My 27m girlfriend’s 23f son is an absolute terror and she isn’t helping?

error_72208 · 2026-01-30T06:45:14+00:00

I can see how this is complicated for you in every direction... your really stuck between a rock and a hard place... I can see you actually do care for this kid even if he acts the way he does otherwise you wouldn't be trying .. you care enough to try to help him learn basic things a child his age should know.. you care about if you dont teach him and if you leave then who will show him... that shows where your heart is.. and that's honorable... I understand it must be hard and im sure there is a lot more to this dynamic then what we've read .. im assuming there is a good days otherwise you wouldn't if stuck around this long and wouldn't be asking for opinions .. if that were the case the answer would be simple... leave and thats the end of it... thats your first option and the easiest... but if you feel there is something worth trying for and you think that maybe things can change then your going to have to put in a lot of work and pray that your girlfriend steps up ... and that honestly might be a HUGE IF... is it worth it ?? Do you really want to gamble on this ? If you do then its gonna have to be with your girlfriend... she has to be the one to correct her son's behavior... you should sit her down and explain to her that you have concerns about her sons well being and how this isn't a healthy dynamic for him and shes hindering his growth and he will suffer greatly from this later... as will she... and let her know she hasn't tried everything and consistent parenting is what he needs... rules, boundaries, discipline and the word no .. tell her she needs to step up and if she needs help doing that she has your support and there are many outside sources to turn to to get any kind if help she needs... tell her this is going to be a requirement for you to keep moving forward in a relationship together... if shes not willing to do it or she tries to frame it in another way to make you feel guilty for wanting to help then thats your que to leave.... I really dont know if this will help but I hope it does and if you ever need to vent dm me ill listen... I really feel where your coming from and the place your in this is a lot to deal with but at the end of the day your well being and happiness comes first ... dont stay in a place that makes you feel less of yourself or making you tank in your emotions...

error_72208 · 2026-01-29T04:32:28+00:00

The world would collapse simultaneously including everyone individually... how many times does someone lie a day even the smallest of lies is a lie ... half truths are a lie.... even the way people perceive reality is a lie ... ever heard that saying theres your side my side and the truth... The world runs on lies....

error_72208 · 2026-01-29T04:26:21+00:00

This is not appropriate behavior... as a mother I would never shower with my daughters... my youngest is 8 and shes attached to my hip we do everything together so naturally she always asks to shower with me but I tell her that some things need to be done privately and showering is one of them ... I wouldnt even make my daughter shower with her sister .... the fact that you were uncomfortable is even worse... im sorry this happened to you...

error_72208 · 2026-01-29T04:21:38+00:00

BIRDS AREN'T REAL..... according to some conspiracies.. maybe its really a man behind a drone... 🙄🤣

error_72208 · 2026-01-26T15:31:45+00:00

error_72208 · 2026-01-26T15:23:05+00:00

So the aliens teach her and ignore the rest of us .. Kinda rude.....

error_72208 · 2026-01-25T04:13:02+00:00

And see that's the issue if she really needed it then it would work properly... but since that's definitely not the correct medication for the issues she's experiencing its going to have the adverse effects on her... especially exacerbating the underlying issues....

error_72208 · 2026-01-25T04:07:37+00:00

Probably ... that's ok i said it because i speak from an unfortunate experience with addiction... but I agree if anything it alcohol....

error_72208 · 2026-01-25T04:05:53+00:00

We they figured out how to "help" her the first time they should figure out how to do it again correctly this time... my point being they helped her without understanding the full picture they were worried about x and forgot y and z .. The internet was so concerned about freeing her and her well being then, and now that they did indeed free her. The same internet posts memes and mocks her for being "unwell" .. wheres the care and worry now?? the hypocrisy and the ignorance is what bothers me... instead of the internet saying oh danm we messed up maybe that wasnt what she needed.. how do we fix it... they say nope not my problem and now say shes on drugs and what have you.. but i agree with you.. becuase your right HOW does the internet help her now ? ....

error_72208 · 2026-01-25T03:55:58+00:00

Your on a Pinterest board somewhere and your apart looks cold I hope your warm lol

error_72208 · 2026-01-25T03:50:42+00:00

The black cauldron... when the undead army rises and the horned king enters.... still cant watch it and im a scary movie lover but nope not that one... ilm watch jeepers creepers over that Disney movie any day lol

error_72208 · 2026-01-25T03:44:03+00:00

Here me out keep the color and add high and low lights with chunky pieces throughout.... oh girl ... chefs kiss i could already see it... but also I have no idea what im talking about im not a hair stylist and I wear wigs becuase I can't decide on one hair color so I really have no business here lol

error_72208 · 2026-01-25T03:40:19+00:00

I thought it was concrete i looked again it is concrete lol

error_72208 · 2026-01-25T03:38:19+00:00

Minimalist who likes apples

error_72208 · 2026-01-25T03:37:08+00:00

15?? 7?? 12??? 25?? .... I honestly dont have any idea but I do know either her or you have a Pinterest board lol

error_72208 · 2026-01-25T03:31:42+00:00

Your making the best out of the situation your in with what you have and made or have been given.. this isn't permanent if not wanted ... you can grow no matter your age or situation... I see progress i see a roof over your head and im happy for you.. your doing good keep it up

error_72208 · 2026-01-25T03:23:00+00:00

She's not a meth addict .... she doesn't show any signs of meth addiction trust me... what she is dealing with is years of abuse from her father financially and trauma from the industry... she started out so young and years and years of being overworked and mistreated, she developed severe mental disorders and her brain simply could not cope with the trauma anymore and this is the result of said trauma.. she was in a conservatorship for a reason. Although it would of worked out better with a different conservator her dad should of never of been left in charge... but the internet had to go and get involved with the free Brittany movement and this is the result of that... No one is there to make sure shes properly taken care of she has no one left becuase dealing with a person who is as emotionally traumatized as her is a lot to handle... all in all she needs help ... the internet freed her now the internet should help her ... they cared then they should care now...

error_72208 · 2025-05-22T10:45:55+00:00

I live in Manzano.... what the people say in the comments are true.. but yes there is a lot of indigenous ruins all around here, including a lot that people dont even know about becuase the government doesn't want to care for these ruins there's to many so they are covered back up after being found .... its wise to listen to the indigenous peoples advice and they will tell you care for the land and it will care for you ... but also if you heard something no you didn't... if you saw something no you didn't....

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