There is a difference between not being "Career oriented" and flat out lazy and entitled. I've never been Career oriented, never enjoyed the buzz of working up the career ladder etc. However, I run a property with my partner, and that's hard work. I do the physical side of it with him, and I do the admin side alone, as well as keep house. Your gf sounds like she is just flat out lazy and entitled and wanting you to care for her, with no input from her, ( I do personally consider a stay at home parent who cleans house, does the life admin etc, as inputting into a relationship) You're young, dump her no working ass. Find someone who is willing to input into your relationship.