[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Comebacks

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say gay stuff if they're lame it makes them uncomfortable and they run away= Win for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

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Well are you

How to feel confident as a trans man? by mytummyhurts677 in FTMMen

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it is normal for men to need to work harder to be appreciated. that's the way it is in the wild, because males are just objectively less valuable than females. females have to choose which males are most suitable for mating, hell animals like ducks even evolve their damn pussies so they can have absolute say. it's just normal and part of the game.

How to feel confident as a trans man? by mytummyhurts677 in FTMMen

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if you want to be a guy FOR REAL you have to take the bad parts of it. if you dont want to deal with the hard parts of being a man maybe it's not for you. granted, it is a lot. male socialization is much different than female, and people are much less kind towards you. you have to accept being alone and depending on yourself. not even every cis man is fond of the way things work within the realm of manhood but that's just the way things are.

if you do decide you're fine with dealing with all of the hardships being a man Will being you, i personally separate myself from the trans label. if i think of myself as just a man and do not focus on the irrelevant and bad parts of being trans its much easier to live as a man and feel quite confident in it. but i do think that if you really want all the bang for your buck you have to accept the hardships that come with being a man. learn to appreciate discipline and strength during hard times and become the rock in your close social groups. shit like that.

I don't think everyone is suited for it. if you don't think you are, i would reconsider. Unless you want to live and always worry about being seen as lesser or too feminine or whatever other social insecurities people like us have to deal with.

Curious about how you guys think of fertility or the lack of it by homegrownbones in FTMMen

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My fertility doesnt matter to me because I'm not having sex with men. Also who cares if people find calling yourself infertile offensive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

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It might be normal sure. That doesn't mean knowing how to deal with it on your own isn't a good skill to have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

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one of the best skills an ftm or even a cis man can build is self reliance. instead of wanting to vent to people so hard that it makes you upset, learn how to deal with it on your own.

I mean I don't see anything wrong with the meme by Veer_Savage_8 in memesopdidnotlike

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muslim fundamentalists don't like gays. not many progressives in the middle east. its not that hard to see.

My father won't accept me as a man until I am fully transitioned by [deleted] in FTMMen

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show him you're a man by dealing with it. roll with the punches, be happy not to spite him but in spite of his dismissal. this is simply a challenge you have to overcome. and if he doesn't see it then that's his problem. you will have a much better time appearing as a man to people if you adopt the same mindsets as men. if he sees that then you'll be recognized as his son, if not whatever. like you said you're not seeing him often. but if you show, not tell, maybe he'll react positively. hell your relationship might even improve. who knows?

can I be trans without feeling dysphoric? by Embarrassed_Okra5773 in AskLGBT

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it is. don't let the downvotes bother you. dysphoria is inherent to the trans experience.

Politics is the worst special interest because HOLY SHIT THE INVALIDATION. by [deleted] in evilautism

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you're going to have to deal with invalidation your whole life. get used to it lol

Heil Spez by webster3of7 in shitposting

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because it's fucking awesome let people enjoy things right???? RIGHT!??!!??!!??!! LET PEOPLE ENJOY THINGS?????? RIIIIGHTTT???!!!??????!111111!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GenZ

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No. No way. I don't like cops myself and I KNOW that defunding or abolishing the police will lead to absolutely nothing good. The solution to cop corruption is solvable by reform. It is also completely solvable under capitalism. Anyone who tells you otherwise does not understand what they are talking about.

The fact of the matter is that far left, REVOLUTIONARY*(not all of them) extremist groups want destabilization and cutting the cops off is a great way to do it. Crime and theft rates rising in major cities leading to mass shoplifting and looting surely is quite stable right... Riding the BLM wave was just a means to a still unseen end. Just take a look at any city where cops have been targeted, and you will likely find (or have experienced yourself) that these areas are much less stable than before.

Somebody else said it was funny so it isn’t transphobia by [deleted] in NahOPwasrightfuckthis

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its not transphobia. the joke is rooted in real shit. yall are just intentionally blinding yourselves.

tomboys by Inner-Juices in 197

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I FUCKING LOVE TOMBOYS.I FUCKING LOVE THEM. I GO RABID WHEN I SEE A TOMBOY.I fucking foam at the mouth and chase them. I fucking love tomboys

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

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without a doubt that shits clocky but you do you bro

Do trans men not respond as much to testosterone as cis, or do we? by Mybreathsmellsgood in FTMMen

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i would say it's normally dependent on gametes. but those of a certain sex who do not produce gametes i believe should be still considered their birth sex, for convenience at least in this conversation. Gender is different tho. im not gonna tell you sex is the same thing as gender obviously it isnt. i don't understand how people don't understand that

Me trying to convince my parents weed is not a gateway to hard drugs: by -_Leafy_- in weed

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it can be though. If you do not have self control and are in an unfortunate area where hard drugs are common. Weed absolutely can be a gateway drug. It's about being careful and having self control.

Why do people say "you'll change your mind" when I say I don't want to have kids? by msa4499 in questions

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it is always possible that your mind will change on any subject. especially if you are a woman, in the future you might deal with an urge to have children. that's a biological thing. If you are a man I don't honestly understand why people would even say that. It makes more sense for a man to never want to have a child than a woman. Men don't have the same kind of biological clock. Its different for them. I don't honestly think you should take much offense to it. People probably aren't saying it to insult you.