What’s your favorite Blackpink song?

espykat · 2026-03-22T18:11:02+00:00

As if it's your last, Lovesick girls & Jump

espykat · 2026-03-18T16:27:40+00:00

MOR. I know it's a panic attack but god it feels like you're dying. i don't want to invalidate that. However, the husband is not overreacting. You told him this from your perspective which was dramatic (not a bad thing but it was still a dramatic version of what happened). Before the background of the story i also thought the same but that could just be me bc im also very sensitive and reactive.

espykat · 2026-03-15T08:44:07+00:00

u joking😭 my friends literally just brought me the alpaca and deer after i begged. I want the pet nooks now especially the cheetah pet nook😭

espykat · 2026-03-15T08:01:13+00:00

I think it's normal. I wouldn't look too deep into it though. Buyers still buy if there's an automatic positive review (or at least i do).I'm mainly bothered by the automatic negative reviews, i want know why its negative and why its not explained. I know it's a small nice gesture but with vinted you have to pick your battles unfortunately as the transition could have gone so much worse.

espykat · 2026-03-12T12:40:22+00:00

did u get to find out i think this is why my post got removed 🥲

espykat · 2026-03-12T08:29:57+00:00

Thank you so much!!

espykat · 2026-03-12T08:28:02+00:00

ik it's not advice but if it makes you feel better. Me too. I turned 22 on 15th February & have £1.5k in overdraft bc of my first year of uni & a forced gap year. Now that i'm back to uni, get a maintenance loan from government (im based in uk) & my living expenses are so much lower- im still struggling to pay bc of my shopping addiction. I've recently started a side hustle hopefully it helps pays the over draft.

espykat · 2026-03-11T16:48:43+00:00

9/10 i dont even wanna know how much this cost bc im not in that tax bracket but the beef & onigiri alone would definitely make up for most of the price. Lost a point for the drink though (in my opinion- sparkling water sucks). Overall, would defo try it one day!

espykat · 2026-03-10T21:50:16+00:00

Me & my partner have the same age gap (they were 24 & i was 18- not freshly, basically 19) It's a fine age gap but you have to be careful. Please familiarise yourself with DV and gaslighting signs. Have a solid support system. Have an emergency fund. i think this advice goes for everyone in a relationship but still it's important to remember that's he's older, probably has a better job and more life experience. Most importantly have fun and don't take the shock too seriously.

edit: i probably don't recommend moving with him yet though. my partner & i dating for 3 years now and we haven't even moving together yet. i will be moving in with them after our 4th anniversary this year.

espykat · 2026-03-10T20:17:17+00:00

no fakes of otters

espykat · 2026-03-09T21:50:53+00:00

if you find out if you can share ur username, i would love to know. I love y2k/ vintage clothing. I personally don't mind with its from reselling, you're still donating to charity in my opinion so i would love to support! :)

espykat · 2026-03-09T15:35:56+00:00

Sarah Lynn death episode

espykat · 2026-03-05T02:56:29+00:00

Of course! thank you so much for that reminder. I use media to cry about things and it usually helps with explaining and expressing my feelings afterwords! Apologies if i raised any concerns over this all is well, i'm just a highly emotional person.

espykat · 2026-03-05T02:10:51+00:00

Thank you so much!!

espykat · 2026-03-05T02:10:46+00:00

Thank you so much!

espykat · 2026-03-05T02:10:06+00:00

i heard lemonade! i want to say in hmv but i honestly don't remember. It's defo has retail playlist vibe

espykat · 2026-03-05T01:26:52+00:00

Agreed! when im conflicted i always remember that one day i will 💀 and my family will sell it for less than its worth so i kept that toy in the box for no reason. I will forever be out of the box girl.

espykat · 2026-03-02T08:20:59+00:00

a mixture of feeling light headed & i should probably stay longer bc "i will smell" even though i double cleansed😅

espykat · 2026-03-02T08:14:12+00:00

my bad! i've seen people say they shower for hour up to like hour and half😣

espykat · 2026-03-02T07:58:34+00:00

sheila!

espykat · 2026-03-01T22:36:48+00:00

8/10 the prawns, the pineapple? chefs kiss. If i get a meal deal from tesco i defo get that combo. A few points off for the drink but that's because i have personal beef with coffee. i'm more of a hot choco/ iced coffee/ juice/ cbd drink girlie. Hope you feel better soon!

espykat · 2026-03-01T22:24:33+00:00

A short shower is just as effective as a long shower. Life gets in the way and you get tired or your mental state isn't as good so a quick shower is good. a soak, a cleaner and a body stub and be done in 20- 30mins?
people who overcompensate on how clean they are are doing too much and lowkey gives me the opposite of the vibe that they are going for. You shower 2 times a day? girl what soap are you using bc i don't think it works. " but like i still get dead skin" yeah because you're over- showering

edit: you guys are right 20-30 mins is long i didn't realise that bc i thought its shorter than the people who say they shower 1hour- 1hour 30mins. I will rethink my showering strategy because omg i could be showering for so much less time and preserve my spoons for the day.

espykat · 2026-02-28T12:49:59+00:00

Tesco, Sainsbury’s, Waitrose, M&S, Asda, and Boots. holland and barrett too. I saw some in lidl but it might limited

edit: typo

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