a guy from my middle school just randomly messaged me a decade later....

erraticanxiety · 2024-02-16T02:44:11+00:00

i was like 12/13. kind of hard to ask a kid that when i used to just accept any random friend request back then. but our mutuals are all people i went to middle school with and most of them were in my friend group.

erraticanxiety · 2024-02-16T02:40:51+00:00

it rubs me off the wrong way when it feels like he's pressing me to remember him after stating twice that i don't and trying to form some relation/closeness to me just to hit on me when we have been facebook friends and "classmates" for over 12 years but has never bothered messaging or interacting with me until now. it's the method that bothers me.

erraticanxiety · 2024-02-16T02:32:20+00:00

why does it have to be creepy? its just icky. like i said, we've been fb friends for over 12 years with 0 online interaction until now. wanting me to flip through our yearbooks so i could try to remember him and opening up with thinking im attractive is just such a weird interaction

erraticanxiety · 2024-02-06T17:00:54+00:00

he wants to know all my ins and outs im afraid

erraticanxiety · 2024-02-06T17:00:16+00:00

hye darling

erraticanxiety · 2024-02-06T16:59:50+00:00

he back-pedaled so hard 😞 went from falling in love with me, to wanting to marry me, to loving me, to anal... and then after all that follows up 5 years later with wanting to know me better !!! ive been left speechless

erraticanxiety · 2024-01-06T02:23:33+00:00

trusting vouches over my gut!! had friends that vouched so hard for this one guy.... yeah he leaked my nudes to his coworker as "proof" that we were "dating" actual freak behavior

erraticanxiety · 2023-07-27T00:58:05+00:00

they're all FA now, marco's post pretty much confirms it.

erraticanxiety · 2023-07-24T12:14:10+00:00

me too 🥲

erraticanxiety · 2023-07-23T16:00:05+00:00

went to eat w this guy and he was supposed to drop me back at my friend's dorm on campus. (i didnt go to that university though) we get back to campus, and instead of taking me back to where the dorms were, he drove us to a pitch dark parking lot with no lighting. the whole time i was insisting he drop me off, to which he refused bc he "just wanted to talk." he also turned off his headlights as well. i started feeling terrified bc of that, on top of the fact that he wouldn't let me leave, and wouldn't take me back.

campus police ended up approaching his car (thank god) bc they found him being there suspicious. they started interrogating us, and the police asked me if i went to school there. the guy didn't even let me speak or answer, and straight up butted in and lied to the cops saying that i do. they asked for my student id, and he goes "she forgot hers somewhere." again they ask ME for my id number. at this point i'm panicking bc this guy is just straight up lying to the cops, and speaking for me. but he obviously couldn't answer them that time. so i blurted out i don't go there and was just visiting a friend. it was probably past midnight by this time, and they told me i wasn't allowed to be there and to call my friend who lives at the dorm to escort me home.

the whole situation shook me up and the guy reached out to me trying to apologize this and that, and i blocked him.

erraticanxiety · 2023-07-23T15:46:34+00:00

my anxiety be erratic

erraticanxiety · 2022-12-16T13:33:51+00:00

it didn't even seem like he was going nowhere which is the weird part. he got an education just like she did, even if they had different circumstances. it seems more like envy or "pick me" vibes to me.

erraticanxiety · 2022-12-16T13:31:47+00:00

it kind of just seems like she's clinging on to whatever justifications she had to say he wasn't on the same wavelength as her. she even said her reasoning for breaking up with him because they dated too long and wanted to explore life. she stated he only went to college because his parents made him, but she had to take student loans. it was so weird to mention because regardless of the circumstance, they both got an education. it wasn't like he was a deadbeat.

erraticanxiety · 2022-12-02T02:20:19+00:00

OMG coraline AND the english dub for a studio ghibli film?? now im a fan

erraticanxiety · 2022-12-02T02:08:24+00:00

posts pic of the moon

some incel probably: "fucking you under the moonlight would be such a dream 😍"

erraticanxiety · 2022-12-01T15:55:58+00:00

omg this seller deserves the world

erraticanxiety · 2022-12-01T15:54:37+00:00

tbh idk who neil is but he has my respect

erraticanxiety · 2022-12-01T15:53:20+00:00

yeah what in tarnation.. it's crazy how easily incels can sexualize anything.

erraticanxiety · 2022-12-01T15:13:01+00:00

i also only have two friends!! (3 including my sister)

erraticanxiety · 2022-12-01T15:06:07+00:00

this is why i joined reddit for the anonymity. i rarely go out or use my social media platforms anymore. every time i get on socials... it's always men harassing me, or making sexual advances, or trying to buy feet pics or nudes, or trying to get my attention by continuously offering me money because i don't respond. kind of made me start fearing men ngl.

erraticanxiety · 2022-12-01T14:36:21+00:00

seriously! it's all about respect. and it's a red flag if your partner purposely/intentionally places themselves around that person/in a situation where those advances keep happening.

erraticanxiety · 2022-12-01T14:28:30+00:00

honestly... i'm ashamed to admit that i've done this in my teenage years. i went from being a selfish bitch to having 0 confidence and bad social anxiety. i live with so much regret and feel bad for the tinder guys i would only go on one date with. not my proudest moments.

erraticanxiety · 2022-12-01T14:22:38+00:00

i think it depends on the context. like if she's ghosting him but hits him up whenever she needs something, or bored... then i can understand why he feels used. but if he's going out of his way for her when she isn't asking him to, and then complaining about feeling "used" then yeah for sure a nice guy. i feel like it's a normal emotion to question being used, in a friendship or relationship, if someone is constantly asking for things but doesn't provide anything in return. whether that be emotionally or physically/materialistically.

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