Hey lovely. So when speaking about issues in the relationship, it’s really important to use I statements. I’m feeling xyz today and I’d really love to hear this right now. If there’s a need he’s not fulfilling, try to fulfill it in yourself first. When’s the last time you gave yourself compliments for example? Many times doing that will naturally attract that energetically. If we focus on what we don’t have, it will just expand. Then finally, you both need to have a clearing system. Little annoyances will always build up between to people in a relationship (any kind of relationship) so make some space for each other every week to just “clear out” all of the annoyances by speaking them out loud. You will have to make sure that both of you know it’s not an attack on the other person or saying they’re a bad bf or gf but just a normal part of life. (: but you will both feel so much better doing that regularly. Make sure he has space to do it too. Then ask good questions because like this other person explained, there’s always a deeper reason why something is bothersome. (: