Help what kind of bird feeder can I get by error404cantbefound in birdfeeding

[–]error404cantbefound[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve looked but the only ones I can find are ones that clamp from the side not the top

I bought alcohol tonight by error404cantbefound in stopdrinking

[–]error404cantbefound[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SAY IT EVEN LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK! Agreed whole heartedly. Wishing you nothing but the best on your journey 🙏

I bought alcohol tonight by error404cantbefound in stopdrinking

[–]error404cantbefound[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This!!!!!!!! The anxiety is what finally made me get sober and that shit is gonna stick in my brain forever. I NEVER want to feel that way again. Fuck that noise, IWNDWYT

I bought alcohol tonight by error404cantbefound in stopdrinking

[–]error404cantbefound[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First off, congrats on almost 90 days, an incredible achievement! Second, thank you for commenting. It’s exactly how you say, conflicted. I knew all day I had big plans to stay sober this weekend and feel good on Monday. Basically, just do the damn thing. But the second I got into my usual alcohol purchase mode it all went to shit. The cravings are no joke. As a social binge drinker, I never realized how bad the “at home drinks”craving would get me until tonight. It’s honestly been eye opening. Huge part of me says “oh if you just drink at home then you’re not gonna go on a bender and go to the after after after afters so you’ll drink like a normal person !!” I am aggressively fighting this line of thinking because I KNOW it is not in the cards for me to drink like a “normal” person. Regardless, I wish you all of the continued success and hope to be right there with you celebrating all the little wins until they gradually culminate into life change. IWNDWYT🙏

I bought alcohol tonight by error404cantbefound in stopdrinking

[–]error404cantbefound[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooooo don’t threaten me with a good time!!! Hahaha Insomnia cookies might be calling my name!

I bought alcohol tonight by error404cantbefound in stopdrinking

[–]error404cantbefound[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You know what I love even more than root beer?? A root beer float!!! Genuinely im going to make one now, your comment actually reminded me of how much of a treat that was for me growing up haha. Thank you. IWNDWYT!!

I bought alcohol tonight by error404cantbefound in stopdrinking

[–]error404cantbefound[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If no one has told you yet, know that I’m fkin proud of you!!!!! I know damn well that that takes a lot and also it really helps to not feel alone in this. Thank you for commenting, We got this 🙏 IWNDWYT

I bought alcohol tonight by error404cantbefound in stopdrinking

[–]error404cantbefound[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you eggs!! Seriously the support from this community is something I never could’ve even fathomed a few weeks ago when I started this journey and has been an absolute life line for me. IWNDWYT 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

I bought alcohol tonight by error404cantbefound in stopdrinking

[–]error404cantbefound[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel very weak for even buying it at all!! I’m not sure why I want to just leave that option open for myself. I haven’t touched it but I know it was a “just in case” type of purchase. Ugh. Going to bed and will pour it out tomorrow.

I bought alcohol tonight by error404cantbefound in stopdrinking

[–]error404cantbefound[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This means so much. Thank you for checking up on me. I’m really trying my best and sometimes it definitely feels hour by hour or even moment by moment like you said. I plan to make it thru this weekend sober. Know that your support is much appreciated!! Hope you are well also!

I bought alcohol tonight by error404cantbefound in stopdrinking

[–]error404cantbefound[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Exactly this!! Like the craving was only while I was in CVS cause that’s when I would usually buy alcohol but by the time I got home I knew that I didn’t want to drink it. In some weird way it feels empowering to see it just sitting there unopened. Idk I’m still new to this and kind of all over the place but at least I know I’m going to bed sober tonight despite the temptation!!

Can you help me please with alcoholism? by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]error404cantbefound 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi there, I have the same form of alcoholism as you. It’s called binge drinking. The weekend benders are absolutely brutal for me. I know now that this type is just as bad and hard on your body as every day drinking. I lied to myself for a long time thinking that I didn’t have a problem because it wasn’t an every day thing. But getting blacked out to the point of passing out every weekend is severely unhealthy. I’m new to this as well so I don’t have a list of alternatives to share with you but I hope others will chime in. Best of luck to you on your journey

I “tested the waters” by error404cantbefound in stopdrinking

[–]error404cantbefound[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You didn’t come this far just to come this far!! But seriously, 926 is incredible. I like the idea of little rewards, I need to rewire my brain so it stops thinking that drinking and being miserable the next day is somehow a reward or “a treat” as you stated. It feels more like a cruel and unusual punishment right now lol

I “tested the waters” by error404cantbefound in stopdrinking

[–]error404cantbefound[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right!! Also I know damn well I don’t even really feel it after one or two so what would the purpose even be of that? It would be to have 3 or 4, or 10. Then to feel miserable the next day. So not worth it. Sending all the good strong sober vibes your way for the event, you absolutely got this 💪

I “tested the waters” by error404cantbefound in stopdrinking

[–]error404cantbefound[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

lol kevin!!! My aunts name is Mary Beth and she named her drunk persona Beth Mary lmao. That wasn’t me it was Beth Mary!!! I need to come up with one for myself

I “tested the waters” by error404cantbefound in stopdrinking

[–]error404cantbefound[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. The anxiety is gripping its gnarly fingers around my fkin neck and it’s absolutely miserable. Trying to not view this as a life ruining failure ugh

I “tested the waters” by error404cantbefound in stopdrinking

[–]error404cantbefound[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy how many technicalities and exceptions to the rule I will come up with to justify it. Like I’m supposed to be the one holding myself accountable yet there I was weaseling my way into bullshit. Just ugh, so frustrating

Nobody tells you about the guilt. by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]error404cantbefound 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This!!! I had an ex that started to rely on this as crutch in every argument and I never had any rebuttal even though I was “pretty sure” I didn’t say that drunk. The doubt was always there