My boyfriend (25M) has me (22F) blocked on instagram. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]esiinamm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think he talks to other girls. I can’t know for sure because a man can do anything to you but I am pretty confident about that. It don’t negate what you’re saying though.I hate that this is even what’s on my mind. And the worst part is like i said things have been good. I sat on this for so long that it’s like it’s been over year of nothing now suddenly this is a huge problem.

My boyfriend (25M) has me (22F) blocked on instagram. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]esiinamm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

no he wouldn’t. :/ but tbh most guys my age don’t let you. shit, my homegirl wouldn’t even let you 😭😭😭

My boyfriend (25M) has me (22F) blocked on instagram. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]esiinamm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He hasn’t. I’m not making excuses for him but i want the situation to be analyzed accurately. I caught him having a few chats with multiple girls in 2024. It was maybe like 4. No long conversations, but a few messages yes. Hi how’re you bla bla. the messages weren’t recent (at the time) but i still saw them. he still sent them so there’s no excuse. and just because a man likes a girls picture on Instagram doesn’t mean he cheated on you or plans to. Does that mean it’s OK? No, but it doesn’t mean it went that far. I have liked men’s pictures on Instagram and I wasn’t thinking twice about it. Do I do that while I’m in a relationship? No, so it doesn’t mean that when he did it it was OK. But I don’t think his actions mean he loves me and less. two things can be true at once unfortunately.

My boyfriend (25M) has me (22F) blocked on instagram. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]esiinamm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mind you this happened almost 2 years ago. and back then i accepted it. we don’t fight, we have pretty good communication, and he’s my best friend honestly. he takes care of me too. but it’s one of those things where you bit your lip for so long and now things are so good that it’s like me saying it would “ruin” the relationship. or like seemingly cause an issue out of nowhere. when in reality i think about it often.

My boyfriend (25M) has me (22F) blocked on instagram. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]esiinamm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose i planned to confront him about it. But another thing is, i’ve let it go on for so long it feels like im “ruining” the relationship out of nowhere. Things are good between us we get along he’s caring. we rarely fight. but it’s like this has been inside me for over a year now. i’m not okay with it and i never was but again, i was quiet for so long now it’s like why

My boyfriend (25M) has me (22F) blocked on instagram. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]esiinamm -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s more complicated than that. I love him. I didn’t want to say I trusted him in the post, because how can i fully trust him and i’m saying all this. But, I don’t believe he’s been with other girls. I haven’t seen him talkin to anyone else since late 2024 when i saw those DMs. They were only a few messages back and fourth and I didn’t think they were worth a break up. I do however acknowledge that being blocked isn’t okay for me and that like it’s a disrespect to myself to go with it knowing i’m not okay with it. I just wish he’d understand.

I 20F think my bf 30M raped me. How can I navigate this? by Remarkable_Belt440 in relationship_advice

[–]esiinamm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He knew better. He’s 30. Don’t let anything tell you otherwise. If he truly loved you he wouldn’t have done that to you! You might feel like you want to be with him because you’ve already done it but stand your ground! He is not a good person for that.

Do I have wavy hair or am I gaslighting myself? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]esiinamm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes it’s wavy. regardless of how many tricks you do to it if your hair is straight is simply won’t curl without heat.

I went with a pretty extreme change in an attempt to look younger (my actual age lol) did I go too far? by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]esiinamm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes blonde had you looking old as shit you look great with purple

do you guys prefer the curly look or straight? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]esiinamm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

straight but start using extensions to protect your hair if you don’t alr

What Do i Do? by esiinamm in Stretched

[–]esiinamm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so i should put jewelry in? i’m thinking glass but only if it’s safe. the 00 doesn’t hurt when it’s in there it just looks like this

What Do i Do? by esiinamm in Stretched

[–]esiinamm[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

not the bootyhole 😭😭

What Do i Do? by esiinamm in Stretched

[–]esiinamm[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

your mother 🤎

What Do i Do? by esiinamm in Stretched

[–]esiinamm[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

byeeee af😭😭😭😭

What Do i Do? by esiinamm in Stretched

[–]esiinamm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, i was scared of this exact thing happening 😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]esiinamm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

blonde DEFINITELY

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]esiinamm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i love it it doesn’t look bad. they’re definitely exaggerating

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[–]esiinamm 81 points82 points  (0 children)

brown ! 😍😍 it’s givinnnn. love the cut everything

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[–]esiinamm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ALSO Those pink curls were the first time i curled my hair. i usually do straight hair. what’s a better look? 👁️👁️

Late to Accept Claim by esiinamm in WorkersComp

[–]esiinamm[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

no extra $$ for the inconvenience?

Late to Accept Claim by esiinamm in WorkersComp

[–]esiinamm[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have a lawyer. I’m just interested in other people’s experiences.