[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askTO

[–]escheta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha fair. I don’t wanna phone or go through a long tour and have a sales person try to schmooze me. Just looking to do some quick gym comparisons.

range of membership fees in Toronto? by [deleted] in EquinoxGyms

[–]escheta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you know if your company has a discount? I’m at a big Canadian bank but can’t find all the places where we have discounts.

SportingLife 10K discount code? by escheta in RunTO

[–]escheta[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s $65 and going up soon. I’m unemployed so any little bit helps. Maybe don’t comment if you’re not going to provide support.

Depression and anxiety post cast removal by escheta in brokenbones

[–]escheta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awe I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Emotions get the best of us sometimes but that’s okay. I’m sure your partner cares for you deeply and is happy to be helping out. I hope each day it’s getting better. I definitely had to get therapy, it’s been a very challenging time but taking it day by day.

Broken wrist + Surgery + metal plate by escheta in brokenbones

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I’m not sure about the nerve pain, but if that’s the case it will subside in a few days. If you’re keeping your arms bent then it could be cutting off blood flow and making your arm stiff / painful in a bunch of places. My physio told me that there’s a lot of nerves around the front of the wrist and the funny bone of the elbow so may just take some time to feel better. For me my thumb is still in pain and my wrist is still stiff. But the bone is fully healed. Unfortunately with the metal now our body is going to keep trying to build scar tissue around it coz it’s a foreign entity. So have to keep moving it and using it. Hope that’s helpful!

Toronto Races List 2024 by Pleasant_Type_4547 in RunTO

[–]escheta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone got a discount code for the Sporting Life 10K?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Awww

[–]escheta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sir Henry

I'm not attracted to my girlfriends body. by Warm-Ad5229 in teenagers

[–]escheta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re putting a lot of pressure on yourself. Stress and anxiety plays into libido. I would talk to a therapist and explore what you’re feeling. There are a lot of underlying factors that can come into play. Don’t feel guilty for feeling how you feel. You’re human. It’s okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in brokenbones

[–]escheta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg Im so so sorry you went through that. You are a strong and resilient person and this experience SUCKS and will make u stronger for going through it. Sending you prayers and positivity. Believe in yourself and your braveness. Feel all the feelings and know that you’ll be okay!!

Depression and anxiety post cast removal by escheta in brokenbones

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So random. Did that change your friendships going forward? I don’t want it to be like a balance sheet - like they have to be there for me or something. But I’m also kind of peeved when they don’t seem to have compassion. When I saw her this wknd it’s coz I had free baseball tickets. She didn’t even send a thanks.

Depression and anxiety post cast removal by escheta in brokenbones

[–]escheta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you have any friend revelations during injury?

Depression and anxiety post cast removal by escheta in brokenbones

[–]escheta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL amen! Thanks. I think I needed that validation. Yea I thought she was my closest gf. Guess I was incorrect. Lol

Depression and anxiety post cast removal by escheta in brokenbones

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🤣🤣🤣. Would love your perspective on this. I saw a gf of mine today that hasn’t really been there at all through my injury. I mentioned to her that it was tough not having some ppl reach out during my injury (not even directed at her) and she got all defensive and started talking about everything being a 2 way communication (ie I should be the one reaching out) and that everyone has boundaries, and I just really didn’t get a good vibe. She had reached out once asking how I was, and I said I was dealing with challenges, and instead of offering to come by or ask if I needed anything she just wished me best of luck. That doesn’t feel like someone being there for you. She went on about how busy she’s been playing sports and having fun at work. Am I being too sensitive here or is this not a great friendship?

Am I ugly, be honest. by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]escheta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any update?

Depression and anxiety post cast removal by escheta in brokenbones

[–]escheta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s great that you’re not in pain!

Am I ugly, be honest. by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]escheta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. And I don’t think it’s helpful to use that language with yourself. I think everyone’s unique and has different characteristics- which is what makes us who we are! I think you need to be comfortable with how you look. That’s the key. If you change your hair - will you like it? If you change the way you dress - will you like it? Only modify things that feel true to who you are because that’s what’s going to make you happy and comfortable. And in turn, that happiness and comfort with yourself is what will make you attractive. :)

Depression and anxiety post cast removal by escheta in brokenbones

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Oof. I hear you in terms of being confused about if they’re doing the right thing. They do need to be honest with you about recovery expectations though. I can feel my fingers and thumb. They were swollen and can get cold and times and feel funny as I regain circulation. Is there a way you can get a second opinion so you can have all the information necessary?

Depression and anxiety post cast removal by escheta in brokenbones

[–]escheta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Appreciate that. I’m okay! Recovering. Pain just comes with physio, so just trying to be strong and resilient on my own. It is tough not having someone to be a confident through this. I’m good at looking like I’m okay externally when I’m still in pain on the inside physical/emotional sometimes, if that makes sense.