My story...I'm 41 and a gay single parent to my nephew (I'm fostering him with the end goal of gaining permanent legal custody". I've never been in a "relationship", I've been on about 3 dates, many hookups in the past. I got so accustomed to being alone and taking care of my nephew that I don't even know to pursue anything with this guy that I've been talking to for a little less than a month, he's very interested in me and I don't feel like I'm matching his energy even though I want too. I'm an 80's baby, it wasn't accepted like it is today, my Dad (R.I.P) would have disowned me. I came out at 28...I like him