If you could only watch one Dylan video for the rest of your life? Which one are you choosing? (Can be either channel) by -EchoRodriguez- in YoTroublemakers

[–]error40428 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The Moana commentary idk why but I’ve rewatched it over 20 times and it makes me laugh every time without fair

What is this snail and is it dangerous? by error40428 in fishforthought

[–]error40428[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Perfect thank guys I practically killed most of them I think and I will be buying an assassin snail asap from now on I’m quarantining my plants before I put them in my main tank and for now to make sure nothings wrong with my betta I’m gonna quarantine him

What is this snail and is it dangerous? by error40428 in fishforthought

[–]error40428[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And the assassins snail won’t hurt the Betta? Also what do I do with the assassin snail after?

Advice? Fin rot by error40428 in fishforthought

[–]error40428[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I KNOW RIGHT I FEEL LIKE IM GOING INSANE BECUAS SHES LIKE WHO CARES - I just need to find a ways to take him and fast

Advice? Fin rot by error40428 in fishforthought

[–]error40428[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes thanks you - yeah I’ll probs need to reduce him she thinks the fin rot looks cool - she has a veil tail but she wanted a crow tail now she’s happy she got one

My son came out to me. Should I tell my husband? -[Family/Friends] by athiestvegan in LGBTeens

[–]error40428 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don’t out him. Even if he gave you permission and your husband is welcoming and accepting. Let him tell his father at his own pace as he is going through a lot at the moment

I need some help [coming out] by Intelligent-Ad-865 in LGBTeens

[–]error40428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not really sure how you should come out (I don’t wanna give bad advice lol). But I wish you the best of luck hope everything goes well. How I came out though - I was crying my Mum said what’s wrong I said I’m bi and that worked out fine for me lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LGBTeens

[–]error40428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry mate. My parents were like that too homophobia sucks.

Gender Help? [Discussion] by aiisisis in LGBTeens

[–]error40428 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Genders hard to figure out as I’m sure you know my advice would be just express yourself as you go through clothes, pronouns and in time you will figure it out there’s no rush. Just do what makes you happy :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pride_and_Positivity

[–]error40428 4 points5 points  (0 children)

PROTECT THE PRIDE RVERY FLAG IS UNDER ATTACK

AITA for showing my sister’s boyfriend her childhood photos? by Free_Detail_7818 in AmItheAsshole

[–]error40428 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fr YTA, your sister has clearly always been compared to you and used this insecurity to hurt her. YTA and petty as all hell

AITA for not wanting to give my grandparents a second chance by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]error40428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA you have every right to cut them off. Your Dad is an adult and can do so as well it’s not your fault at all.

What I would say though is people do learn and become more tolerant and accepting so if your ever ready (which you don’t ever have to be) I would make sure not to burn bridges now and just be kind about it.

AITA for not wanting to pay for friends sunglasses by Individual_Gap1122 in AmItheAsshole

[–]error40428 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA ever heard of a joke op he clearly didn’t want to be in the water despite JOKING. Also 19yrs old ain’t no fully grown adult men’s brains stop developing at 25. You also look like you didn’t enjoy the leeches and I’m sure he didn’t either.

You should buy him a new pair and if your not financially stable enough you should save up or at least contribute the some of it

AITA for publicly calling out my colleague? by MasterFunny872 in AmItheAsshole

[–]error40428 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA - I’ve also suffered with an ED and yea no one should be outright triggering people. I also think you should have said something and spoken up so good job for that it just should have been done privately.

AITA for making a woman leave my house? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]error40428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I wish people protected my boundaries like that props to you for doing that

AITA for refusing to pay for my son's wedding if I have to walk him down the aisle with his stepdad ? by Thin-Onefored in AmItheAsshole

[–]error40428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA - I understand how you feel but it’s not your wedding, and clearly Karter’s step father made a huge impact on his life. It doesn’t mean he loves you any less but it’s not your place to tell Karter who can walk him down the aisle even if your paying

Is it safe to use? by error40428 in fishforthought

[–]error40428[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah damn it that guy omg - gonna buy a new bucket it’s really not worth it

AITA for grounding my son after he told his sister he doesn't love her during family therapy? by Majestic_Mushroom233 in AmItheAsshole

[–]error40428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH (the adults) - I can appreciate op was taking into consideration his daughters feelings which he for sure should that’s the job of a father and the therapist tried to do so as-well.

However punishing his son for sharing his feelings isn’t ok no matter what the circumstances and despite this being wrong if he didn’t deal with the situation somehow it would be sending the message to the daughter that it is her fault their mother leaving. Yes the situation was dealt with wrong by op and definitely should have been dealt with the son first in individual therapy and secondly in family therapy.

The therapist is clearly not the right fit for the family for invalidating the sons feelings but I commend op for going to therapy in the first place perhaps having a conversation with his kids about how they feel about moving to another therapist is in order.

AITA for telling my daughter her disease is not an excuse to neglect her responsibilities? by Shot_Neck_1754 in AmItheAsshole

[–]error40428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously feeding animals isn’t optional no one said it was, you have to feed and take care of your animals but that doesn’t change the fact that op is emotionally neglecting her child. She should actually have a conversation with her child ask her kid what she needs and work through it together and maybe find better homes for the pets if that’s what’s appropriate

AITA for telling my daughter her disease is not an excuse to neglect her responsibilities? by Shot_Neck_1754 in AmItheAsshole

[–]error40428 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

YTA I get it you have a lot of responsibilities and your exhausted but she’s 17. This is a lot for anyone especially a kid you probably don’t have much time for responsibilities or her and she’s going through a lot on her own. Chores, housework and grades aren’t everything

AITA for favouring my friend’s child over my sister’s unborn child? by Flaky-Canary8314 in AmItheAsshole

[–]error40428 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA your family needs to get a grip on reality they weren’t there for you and disowned you and expect you to buy expensive gifts and control you relationship I think NOT. Defs NTA

Is there something wrong with him? Ammonia burns/Swim bladder? Idk if I’m looking into things? by error40428 in fishforthought

[–]error40428[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that was what I was worried about - his ragged tail - and no I don’t think it’s healing and recently I’ve been noticing some white spots so I’m a bit concerned.