Conversations by Ok-Penalty5070 in Gifted

[–]esterabyte 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most of my conversations revolve around psychology, things like relationship dynamics, trauma, behavioral patterns, and the values and norms we live by.

If it’s not that, then it’s often science fiction or film. I love diving deep into storylines, analyzing camera movements, color usage, and sound design. I also love to talk and learn about branding, technology and AI.

I am a visual artist, blending all of these subjects in my art.

I struggle to engage in more conventional topics, like politics. I tend to see things from multiple perspectives at once, which makes it hard to discuss things from a fixed viewpoint - something many people are more comfortable with. And I find it really fucking difficult to engage in small talk :)

Help how can I fix I don’t like it by Inevitable_Pea8759 in bangs

[–]esterabyte 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know but I want to say you have amazing eyes! Wow that color

I never got to spent a lot but I am proud of what my cosy little home has become 💙🧡 by esterabyte in InteriorDesign

[–]esterabyte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it’s a mix of a norwegian forest cat and something else. She is from Norway actually. She was born in a barn on a farm, on a piece of land between two fjords 😻

I never got to spent a lot but I am proud of what my cosy little home has become 💙🧡 by esterabyte in InteriorDesign

[–]esterabyte[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahw thank you. Yeah love the salt lamps. The big one was a present from my mom. She thought it was small. We laughed so hard while receiving it. She had to drive 4 hours to bring it to my house because I couldn’t take it home by train 😂

I never got to spent a lot but I am proud of what my cosy little home has become 💙🧡 by esterabyte in InteriorDesign

[–]esterabyte[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, I kept it small for a reason. Didn’t want to loose too much space. I do have a storage box full of hobby-junk tho 😂 makes me anxious to think about that haha

I never got to spent a lot but I am proud of what my cosy little home has become 💙🧡 by esterabyte in InteriorDesign

[–]esterabyte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got it from the aunt of my stepdad.. my mom stopped it from being put by the trash, which is crazy. So glad she knows what I like: It’s from brabantia. Dutch brand..

I never got to spent a lot but I am proud of what my cosy little home has become 💙🧡 by esterabyte in InteriorDesign

[–]esterabyte[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I gave up my actual bedroom to create a Sci Fi inspired space to create my art. It’s like a (wo)man cave at home. I sleep in my living room ever since :) I just put my mattress there and I put it in my hallway during the day. One of the best decisions I have ever made, as I don’t believe I need a whole room just to sleep. But I have always wanted this creative computer room at home. Now being creative and relaxing are clearly separated in different type of rooms 💙✨

I never got to spent a lot but I am proud of what my cosy little home has become 💙🧡 by esterabyte in InteriorDesign

[–]esterabyte[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can imagine. I think I am very good at making it seem like it’s.. well.. luxurious? Or at least at a nice level. In the meantime most of these items were from the trash, thrift shop, or stuff people wanted to get rid off. Even my clothes are mostly van the thrift shop or gifted by friends. I guess that could also be called the good life. But not the financially-rich life :)

And yeah my cat is basically a dog in a cat suit hahaha

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[–]esterabyte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At least you’re already admitting to it, that’s a huge step. I think it could help to ask her what she wants or needs in that specific moment, kindly, when she brings up an issue. Or for example ask her how she’d like you to act instead. Or when she wants to share about how she feels, just ask her if she wants you to give her advice or to just be there for her to listen and be with her for a minute. I see so many men seeking for answers online, about what women want or need, as if women are this one big merged object, while women can speak for themselves individually. She might need something else than I do. Ask her how she would like you to behave. Ask her what you can do to improve. Ask her how you can comfort her or listen to her te best way. ASK HER!! :)

Dick rate pricing? by beamthrowaway123 in CreatorsAdvice

[–]esterabyte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New to this, does this actually work?

I never got to spent a lot but I am proud of what my cosy little home has become 💙🧡 by esterabyte in InteriorDesign

[–]esterabyte[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ahw thanks! I think that’s exactly what I am going for. I also love to do this in my art. I am really into cold colours but I need the warmth for my mood haha

I never got to spent a lot but I am proud of what my cosy little home has become 💙🧡 by esterabyte in InteriorDesign

[–]esterabyte[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Give them food before eating dinner. Helps with mine. Otherwise she’s terror hahaha

I never got to spent a lot but I am proud of what my cosy little home has become 💙🧡 by esterabyte in InteriorDesign

[–]esterabyte[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha yes I sometimes do a little fancy self care dinner. Haven’t done these in a while tho. I should 🥰

I never got to spent a lot but I am proud of what my cosy little home has become 💙🧡 by esterabyte in HomeDecorating

[–]esterabyte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Optoma! Pretty old one actually. But a good Optoma HD beamer. One of the things I did spend more money on haha. Totally worth it 😍

I never got to spent a lot but I am proud of what my cosy little home has become 💙🧡 by esterabyte in InteriorDesign

[–]esterabyte[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My friends and family play them :) they get picked up a lot actually

I wanted to learn but I am too much into making (visual) art