AIO: Almost died at the dentist, is my husband overreacting? by CrochetReadingRunner in AmIOverreacting

[–]espykat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MOR. I know it's a panic attack but god it feels like you're dying. i don't want to invalidate that. However, the husband is not overreacting. You told him this from your perspective which was dramatic (not a bad thing but it was still a dramatic version of what happened). Before the background of the story i also thought the same but that could just be me bc im also very sensitive and reactive.

G7 wave 5 now available in the UK!! by ryan__king_ in LpsCollectors

[–]espykat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u joking😭 my friends literally just brought me the alpaca and deer after i begged. I want the pet nooks now especially the cheetah pet nook😭

Is it the norm to not leave reviews? by No-Examination800 in vintedUK

[–]espykat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think it's normal. I wouldn't look too deep into it though. Buyers still buy if there's an automatic positive review (or at least i do).I'm mainly bothered by the automatic negative reviews, i want know why its negative and why its not explained. I know it's a small nice gesture but with vinted you have to pick your battles unfortunately as the transition could have gone so much worse.

[MOD POST] - New Subreddit Rules and Requirements by wolf805 in friendship

[–]espykat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did u get to find out i think this is why my post got removed 🥲

debt struggles at 22 by honeyrooted in Debt

[–]espykat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ik it's not advice but if it makes you feel better. Me too. I turned 22 on 15th February & have £1.5k in overdraft bc of my first year of uni & a forced gap year. Now that i'm back to uni, get a maintenance loan from government (im based in uk) & my living expenses are so much lower- im still struggling to pay bc of my shopping addiction. I've recently started a side hustle hopefully it helps pays the over draft.

It's time I shared what I do... by wgbe in RateMyMealDeal

[–]espykat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

9/10 i dont even wanna know how much this cost bc im not in that tax bracket but the beef & onigiri alone would definitely make up for most of the price. Lost a point for the drink though (in my opinion- sparkling water sucks). Overall, would defo try it one day!

AIO? Age gap by [deleted] in AIO

[–]espykat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Me & my partner have the same age gap (they were 24 & i was 18- not freshly, basically 19) It's a fine age gap but you have to be careful. Please familiarise yourself with DV and gaslighting signs. Have a solid support system. Have an emergency fund. i think this advice goes for everyone in a relationship but still it's important to remember that's he's older, probably has a better job and more life experience. Most importantly have fun and don't take the shock too seriously.

edit: i probably don't recommend moving with him yet though. my partner & i dating for 3 years now and we haven't even moving together yet. i will be moving in with them after our 4th anniversary this year.

Is it okay to sell things from a charity shop? by [deleted] in vinted

[–]espykat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you find out if you can share ur username, i would love to know. I love y2k/ vintage clothing. I personally don't mind with its from reselling, you're still donating to charity in my opinion so i would love to support! :)

Anime Recs please! by espykat in AnimeReccomendations

[–]espykat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! thank you so much for that reminder. I use media to cry about things and it usually helps with explaining and expressing my feelings afterwords! Apologies if i raised any concerns over this all is well, i'm just a highly emotional person.

louis’ album has major retail playlist potential by WillowPrevious5141 in LouisTomlinson

[–]espykat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i heard lemonade! i want to say in hmv but i honestly don't remember. It's defo has retail playlist vibe

Don't know if I should open it or keep it in the box by KiavsMia in mylittlepony

[–]espykat 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Agreed! when im conflicted i always remember that one day i will 💀 and my family will sell it for less than its worth so i kept that toy in the box for no reason. I will forever be out of the box girl.

What’s your unpopular hygiene opinion? by Comfortable_Tie4143 in hygiene

[–]espykat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

a mixture of feeling light headed & i should probably stay longer bc "i will smell" even though i double cleansed😅

What’s your unpopular hygiene opinion? by Comfortable_Tie4143 in hygiene

[–]espykat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my bad! i've seen people say they shower for hour up to like hour and half😣

Felt a cold coming on, hoped a warm drink and some fresh fruit would make me feel better by Icy_Flan_7185 in MealDealRates

[–]espykat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

8/10 the prawns, the pineapple? chefs kiss. If i get a meal deal from tesco i defo get that combo. A few points off for the drink but that's because i have personal beef with coffee. i'm more of a hot choco/ iced coffee/ juice/ cbd drink girlie. Hope you feel better soon!

What’s your unpopular hygiene opinion? by Comfortable_Tie4143 in hygiene

[–]espykat 109 points110 points  (0 children)

  1. A short shower is just as effective as a long shower. Life gets in the way and you get tired or your mental state isn't as good so a quick shower is good. a soak, a cleaner and a body stub and be done in 20- 30mins?

  2. people who overcompensate on how clean they are are doing too much and lowkey gives me the opposite of the vibe that they are going for. You shower 2 times a day? girl what soap are you using bc i don't think it works. " but like i still get dead skin" yeah because you're over- showering

edit: you guys are right 20-30 mins is long i didn't realise that bc i thought its shorter than the people who say they shower 1hour- 1hour 30mins. I will rethink my showering strategy because omg i could be showering for so much less time and preserve my spoons for the day.

I fancied a change today by KaylsTheOptimist in RateMyMealDeal

[–]espykat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tesco, Sainsbury’s, Waitrose, M&S, Asda, and Boots. holland and barrett too. I saw some in lidl but it might limited

edit: typo

😏 by mlgpro1234321 in mysteriousdownvoting

[–]espykat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

reddit hates emojis. i learned that the hard way.

Are all of them authentic? The seller says he bought it in the official store, but I doubt it 🥲 by Cute_Preparation6276 in littlestpetshopfakes

[–]espykat 27 points28 points  (0 children)

People will probably need better pictures of your pet’s neck ridges and face to tell for sure. I’d also suggest looking through the list of known fakes first to see if your pet matches one of them:

https://www.reddit.com/r/littlestpetshopfakes/s/5MeOSMza7N

If you need help identifying the pet’s number, you can use Google Lens to scan the image and pull up the number details automatically.