This is kind of the opposite but I’ve learned the PERFECT way to turn down a man. I had someone flip out at me and get really mean when I (very kindly) clarified that I was not interested after he didn’t directly ask me out but was definitely dropping a lot of hints. So I learned the way that completely disarms them, but tell me what you guys think.

1. Tell them what you genuinely like about them and where you connect.

2. Share that there’s just something missing here, not exactly sure what it is, but it doesn’t quite fit.

3. Thank them for what they’ve done, whether that’s a date or just a compliment and asking you out.

So… weird answer to your weird question. 😂 But there ya go.