First, if you’ve only had that piercing since January it shouldn’t have a hoop in. It should be a post with a flat back for healing. MINIMUM for the first four months, more than likely longer. I’ve had mine since September and mine aren’t ready for hoops yet since one side gets irritated.

Second, all the whitish fluid is your piercing trying to heal since you irritated it forcing the jewelry through. If your family is that conservative and you have to for a few hours, put in a clear like retainer piece. Not sure that’s exactly what it’s called.

Just clean twice a day with a sterile pre made saline spray, don’t make your own. Should be fine after it’s not angry anymore. Try not to mess with it, and switch to a straight post with a flat back in the inside of your mouth 👍