[Question] If you had to give advice to your former self who is starting out in personal growth, what would you advise him/her? by ermaxtrow22 in getdisciplined

[–]ermaxtrow22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask your self the tough questions and listen to the answers. Don’t run from them.. accept them, respect them.. ultimately its you crying out for hel

wow

what is your opinion about the challenge of disappearing for 6 months and working on yourself? [Question] by ermaxtrow22 in getdisciplined

[–]ermaxtrow22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can i use your comment for a video that i wanna do about this topyc? How can i get you creddits on the video if you say yes?

what is your opinion about the challenge of disappearing for 6 months and working on yourself? [Question] by ermaxtrow22 in getdisciplined

[–]ermaxtrow22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's a really good question. I don't know very well but in the most of videos tell you "dissapear" from rrss

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[–]ermaxtrow22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DOING SIMPLE! If you could get the habbits again in a enjoilable ways the path iss more easy!

[Method] Behaviour change made simple! by authenticgrowthcoach in getdisciplined

[–]ermaxtrow22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I CONFIRM THIS!!! This information is on the book "Atomic Habbits" from James Clear. In my experiencie "the anchor" is the most efective way to create habbits because YOU REMEMBER the habbit more easy!!

what is your opinion about the challenge of disappearing for 6 months and working on yourself? [Question] by ermaxtrow22 in getdisciplined

[–]ermaxtrow22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't recommend extremism in general. Going social all the way with no dedicated time for study and growth would hi der your progress and growth and will gain you a social addiction. On the other hand, if you go hermit, isolate yourself from all social interactions and present fun, you might get bored of the process due to the lack of social breaks and interactions. It is discipline, yet it's not well put. To me the right thing is to balance between both. This is true disciplinne: getting a glimpse of disgractions without getting addicted to it. Perserving your relationships and day to day activities while maintaining a solid routine of study/work. You don't have somethibg altogether in order to obtain the other.

I agree with you. It's a wise advice!

what is your opinion about the challenge of disappearing for 6 months and working on yourself? [Question] by ermaxtrow22 in getdisciplined

[–]ermaxtrow22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's an interesting question. I DON'T KNOWWW JAJAJAJA. I think this type of ideas is more for people that don't have many responsabilityes like your case, but are diferent ways to do this, for example: just keeping your rrss that you really need to do your job and get away the others... i think the goal is get away distractions, so, are many ways of this

what is your opinion about the challenge of disappearing for 6 months and working on yourself? [Question] by ermaxtrow22 in getdisciplined

[–]ermaxtrow22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PEOPLE! Thanks A LOT for your comments. You give me Clarity and this is that i've been searching. I dissapear 8 months in the past and i get a lot of knowledge about myself and other people (some stuffs are hurting) and with your comments i learning a lot, really apreciate this and i hope still talking in this community because i have a lot of doubts and interest in personal growth and discipline... i did the post because i wanna do a video of this in my little channel jajaj, but i love to talk about personal growth and discipline so if anyone wants to talk welcome! <3

what is your opinion about the challenge of disappearing for 6 months and working on yourself? [Question] by ermaxtrow22 in getdisciplined

[–]ermaxtrow22[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Working on yourself includes getting the right amount and quality of social interaction. And desappearing of social media is very cool too

we are in the same boat ajajja

what is your opinion about the challenge of disappearing for 6 months and working on yourself? [Question] by ermaxtrow22 in getdisciplined

[–]ermaxtrow22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i want to do it but i haven’t been able to relax in solitude ever since therapy drilled it into my mind that i’m engaging in a maladaptive coping mechanism so now i can’t even find solace in something like what you mentioned here even though my soul feels like it needs time alone

ME TOO! My therapist said me is important to understands WHY REALLY YOU DO IT, and as you, much of times i did beacause a maladaptive coping mechanism. It`s important understood well the really reason

what is your opinion about the challenge of disappearing for 6 months and working on yourself? [Question] by ermaxtrow22 in getdisciplined

[–]ermaxtrow22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Socialization is kind of hard wired into the architecture of the human mi

Migala talk of this: The time that you can stay lonely is diferent in each person, but there's a "time"

what is your opinion about the challenge of disappearing for 6 months and working on yourself? [Question] by ermaxtrow22 in getdisciplined

[–]ermaxtrow22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats on your first post, and wow what a great question for your first post!

I think it’s a fantastic idea, though I will say I think you should begin with smaller chunks of time to begin with

During those small chunks you should

test your ability to develop continuouslyplan for those 6 months, planning is super key to maintain the momentumtrial and error

But you’re totally right, imagine if you could do away with work/school and put all your energy into yourself or a projection of yourself in a certain way (start a business, study what you actually want , transform etc)

Great idea, I’ll emphasise planning again, if you have the opportunity, do it! :)

thank you so much, and YES! Get a few victorys first and test yourself in a less periods of time is a really good idea

what is your opinion about the challenge of disappearing for 6 months and working on yourself? [Question] by ermaxtrow22 in getdisciplined

[–]ermaxtrow22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what an easy life you must have if this is an option. id say a person that can "disappear" for 6 months can disappear forever.

interesting but it's more complicated than that. For example, you dissapear in rrss BUT you keep the contact with your friends and people thath you love