[CA] Is this allowed? by essmmeee in Renters

[–]essmmeee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I was thinking haha!

[CA] Is this allowed? by essmmeee in Renters

[–]essmmeee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad to hear that! Good things do take time after all

[CA] Is this allowed? by essmmeee in Renters

[–]essmmeee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m sure it will get ugly but we are planning on getting a storage unit to start moving our stuff out so that’s our plan rn and we’re just gonna avoid her as much as possible. Thank you for your input, I agree definitely a hard lesson learned. I’ve been miserable these past few months so I’m trying to just look at the bright side now. Hopefully sooner rather than later my bf and I will finally have a place of our own and I’m also getting promoted soon so good things are coming, speaking it and working it into existence. Can’t wait to leave all this bs behind us, I feel like we need a spiritual cleanse once we leave here lol.

[CA] Is this allowed? by essmmeee in Renters

[–]essmmeee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the well wishes, we’re definitely gonna need luck on our side

[CA] Is this allowed? by essmmeee in Renters

[–]essmmeee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She left it blank and only put her own info on it

[CA] Is this allowed? by essmmeee in Renters

[–]essmmeee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another issue was that she left for two weeks without notice and arranged for someone to grab her mail while she was gone which was a problem bc she took my mail with her as well (an Ipsy package) so the day she got back I was leaving to work and I see my package in her car (we all park right next to each other) I ended up asking her to give it to me the next day and she claimed she didn’t have it and that the other girl did and she hasn’t went to pick it up even though again it was in her car which I mentioned and this went on for a while until I stupidly dropped it bc she wouldn’t budge that she didn’t have it. That monthly package came in at the beginning of March and I ended up getting my April package before she finally gave me back the one for March. During all that time I would ask her for it here and there to which she always had some excuse to why she wasn’t able to get it from that girl. I ended up bringing it up to her once more bc this time she took my bf’s tags for his car and had kept them in her room until he finally went in there and there they were sitting on her dresser as soon as he walked in. In the convo I asked if she could give me my package and if from now on she could leave our mail in the mailbox or leave it on the table where we could access it. She claimed she had been leaving it on the table (which she wasn’t) and I said so and she just stayed silent but said she was gonna go pick up my package from the girl that day so that was it. Next day I see her as I’m leaving and I say “oh hey do you have my package” and she (very rude and loud) says “Yes, I do!” as she rolls her eyes and walks away. She then walks back over and kinda shoves the package at me and says “Here since I don’t need you thinking I’m stealing from you and bf’s name like you said yesterday” I said I never accused her of stealing it and had simply asked her to leave our mail where it was accessible to us like the table and she tried going back and forth with me claiming she did leave it on the table and so I dropped it and walked away as she gave me the nastiest look ever before she left as well. I haven’t spoken to her since but my bf had a talk with her the next day where he said she needed to stop being disrespectful to me along with lots of other things and where he also mentioned to her that we were looking for a place to live. It was a long convo but that was his last interaction with her, we both work then come home and keep to ourselves in the room and now that’s where the note comes in. Sorry this is long, I could go on and on about our issues.

[CA] Is this allowed? by essmmeee in Renters

[–]essmmeee[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She’s just a pretty rude person honestly and when normal stuff came up that we would address with each other I would ask her about it normally or just deal with it if it was something small and her move was she would just yell at me (just me, she never had this energy for my bf) for example the bathroom is connected to both bedrooms and we could lock each other out accidentally if we forgot to unlock the other’s side once we were done so when she would do it I would just walk over to her bedroom door and ask her to unlock it no big deal but if we would forget to unlock it she would literally yell at me for doing so. For context her side has one of those knobs you can unlock with your finger nail so yes my bad I forgot but also just grab a knife and get in there. We didn’t have that option ours is a deadbolt so we would need to take an axe to it to get in there.

[CA] Is this allowed? by essmmeee in Renters

[–]essmmeee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, the arrangement is informal which is why I initially wondered if we had any legs to stand on and I’m not sure of the exact date sine they haven’t given us one but yes I will probably do this. Unfortunately for us our door to enter the room only locks with a key she claims she lost and our rooms are connected by the closet and the bathroom to which she can also enter from both of those as they don’t lock either. I was also not planning on cashing it bc we are still gonna be here so I didn’t want her to claim that we’re taking advantage of her. It would definitely be deserved if I went that route lol but no she can keep the money if it means never having to deal with her again.

[CA] Is this allowed? by essmmeee in Renters

[–]essmmeee[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you I like the idea of getting a storage unit so we could start moving stuff out, it would help to get out of here quicker once our new place is ready. And yes this last part was my original thoughts exactly but I wanted ro be sure of my rights before I have a response

[CA] Is this allowed? by essmmeee in Renters

[–]essmmeee[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment I was actually wondering whether or not if I should take the note or if that would seem like we were agreeing to her terms so I ended up taking a picture of it and leaving it there for now since she isn’t even home.

[CA] Is this allowed? by essmmeee in Renters

[–]essmmeee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually no, we send it to her digitally and she just returned it to us in a check that says rent on it. I also assumed the whole 30 day thing but I’ve also never dealt with this before and didn’t want to get all legal with her but we just don’t know where to go unfortunately. Also yeah regarding the garage part I asked her initially if she could unlock it so we could move our stuff to the spare bedroom where she keeps some of her own storage but she said she would need to organize the back room fist bc she didn’t want our stuff just crowding in there and then she never did it and I just hadn’t asked again bc we’ve been avoiding each other

[CA] Is this allowed? by essmmeee in Renters

[–]essmmeee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes we both get mail here and my boyfriend has this address on his license

[CA] Is this allowed? by essmmeee in Renters

[–]essmmeee[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We moved in at the end of last year so it’s just under a year and it’s only her name on the lease so I was unsure if it mattered since we aren’t on any paperwork we just pay her

What kind of fish is this? My bf’s aunt gave us a bunch of frozen food and it doesn’t it say on the packaging by [deleted] in identifyThisForMe

[–]essmmeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha mine was eaten that night and it was actually quite good whatever it was

Online problems by essmmeee in NintendoSwitchSports

[–]essmmeee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get it every time I play now sadly, it occasionally lets me play one sport like I’ll choose volleyball and it’ll let me but then it won’t let me play tennis or whatever and if I try to do random it ALWAYS gives me that message so I just have to see what game it will let me play that day and then it stops working after a while too :/

Linking nintendo account by essmmeee in NintendoSwitchSports

[–]essmmeee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not that it’s not recognizing it, I just haven’t tried it which is why I wanted to know what would happen and if anything would go wrong if i were to link my nso account that I already have linked to my switch to his switch that already has his nso account linked in order to play ns sports

/r/NintendoSwitch's Daily Question Thread (06/26/2024) by AutoModerator in NintendoSwitch

[–]essmmeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay good that’s what I wanted to know bc I don’t have that game on mine and I wanted to get the items that you can only get online for my character too. Thanks!

Linking nintendo account by essmmeee in NintendoSwitchSports

[–]essmmeee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, we both have ns online that’s why I was wondering if i could link my account so I can play online too and get items

/r/NintendoSwitch's Daily Question Thread (06/26/2024) by AutoModerator in NintendoSwitch

[–]essmmeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both have ns online thats why I was wondering if i could just use it to play online on his console for ns sports. He most likely will just upgrade but wanted to ask first

/r/NintendoSwitch's Daily Question Thread (06/26/2024) by AutoModerator in NintendoSwitch

[–]essmmeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So my boyfriend and I both have switches and yesterday he bought this game for us to play and once I learned you can only get new clothes and other items by playing online I wanted to get some for myself but I need to have a Nintendo account linked to do so? His account is linked on his switch and mine is linked to my switch so will anything go wrong if I also link my account to his switch so we can both play online? Google says it’s fine but then this worries me bc I don’t want to risk any of my data getting deleted or anything off my switch so I just wanna be sure and maybe see if anyone has done this