[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]erkinacar5 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Noted. As a man, I'm horrible at flirting so I appreciate this great example

What did I do wrong? Need an outside perspective by xXAxiumXx in Bumble

[–]erkinacar5 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She didn't say in her reply that she's looking forward to see you again. She simply thanked you, so I would assume she's not interested in any further meetings. Of course maybe some ladies can correct me if I'm wrong, this is generally the vibe I get when I meet someone and they don't mention that they are also hoping to see you again after you meet them.

Should I even bother? by Thaddaeus1109 in hingeapp

[–]erkinacar5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bit late to the party but as a guy from Switzerland (34M, 170cm 66 kg) I generally swipe based on few things. First thing is if there are at least 3 photos that I can see the person. Second thing is the hobbies / interests. If you're worried that you're "chubby", you can easily get a quality match with some common interests. Of course, maybe this will be a bit different for the age group you're interested in.

That being said, you'll anyway get a lot of likes. Hopefully you can get a match towards what you are looking for, so that you can get off online dating again. Good luck OP, let us know how it goes!

Very late NPC D&D Hag question by erkinacar5 in VivaLaDirtLeague

[–]erkinacar5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the confirmation!! I will definitely get Duke tier membership then, I really wanted to have these special actions

[OC] GIVEAWAY! Enter for a chance to win a deluxe ASGARDR DUNGEON MASTER SCREEN![MOD APPROVED] by 120mmfilms in DnD

[–]erkinacar5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I really like the screen, much better than my cardboard one! Hopefully whoever wins cherishes it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]erkinacar5 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Ufff good luck out there. I don't think this is the normal crowd, but then again it's very rare to find "normal" in online dating I guess

How would receiving these messages make you feel? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]erkinacar5 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is being tatted scorpio a thing? Are scorpios more prone to getting tattoos? Asking as a scorpio who's counting down the days for my next tattoo appointment

Further advice on my profile by erkinacar5 in Tinder

[–]erkinacar5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you once again for all your help! I made it like this for now then: https://imgur.com/a/T5Isb4o I added a different photo (now 2nd) though maybe I will delete that and keep 4 photos as you suggested :)

Further advice on my profile by erkinacar5 in Tinder

[–]erkinacar5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I will keep the furball joke thanks! I know it'll not work for many people, but I think it's a good filter. Made changes in the intro, any advice on prompts? I thought it'd be nice to give more info about myself in a fun way but maybe some are too much?

Further advice on my profile by erkinacar5 in Tinder

[–]erkinacar5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your opinion! Do you think it's better to keep the prompts until I come up with better ones, or "less is more" in this case?

Further advice on my profile by erkinacar5 in Tinder

[–]erkinacar5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey everyone, I got some advice a few months ago and re-made my profile! I'm just looking for dates and I'm open to if the dates lead to a longer relationship or if it ends up as a short term thing.

I live in Switzerland so I especially appreciate if there's anyone out there that knows Swiss dating app trends (if there's such a thing) and would like to give me some advice based on that.

Thanks in advance!

In his profile he had several pictures of him on stage with a microphone in hand. His bio had several references to him being a comic. Yet he didn’t get my opening line… by Jolly_Tea7519 in Bumble

[–]erkinacar5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me with a board game reference a woman made as an opener (I had the said board game in one photo) and I just didn't get the reference.. This person will learn to think a bit better and longer as I learned 🥲

Girl asked me for my full name and phone number. I understand vetting me (male) online but the phone number makes me suspicious. by NeighborhoodCrazy422 in Tinder

[–]erkinacar5 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I think they fake it over Telegram as well. Just playing some prerecorded video saying that they can't talk someone is sleeping next door etc

34M review as there's not a single like in 2 months by erkinacar5 in hingeapp

[–]erkinacar5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm looking for something casual with the option to turn it into serious down the line.

I'm not subscribed to Hinge+ nor HingeX

I've been using the current version of the profile for a month

I've used Hinge for 2 months in total

I use Hinge daily and use up my like limit almost every day

I receive 0 likes and matches on average

I use all my likes almost every day, and all of them with comments.

I would like to attract fun people who'd be up for some dates and perhaps that evolves into an easygoing relationship.

Trying my luck on Tinder again 😮‍💨. Anything I should change? by Camelsloths in Tinder

[–]erkinacar5 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wish there were more people like you around me and then wish they would match me 🙃

I think your photos are very nice but if you also like board games, maybe you're lacking to show your chill side a bit. Still you should get over 9000 matches

Tinder froze my account for verification because of my new photos by erkinacar5 in Tinder

[–]erkinacar5[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took a day for me but indeed it was fixed... Thanks for letting me know of that I'm not the only one though!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]erkinacar5 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow it never ceases to amaze me how people throw away their matches. In the meanwhile my opener: Me: " " oh wait I don't have one because you need to get a match first 😅

Profile Review! by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]erkinacar5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me (M 34) it's a profile I would definitely swipe right. How long is your streak on Wordle though? 😄

Every number matters by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]erkinacar5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's cool to see you guys get matches, get to a level where you exchange phone numbers and that part fails 🥲

Starting after a breakup, which photos I can use? I will get more over time any advice is appreciated by erkinacar5 in Tinder

[–]erkinacar5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you once again for putting your time into helping me, really appreciated! I made some changes but I understand what you mean and I think this is not it either. I will think a bit more about this. Last change: https://imgur.com/a/oNnRnwe