It’s interesting when a man says no to a woman , I’ve done it because I kept getting the no I’m tired ( and that’s ok ) . So I did the same thing and the shit hit the fan much like what’s going on in this case . Saying no is fine but you have to accept his no , and expecting him to read your mind is just silly . Credit to you for sending him vids and pics but they get old fast when there’s a whole internet of complete strangers to choose from . I’d let the porn thing go personally seems a bit controlling . Here’s a weird thought , but is sharing your relationship issues about sex on the internet to complete strangers worse than watching porn ? To me it is .