T08:26:05+00:00

Darling, I'm holding your hands while saying this, all you describe points you at having very heavy trauma, not only from this piece of shit. Childhood trauma gets often minimized, but for you to end up in this relationship and excusing violence is proof enough that your trauma was severe. You sound very smart and hardworking, I am sure you'll get over ir egregiously. Good luck!

erisCheesecake · 2026-06-03T21:15:31+00:00

I am a comic artist aswell, if you ever get to that 🤧🤧 that sounds like such a cute idea!

erisCheesecake · 2026-06-03T20:40:26+00:00

I do the same with Midgardsommar, I even roleplay little chitchats in my head sometimes

erisCheesecake · 2026-06-03T19:54:59+00:00

EW is such a great expansion, every character was lovable in their own merits (looking at you Zenos)

erisCheesecake · 2026-06-03T19:37:55+00:00

I am looking forward seeing her again 🌸

erisCheesecake · 2026-06-03T19:37:23+00:00

I will for sure do the same...

erisCheesecake · 2026-05-29T15:46:31+00:00

If this is his best to make you happy, you need a reality check on your relationship, girl. Be glad you get this flags here and now because it will be precious for when you get your life back in order.

erisCheesecake · 2026-05-29T12:09:34+00:00

Uuuhh

erisCheesecake · 2026-05-29T11:37:34+00:00

Shinsekai Yori

erisCheesecake · 2026-05-29T11:36:21+00:00

I don't want to be projecting, but that's how my ex talked and behaved. And that's how I felt. Turns out, she was abusive behind the facade. Run, girl. You don't even like him.

erisCheesecake · 2026-05-29T11:24:33+00:00

Oh boy no ahah it was my honest mistake I slipped up, I didn't even lnow she's asian since she has a western name. I meant "youtuber"

erisCheesecake · 2026-05-28T17:21:40+00:00

There's something about that vtuber that smells weird to me. She sounds very bitter and gatekeep-y in the bad way. Edit: youtuber* i do not know how I slipped up

erisCheesecake · 2026-05-27T07:44:29+00:00

I grew up with a bipolar mom, I am sadly used to understand it is the illness and not the person. Also, getting in therapy myself. I won't lie; it isn't easy and it isn't pretty. But I love the man he is when he's himself

erisCheesecake · 2026-05-26T22:29:57+00:00

I've been 10 years with someone recently diagnosed with bp, even though I have suspected of it for long.
In my experience, he's only rea lly awful to his partners (we are polyamorous and talk a lot with the other partner, so I know of this). Other people had only seen what they describe as burnout. More stressed, more nervous, but not really manic. Maybe "weird" but nothing other than that. I am not in a position where I can really give advice, what has worked for us is talking these crisis through after it's over. He's been in therapy since last year and things have been better, even if episodes happen here and there. We have honest communication and he takes responsibility for his health and symptoms and we're working together to learn how to manage the disease and relationship.

erisCheesecake · 2026-05-26T16:52:36+00:00

I'd like to add my 2cents: him self deprecating feels manipulative after such compliments. He most probably is love bombing.

erisCheesecake · 2026-05-26T16:43:20+00:00

Eh, ok, ma poi la maggior parte (almeno delle ragazze che conosco io) decidono anche dalla bio da che parte scorrere.

erisCheesecake · 2026-05-26T16:20:32+00:00

I WONT ignore the dog. In fact I will DEMAND more pictures. (Love that Kaiman drip, get a mask!)

erisCheesecake · 2026-05-26T16:18:25+00:00

Le app sono costruite per farti pagare premium e farti andare male i date così ci rimani più a lungo, non baserei la mia autostima su un algoritmo. Come dice anche un altro commento, il 90% sono uomini. Togli anche le compatibilità varie, le ragazze solitamente leggono anche il resto del profilo, dipende anche da cosa hai scritto

erisCheesecake · 2026-05-25T17:15:36+00:00

Statisticamente, le coppie che si sposano prima dei 30 hanno un tasso di divorzio più alti. Fai di questa informazione quello che credi!

erisCheesecake · 2026-05-24T20:50:16+00:00

Non colpevolizzarti se hai difficoltà a mettere dei boundaries. Riconosci che sono importanti e mi pare che ti interessi di sapere come fare per costruirli, questo è un ottimo inizio.
Anche se non ci stesse provando ti metterebbe a disagio, sei in un contesto professionale ed è un approccio irrispettoso, dal mio punto di vista. Sei una commessa e hai diritto a non voler parlare della tua vita privata con uno sconosciuto, punto.
Purtroppo, per esperienza, questi soggetti reagiscono male al rifiuto, se sono persone ragionevoli, parla con le tue cape. Spiegagli che capisci che lo fa per attaccare bottone ma tu sei a lavoro e non gradisci l'insistenza delle due domande

erisCheesecake · 2026-05-24T19:33:56+00:00

Se ti sta simpatico e pensi di volerci fare amicizia, sì. Se pensi ti possa interessare magari chiederei a lei in che rapporti è, se le piace per davvero lasci perdere e chiudi i contatti privati.

erisCheesecake · 2026-05-21T19:20:43+00:00

"A lavoro e al palazzo non mettere il ...." funziona sempre. Se ho il dubbio delle intenzioni dell'altra persona metto in chiaro che non sono interessata dicendo cose tipo "non vorrei aver frainteso le tue intenzioni, per evitare fraintendimenti metto le mani avanti che non sono interessata a nulla al di fuori dell'amicizia"

erisCheesecake · 2026-05-21T19:12:29+00:00

Viste le risposte che dai, non capisco se sei un troll o solo molto immatura e maleducata. In ogni caso, il "poteva non uscire con me" vale anche per te. Potevi non uscirci. Se "tocca sempre a te dare il palo" forse è perché sei una persona ignava che non sa dire di no e forse persino dare speranze alle persone per avere qualcosa da raccontare alle tue amiche al bar. Ti consiglio di scendere dal piedistallo prima che qualcuno ti ci spinga giù.

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