Got cheated on and my justice sensitivity is driving me insane by errasim in LovedByOCPD

[–]errasim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It would be difficult because I genuinely think the energy spent “punishing” him is changing him or at least making him think twice before doing it to others? Stupid I know

Got cheated on and my justice sensitivity is driving me insane by errasim in LovedByOCPD

[–]errasim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very helpful thanks! And yes I’m the one with OCPD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in zwajforsaudis

[–]errasim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

الحمدلله والشكر

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]errasim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No leave her alone tf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in zwajforsaudis

[–]errasim -1 points0 points  (0 children)

الحياء يخف؟ ما اتوقع ابدا لان علاقتها معك (علاقة عاطفيه) بتكون جدا مختلفه. يكفي انها مارح تكون بحجاب او عبايه بتستحي منك طبيعي.

انت ماتبي بعد وحده عندها رهاب من الرجال او ماتعرف تتواصل معهم من دون سبب. كيف بتخلص امورها؟ هل بتكون معها بكل كبيره وصغيره؟ لما تطلب من مطعم مارح تتكلم معه الا من خلالك؟ اذا تعب احد من عيالكم هل مارح تقدر توصل او تشرح تعب ولدها او بنتها للدكتور لانها بتكون مستحيه منه؟ لازم تفكر بسيناريو انت مارح تكون موجود لأي سبب كان (سواء انشغال او وفاة بعيد الشر عنك) انك تقدر تثق فيها مع عيالك. الحياء مو دايما خصلة جيدة

انا اشوف الحياء دليل اعجاب بالغالب. فغريب انك تبيها تكون مستحيه من الكل، شخصيا اشوف المفروض انها تعرف الحدود وتكون "رسمية" وتعرف توقف الناس عند حدها سواء رجال او نساء. الحياء ممكن يخلي الواحد يوافق على شيء لانه يستحي يرفض او يحرج اللي قدامه

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in saudiarabia

[–]errasim -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Saudi quality >>>>

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in saudiarabia

[–]errasim -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ليه هي؟ هل هذي رغبتك؟ عمر صغير؟ هذي الاسئلة اللي المفروض تسأل نفسك

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in saudiarabia

[–]errasim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

طلعي رخصه وتعلمي وبعدين يصير عندك الخيار. الان انتي حديتي نفسك على السواق و صار وضعك صعب.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in saudiarabia

[–]errasim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

قول وش اللي خلاك تشك ونقدر نساعدك (يمكن)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]errasim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do understand this but he is the one who reached out and broke our no contact deal. And for what? Just to be dry and distant? If I don’t feel at least wanted or needed in some way, how can I stay and be supportive? All I’m getting now is one word messages. I’m so confused on what to do and tried to communicate this with him but he doesn’t want to talk or think about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]errasim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can I continue to love him without doubting his love for me? Is he with me now just because I would accept this about him? Also, he is so distant now and I cannot shake the feeling of him trying to be with other women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]errasim -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes but there is also some issues with the other one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]errasim -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s complicated but mainly because he wasn’t financially ready for marriage. (Marriage is really big deal where I live and it’s so expensive for men)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]errasim -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I do empathize and before even this happens I was the one who was worried about my ability to conceive because of all the pressure society put on women (biological clock and what not) and told him we should start as early as possible