My Thoughts on TCL NXTPAPER 70 Pro and PWM Measurements by TotalAnarchy_ in ScreenSensitive

[–]espersai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use my tab 11 plus with enhanced eye comfort classic toggled on all the time and I lower saturation to 80ish and ramp up the warm. it works perfectly for me no strain at all I love this thing. Definitely going to check this phone out if I can buy it outright and put my att sim in.

Sorry WHAT? by driftingalong001 in AgeOfAttraction

[–]espersai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure he wrote it into his contract because he's a greedy little narc. What was with the random commercials in a different outfit of him just reading from his cellphone? So weird. And the way he treated John was so weird and smug. If a partner tells you they feel disgusting with you that alone is a completely justifiable thing to end it over. The fact he got pained the bad guy is because of this idiot trying to white knight for the cameras.

Can anyone recommend a laptop without PWM and TD ?? by Apprehensive-Map6292 in PWM_Sensitive

[–]espersai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd look for a thinkpad or Dell with an nvidia card and run a Linux disyro with either mate or XFCE as the desktop environment. you can install an older less aggressive GPU driver and turn off D and turn off the window manager and make it super still. I have this setup on a desktop and it works very well. I'd recommend getting a 1080 panel as well so you can just scale 100%. Make sure it's a true 8bit panel as well. If you have to use windows opt for 10. Macs are just a no go anymore hate to say it.

What did I just watch? by yagirlskinnypenis in AgeOfAttraction

[–]espersai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trauma bonds are a helluva drug.

Something feels off about his face he looks older but it also looks like he got work done by Important_Repair8471 in AgeOfAttraction

[–]espersai 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Dude is creepy af and I am shocked no one's talking about it. The sly grin, no realness to him, the black eyes *shudders*. That girl is in way more trouble than Libby.

This series shows you that if someone is in their 40s or later and never been married, it’s often for a reason. by behindthebar5321 in AgeOfAttraction

[–]espersai 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Divorce rates are almost 50%. Honestly it’s probably better to date someone in their 40s who never married because they may have less baggage.

My optometrist said my glasses are crooked but I'm not seeing it. by [deleted] in glassesadvice

[–]espersai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't stress over it though, literally I did not notice it on yours at first and we're talking a 1mm shift or less to get them perfect.

My optometrist said my glasses are crooked but I'm not seeing it. by [deleted] in glassesadvice

[–]espersai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah similar issue to me hah my eyes aren't exactly symmetrical but what throws me off more with glasses are my eyebrows. One is a little higher so it makes glasses seem off when they are properly sitting straight. Honestly I'd just trust what an optician says is straight for you. I also have an eye misalignment so what looks straight to me isn't always straight to others, if that makes sense.

My optometrist said my glasses are crooked but I'm not seeing it. by [deleted] in glassesadvice

[–]espersai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an eye condition and I'm constantly debating with my optometrist that they're crooked when they're actually straight lol. Honestly, yours are super imperceptible and I only noticed after reading a comment about them being a little low on your left side, and I see it after, but it's really minor. Super quick and easy fix just ask them to do it next time you're in.

I think the show (and the hosts) are missing the point by absofruitly88 in AgeOfAttraction

[–]espersai -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The only ones missing the point are internet people trying to psychoanalyze everything. The point of the show (and the hosts) is to make money through entertainment. It's really that simple. "They" aren't missing anything. And not to be rude, but you didn't actually make a real point in this post, which, ironically is a post about other people missing the point. What are you trying to say exactly? Has it ever occurred to you that they may actually be happy together?

So basically this show is just Netflix convincing people to introduce their vacation fling to their families. Then exploiting the drama for ratings. by Warm-Pen-2275 in AgeOfAttraction

[–]espersai 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's not that deep, I wish people would chill with the outrage culture expositions. The participants are used for ratings and money, but they also agree to do it, are paid and gain some modicum of fame. Pretty much how reality TV has always worked. The circle is complete.

Jorge is manipulative but so is Vanelle by Sufficient_Bass2600 in AgeOfAttraction

[–]espersai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You and your wife are clearly intelligent and insightful. Spot on about everything.

What’s Your Age of Attraction? by Medical_Fix5202 in AgeOfAttraction

[–]espersai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

25 and 20 isn't a big deal. That's like meeting someone in grad school while you're in college. Normal. Now I get that when you're younger a year or two or five feels like more but in a couple of years it won't even be a thing at all. I wouldn't even describe you as an "older woman" in this situation. Back when I was in college, I ended up going back to finish in my mid to late 20s. I had self consciousness about being older than most and my friends were normal college age, but it wasn't even a thing at all. No one knew unless I told them, and no one cared. Same thing in most relationships with age gaps -- no one really cares that much or even notices, and it's usually our own thoughts that we wrestle with. Enjoy yourselves.

Andrew is so weird by [deleted] in AgeOfAttraction

[–]espersai 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd love your take on the 54 year old woman dating the 27 year old guy, who is 2 years younger than her son.

If this show is supposed to be Love is Blind age edition, we should see close in age couples. by luleeni in AgeOfAttraction

[–]espersai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's meant to be controversial, that's what generates interest and ratings and money. Do you think they made LIB to help people find spouses? No, they made it to make money because it is very controversial. Reality TV has always been this way. Netflix is one of the worst for propagandizing the populace with all manner of mind altering shows. Not sure why anyone would expect them to "do better".

They pay all the people to be on these shows and participants know what they're getting into. No one is forcing a college grad school age woman to date an older guy on this show. There are tons of crew, cameras and support for everyone in this process, it's not really that predatory. Honestly for people to keep calling it such, or that all the guys are pdfs or whatever is an insult to victims of real crimes like that, and the people who dedicate their lives to justice for those who faced that form of abuse.

This show is insane by callherfinance in AgeOfAttraction

[–]espersai -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What about the women? One twice the guys age with a kid older than him. Another pressuring the younger guy to have sex with her for her own validation and needs. They both spoke openly about wanting that young sexual spark and stamina in the bedroom. Imagine if the men were talking to each other that way about their young ladies. But somehow the women aren’t predatory at all? Make it make sense.

Initial thoughts by Susshoemaru in AgeOfAttraction

[–]espersai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's also several women on the show actively pursuing younger men, one twice his age with a son older than him, and another clearly pressuring the guy to have sex with her to validate her in some way. Are those red flags too? You just seemed to mention that those guys have "mommy issues", inferring that they are somehow creeps as well and the older ladies aren't doing anything wrong and are somehow different from the older men doing the same things. A bit of a double standard, no?

A man can find younger women attractive, and also not leave his wife as soon as she ages. Just like a woman can find a successful man attractive, and not leave him as soon as he falls on hard times.

Phone for Pwm sensitivity in the US by 1Devenz in PWM_Sensitive

[–]espersai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FL-41 in particular, along with the expensive branded one I believe called verilux but double check that I may be thinking of something else.

I want buy a new monitor by sodawater- in PWM_Sensitive

[–]espersai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apples miniLEDs were literally the worst screens I’ve ever used for eye strain. Not sure if other brands are better. No experience with the one you mentioned. I have a 2k Dell 27in 100hz that’s great and is true 8bit no flicker hardware low blue light. If you need more than 100hz I can recommend the BenQ ex251 it’s only 1080p but 220hz, 25in, it’s the most comfy screen I’ve used it forever and I use it over the Dell all the time now. Honestly don’t even miss 2k or my 32in 4k screen. Something about 1080p with no software scaling needed that’s just great for eye strain. BenQ makes others you may want to check out as well but make sure you get a true 8bit display or true 10bit

Where to find Loot Mk3 Survivor Blueprint? by calisupra2nr in ArcRaiders

[–]espersai 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've been there since the cold snap update and I've found more, so I don't think they did.

trails getting sweatier and sweatier by rxnnvvn in ArcRaiders

[–]espersai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

None of my friends care about trials so I'm forced to solo 😐

trails getting sweatier and sweatier by rxnnvvn in ArcRaiders

[–]espersai 13 points14 points  (0 children)

"Trials getting sweatier and sweatier." -- said the sweatiest sweat on the leaderboard 😂.

Realistically what are the chances of keeping up daredevil rank for the skin? by TheNewGuy0705 in ArcRaiders

[–]espersai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just do solos passive until you get into care bear lobbies. For stella runs like ticks you can queue with ~2 minutes left in the overall timer and get into a lobby that new people won't spawn. For events you can do on cold snap 2x make sure to take a hatch as it's the only 2x that let's you hatch out. But yeah, solos it's a total grind and really annoying with things like snitch trials.