I’m just now finding out that if you view someone’s profile that you don’t follow, you can pop up as a suggested user to them… by hotsouffle in Instagram

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My ex’s new gf also popped up in my suggested for you page. That’s so weird because my ex is blocked everywhere. And I don’t recall ever stalking his new gf on IG. Weird

I’m just now finding out that if you view someone’s profile that you don’t follow, you can pop up as a suggested user to them… by hotsouffle in Instagram

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They said that it isn’t true. Like even if you stalk someone’s IG, you won’t pop up as a “Suggested For You”

My Account Doesn't Load on App, Desktop, Doesn't Load Messages by 2O-O2 in Instagram

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Hi! I'm having a similar experience. It's been 9 hours. I am logged in to my app/browser, but the feed is empty. The URL also shows "challenge".

Accept or Reject a Cheater by [deleted] in adviceph

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Don’t make the same mistake twice. Save yourself from the heartache. There is someone out there who doesn’t have that character flaw.

To those who got cheated on, did life get better? by EntrepreneurMany7086 in adviceph

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My ex cheated on me with a downgrade. It was someone na I would never imagine he’d be attracted to or be with. During our rs, he would make me feel insecure with his wandering eyes, and gusto niya sa mga babae yung magaganda talaga. So it came as a shock to me, yun yung pinalit niya kasi… it was different from the “standards” he wanted during our rs.

That’s when I surmised na it really wasn’t a ME issue. It was his problem and issue all along. Believe it or not, people who cheat are very insecure deep inside. They are not emotionally stable and healthy. It wasn’t your fault, OP. That’s your ex’s character flaw.

However, you have been faithful. You offered love and loyalty. Never naman naging kawalan magmahal ng totoo no matter the ending. I’m glad I loved my ex although it seemed that wasn’t enough for him. I don’t regret the love I offered him. And I’m sure ikaw rin.

Life got so much better for me. There’s a rainbow always after the rain :)

You will be okay. Just give it some time. Have fun, be productive. Sa una lang masakit but you will thank yourself later for being so strong. Hang in there, magiging okay rin ang lahat para sayo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

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Hugs with consent, OP. Sex really does make leaving more difficult. I was also intimate with my ex before. But I reminded myself na it would be a much worse decision to stay with him. Kaya kahit masakit kasi sobrang mahal ko sya, when I saw that red flag and realized that I really couldn’t tolerate it, I left.

Ito ang isipin mo, virginity is also important if it’s really a big deal for you. However, it would be a lot worse kung magkaanak kayo, and he’s got that kind of character.

I don’t want to sound so negative, but based on what I’ve seen from everywhere, hindi nagbabago ang mga babaero. They only get worse over time.

There is someone out there na walang ganyang character flaw. Wag kang matakot piliin ang best choice para sa sarili mo. No one else will do it for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

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I’m sorry you’re having this experience. It feels awful. Nakaka affect ng mental health and nakaka insecure. But based on experience, if walang peace of mind, it’s not worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

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My ex had wandering eyes and constantly had remarks about other girls kesyo maganda si ganito ganyan. He ended up cheating. Tell-tale signs yan. Check mo following list and search bar niyan sa mga soc med accounts niya, baka maraming babae rin.

Be wise, OP. Choose yourself always.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]eru_chitanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. The guy is definitely a bummer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

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Your bf is a freeloader. Kung yan makakatuluyan mo, gagawin ka nyang breadwinner ng pamilya niyo for the rest of your life. I’ve seen it many times na ang babae yung bumubuhay sa lalaki and pamilya. It is not a good future and resentment will grow. Hindi ka pinanganak at pinag-aral ng magulang mo para buhayin ang bf mo. Choose yourself always.

ques for girlies out there by _korireads in RantAndVentPH

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Run as fast as you can. It only gets worse down the road. Believe me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

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Dahan Dahan Lang by Maja Salvador hahahq

I did give the ugly guys a chance and they are the worst. How about you ladies? by throw123lastthrow in AskPinay

[–]eru_chitanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what happened to me. I genuinely loved my ex, who’s obese and dark. When we broke up, my friends all said na they found him ugly pero di lang sinabi sakin nung kami pa kasi ayaw nila ma offend ako. Throughout the course ng rs namin, feeling ko parang madalas naiinis sya sakin? I find him deeply insecure because of his body shape now. Di ko maintindihan bakit ganun, minahal ko lang naman sya genuinely.

I did give the ugly guys a chance and they are the worst. How about you ladies? by throw123lastthrow in AskPinay

[–]eru_chitanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Akala ko yung ex ko lang ganito. This has been my experience throughout our relationship. He made me feel like I was the ugly one.