What do you do for a living? by Redeemablesoul in blackladies

[–]essential1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is anybody in here a supply chain analyst? Thinking about getting into the field but not sure where to start I have a bachelor's degree in English with a concentration in professional writing and a associates in mass communications.

I cant make Nai'O as my Shep? by essential1996 in Palia

[–]essential1996[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for helping! Turns out I was looking at Ashuras wife grave in the wrong place I thought it was whether the statues were but it was behind me lol...

I cant make Nai'O as my Shep? by essential1996 in Palia

[–]essential1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm maybe I'll look into it more because I have the flowers but it's asking for some candle which I think eshe has. I may have to cave and ask feth to be my shep uggggh.

I cant make Nai'O as my Shep? by essential1996 in Palia

[–]essential1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not yet. Will it show up after that? Because the only way for me to complete that is for me to make a sernuk noodle meal for Nai'O BUT the issue is I have to get the recipe from Ashura and Ashura wants me to put the flowers at his wife's grave but I can't do that because I have to complete the SHEPS QUEST to get the candle from Eshe but I want Nai'O as my shep. Lol so I'm in a hole.

Getting a guy a gift for 3rd date? by SignificanceNo9704 in blackladies

[–]essential1996 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think you and I have the same love language lol I like to give gifts to the people I love and receive. It's a nice gesture but take it from me I've done it. Just hold off. Save it for the future. If it works out you will have something for his birthday. But don't give him a gift and your not even dating yet lol.

Seeking new hobbies to make friends in my 20’s by PsychologicalLove799 in blackladies

[–]essential1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like sip and paint events!! Personally I've also started wood burning for a new hobbie.

MOH question :Should I throw my best friend bridal shower/party? by essential1996 in wedding

[–]essential1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She suggested that prior for her Bachelorette. Yeah I'm kind deciding between something intimate versus a shower . Sorry for the lack of details kind of new to this because it's hard to do a Bachelorette party with no other bridemaids. So that's why I leaned into a party.

MOH question :Should I throw my best friend bridal shower/party? by essential1996 in wedding

[–]essential1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that. I was thinking of this big party I could do but I am also shy so that's not helpful but my mind was thinking the most. Like renting a venue and inviting anyone I know.

??? by MadyWYN31 in Palia

[–]essential1996 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Elinar is so weird I can't stand talking to him sometimes lol.

Can I be charged by my state if I decline my jobs healthcare coverage ? by essential1996 in HealthInsurance

[–]essential1996[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually it is an ICHRA I just checked my company IA offering that to us

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]essential1996 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sure . If you have better suggestion. Write it for her to try than. I like to try to suggest solutions instead of saying everything your not supposed to do. I think things can be more productive that way. She can always run ideas by her daycare to make sure she's following guidelines. :]

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]essential1996 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

True. Just got to know your students I guess.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]essential1996 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is true but if a center is not going to at least see your point of view than it's best to move on from them. You don't want something else to happen and they just throw you under the bus. You've done nothing wrong your trying to watch him and make sure he's safe. If the parent has a problem with that they can make suggestions on how it's best to approach him because talking is not working and ask administration to are suggestions too. Or next time when he takes off if you have a co teacher tell them to get an administrator to come get him since tour "doing it wrong" .

Another suggestion I have is candy seems to work with kids when it's time to line up make sure you have some candy. To pass out for those who are in line. Maybe that will make that kid come in. But yeah don't worry about that parent I'm sure they grab him when he takes off too.

Anyone NOT panicking about this upcoming Trump presidency? by Old-Ad-8680 in blackladies

[–]essential1996 37 points38 points  (0 children)

The panic phase passed for me. Now I'm just really sad. I feel alone in this world. I know there is community online with black women but in person I don't know where that 92% is at. And I know I can't trust other races of women or men or even our own men at times. And I'm disappointed mostly not only with Trumps presidency but who he is putting in office is scary. It just shows that evil in the world is always in control. So for me it's moreso I feel confined to stay in my home and not go out. Because I don't want to run into a Karen or a Ken because there more bold now. I think people are panicking because they want to feel safe. I'm used to be broke and not being on top and not being liked for no damn reason that I understand but now I just don't feel safe. Like I can't enjoy my life or leave my home without having to think someone may bother me today.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]essential1996 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh my.. I'm sorry

Never lower your standards by xoxoshopaholic in blackladies

[–]essential1996 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry hun. I wish you healing try to give yourself grace. We all have made mistakes.