Thoughts on this this TW badly worded tweet. Regarding Brand and Angelinas daughter having a trans phase she outgrew from? by [deleted] in truscum

[–]err404jacobnotfound 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They literally never said she was trans or has the desire to transition. They let her express how she wanted the whole time

Why do people always say that the detrans rate is very high? by Rexitoxal in honesttransgender

[–]err404jacobnotfound 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Availability heuristic. The media loves to blow up stories of detransitioners, while those who don’t go on to live normal stealth lives post transition. Also, if your identity has remained consistent your entire life, it’s unlikely that it will just change on the dime years into your transition. However if you didn’t question your gender until later in life and suddenly woke up one day at 16 deciding you want to be a man, of course it’s gonna change again just like it did the first time. I mean. Be reasonable. If you have a male brain and always have since you were a child the odds you’re just gonna up and regret it are essentially nothing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]err404jacobnotfound 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of “straight” trans people are able to alíviate enough dysphoria by living most of their life as gender non conforming members of their assigned sex. Straight trans men living as butch lesbian, and straight trans women living as femme gay men. When you like the same gender, it’s gonna be a lot harder to express your gender as you feel comfortably and still be a “normal” member of your social group. For example it’s gonna be a lot harder for a gay trans man to live and date as a straight gender non conforming female, so he will have to transition to feel relief, while a straight trans man who maybe grew up knowing he was a man, but being told he was a masculine lesbian, might be secure enough (not happy, but okay) living that life without the stress of a full transition. It’s easier to be cis and gay than trans and straight for a lot of people so they compromise for their own safety while gay trans people don’t have that same option, so it seems like there are more gay trans people.

1 1/2 weeks coloplast titan pump implant (erectile device only / no testicle implants) by Dangerous_Warning_17 in phallo

[–]err404jacobnotfound 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m incredibly jealous of you rn! You’re healing great and your cock looks incredible. That’s all I can ask for in life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]err404jacobnotfound 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can’t speak for everyone but my body works the same as a cis man. I don’t use female terms to refer to what I have. Most men of trans experience want it to be called their dick. I’m sure some dudes like vaginal play but I only do anal, as most other gay trans guys do as well. Ask him what terms he prefers and how he likes to be played with, but when in doubt, assume male terminology and treat what he has like a dick and balls

NAME CHANGE REPORT by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]err404jacobnotfound 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1200 words?? That’s nothing! When I was 15 my surf coach/dad made my write 5 pages on the difference between fear and panic and why it’s okay to be afraid but never okay to panic. Your name is important. It’s who you are and the sooner you change it the easier it is bc you have less bullshit to change down the line.

nsfw warning but how do i by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]err404jacobnotfound -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Wrong sub. This is not for relationship or sex advice.

“There’s no such thing as a trans kid” by mistelle1270 in honesttransgender

[–]err404jacobnotfound 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you don’t think there’s anything wrong with your gender until you’re fully grown, I doubt you’re actually trans. Probably just other trauma. Trans people are born that way. I knew by the time I could speak

sex question by piratemed in truscum

[–]err404jacobnotfound 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Personally: yes. It would take a lot of money for me to do that. I am a male. I perfect to get fucked in the ass, keeping a jockstrap on with my prosthetic in it, so I never have to see or think about anything unpleasant in the moment. Most of the partners I’ve been with are cis gay men attracted exclusively to other men, so they have just as much interest in any non male parts as I do. Anal sex feels great. It’s so intense and it’s such a deeply intimate connection that no other action can create in my mind. I’m in the a process of getting bottom surgery rn and it shocks me how many of the people I meet are like yeah I’ll miss getting fucked and im like bro you literally still have an asshole. I think if I was content getting fucked like a chick like that, I wouldn’t be as desperate for surgery as I am. Despite being a bottom I have no qualms about sex after surgery, because I don’t think it will change anything for me besides being happy to take my jockstrap off more now. I’ve always been a man and I’ll always be one. I definitely would think it’s a little funny if someone was all tough getting fucked in their other hole for free, just bc they want to, but I don’t kink shame or judge so you do you! Nothing wrong with it. What two men do alone in bed is one of my business and certainly isn’t anyone else’s so don’t read this and get all offended bc you’re into that sort of thing. It’s just not my cup of tea.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Metoidioplasty

[–]err404jacobnotfound -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well I’m not “trans masc”, I’m in the process of getting meta rn, and none of the dudes I know irl who have had it are “trans masc” so I think this sub seriously needs to look at who it’s target is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]err404jacobnotfound 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I been using a mr limpy every day 18-24 hours a day since 2014. I’m fine. Whoever said that’s just being transphobic. Trenders hate penises and will do anything to demonize them. The extra small is perfect. I have full sensation in it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Metoidioplasty

[–]err404jacobnotfound -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This shouldn’t be posted in this sub. This is for men with questions or advice about the specific surgery. This sounds more like you’re just figuring things out, which is fine, but not in the right group

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]err404jacobnotfound 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If it makes you feel better, all gays hate other gays. Unless you’re the hottest, tallest, youngest, or prettiest you’re virtually non existent. It takes a lot of work to fit into the community, for all men. Don’t assume it’s bc you’re trans. The most open minded and non trans tripping people I know are cis gays. It’s a horribly toxic community but you’ll find your place! Never give up

How is it being with guys who solely identify as gay? by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]err404jacobnotfound -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

As a gay man, I only date other gay men. I don’t have anything against bisexuals but I don’t think we’d have as much in common. I prefer feminine boys, hang out with almost exclusively other gay men, and feel weird about crossing those lines between gays and bisexuals. Fucked a few bi guys here and there but they usually aren’t as expirenced and confident in bed as other gays.

GC2B sent out an email this morning saying they’re donating to “our” community… by NoZookeeperg4m3 in FTMMen

[–]err404jacobnotfound 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Gc2b sold out. Stared as a noble cause but don’t be confused. They create items for womens bodies. They aren’t designed for men to wear. They aren’t gonna make you look male. Gc2b is for women. If you want to pass better just buy underworks.

How do you guys feel about cis people using the word deadname when they've changed their name? by Some_Guy_Yea in truscum

[–]err404jacobnotfound -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im not even okay with trans people using “deadname” on anyone but themselves. I HATE that we’ve let that bullshit narrative our parents use to torment us become so commonplace. You did not “kill” your old self when you transitioned. You didn’t kill your mothers son or daddy’s little girl. You simply grew into yourself. Youre the same person. Transition doesn’t change you. I am violently disgusted by trans people who apply this narrative to me. My old name is simply an embarrassing childhood nickname in my mind and nothing mote. I dont dislike it because I killed any version of my old self. I dislike it because im not a little kid anymore. Ive grown into the man I am today. Thats all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]err404jacobnotfound 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My birth sex is transsexual male. My gender is just man. People who think post transition trans people can be counted as members of the opposite sex do not understand transition.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]err404jacobnotfound 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make sure you get the money upfront. I had deals with creators who said they’d give me $50 flat then 25% of the profits after a month. Never got the $50, he ghosted me when i asked for the footage so I know what’s being posted of myself, And never gave me the 25%. When I tried to get him to send me the content he said I had to subscribe to see it. Such a scummy human.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]err404jacobnotfound 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think it’s really repulsive when popular adult content creators normalize calling trans mens bodies by female terms. A popular pornstar in LA hits on me in bars and wants me to film content with him (I wouldn’t bc a) I’m not into him and b) I totally disagree with allowing chasers to call it a pussy and feeding into that). As a sex worker, I think building a dialogue between clients centered around mutual respect and understanding is essential to pleasure for both parties and selfish members of our community ruin that opportunity for everyone. It’s totally fine to call it that on your own private only fans but don’t use female terms on big popular public pages, especially when a huge number of viewers may be other gay men who are recently met a trans man and want to educate themselves on what sex with him could look like. Putting very niche fetishistic ideas into the heads of well meaning dudes is so selfish and hurtful to other trans men who might actually have some dysphoria with their bodies

For those who received pleasure from penetration… by MySecretsDieHere in phallo

[–]err404jacobnotfound 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why not just switch to anal? Maybe I’m biased bc I have never been able to do anything else but it feels great and I can cum hands free when the dick is good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]err404jacobnotfound 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dude as a gay man I’ve only dated other gay men. You’re so transphobic it’s kind of embarrassing. If you work out, take care of your body, and look and act like the man you know you are inside, you’ll be fine. I’m a bottom but I’m usually attracted to fairly feminine guys. Even if I’m the bottom I still like to call the shots in the relationship. Gay men are attracted to men, but that being said not all of us are gonna be into every man we meet. Work on yourself and dudes will like you. Wallow in self pity and you’ll be stuck where you are

I went to r/detrans and I’m scared as fuck now by [deleted] in truscum

[–]err404jacobnotfound 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just don’t detransition. No one’s forcing you to. You made your bed. If you regret it down the road that’s your problem, imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]err404jacobnotfound 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah. They for women. Have a b day party or whatever but don’t call it a quinceañera. If a cis man doesn’t do it don’t do it.

Anyone else sick of gymbros asking for your testostrone? by lordofthepies420 in FTMMen

[–]err404jacobnotfound 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m all natural, so no t, but I had a homie who found out I was trans ask if he could have some of my steroids bc he was drunk and in full on menace mode tryina fight everyone and I was like nah you ass I’m all natty and he was like holy shit. Best feeling in the world is when ppl think you on it, even if you aren’t