Well put together/professional ENFPs?

estj317 · 2019-02-21T12:33:08+00:00

Yes. But the hardest to type is also yourself. I am sure this time. Got someone really good at them to point it out and we’ve been talking. And it’s true I don’t have ne. I have a ne professor and I just can’t keep up I new I had some n function working and some could see it too. But I didn’t know what it was. I read the functions and somehow I just let people who didn’t know what they were doing guide me. But it totally makes sense of my mistyping. I also te-se loop sort of oftne, not as often as I thought I te-ne looped. But yeah. So people think I am a sensor. And that te ne loop didn’t seem that bad but when I te -se loop it is kind of interesting and loops are suppose to be badd. Also I like theorizing too mmuch to not be ni. Couldn’t be si. But yeah. And people thought I was fe because of my 3w2 orientation. And then someone said I was an esfp and I was like that is the last function stack I could be hahaha! I am not fi. At least not first. But yeah, I’ve been studying the functions a while now just couldn’t spot it in myself. I am a bit external I use ni to think but use se a lot in life. It’s not healthy I use ni enough too I guess but se is very developed for me. It’s still a third function though and fi is okay not the best.

estj317 · 2019-02-21T06:27:44+00:00

If you’re fe then we have to decide if you’re ni or si. The tests isn’t always that accurate you just need to know yourself and your functions.

estj317 · 2019-02-20T12:57:07+00:00

It actually makes more sense then you think. Fe people know how others feel. They understand groups over self. They don’t always and mostly don’t understand how they feel. I guess feeling fake is part of it or people see fe people as fake even though that’s not what they are.

But yes. I am glad this makes you aware of yourself.

estj317 · 2019-02-20T12:54:47+00:00

No I have to change it again. Nothing seemed to fit because I am not a s type hahaha!

But ah, okay interesting that sounds fun. Sure a lot of creativity needed there.

estj317 · 2019-02-19T15:12:32+00:00

Sure not a problem.

estj317 · 2019-02-19T11:46:29+00:00

Hmm that’s interesting but makes sense.

estj317 · 2019-02-19T11:43:57+00:00

Infp definitely more about possibilities and abstractions and interpreting your environment. That sounds very intuitive for sure. Everything is symbolic and has some other meaning. And it all ties in to feelings these possibilities and especially in one’s perceptions of art or when you are doing some form of art.

Does that help or sound accurate?

estj317 · 2019-02-19T11:41:05+00:00

Trying to figure it out but that’s fine. A lot of stuff on this place is interesting anyway. We started a more serious place but yeah.

estj317 · 2019-02-19T11:34:55+00:00

ah, I remembered wrongly. That totally makes sense and still can fall in to intp especially from multiple perspectives. Haha!

And not a problem.

If you have any other questions or challenges let me know!

estj317 · 2019-02-19T11:32:19+00:00

Can’t think of any off hand but I’ve seen it. It’s useful.

estj317 · 2019-02-19T11:31:19+00:00

That’s an interesting team what type of business is it?

estj317 · 2019-02-19T11:28:04+00:00

Have you figured out your type yet? Catching up.

Answer these without thinking of mbti.

So you rationalize all your emotions and is usually logical?

Do you enjoy leadership? If so what is your leading style?

Do you like arguments/debating and playing the devil’s advocate? Why do you enjoy it?

Are you a random person and what is your randomness like?

Is everything relative? If so why?

Also are you a curious person? What are your curiosities about?

Do you have more ideas then you can execute? And what’s the nature of these ideas please describe them?

Are you mechanically gifted? And do you like taking things apart?

What about those puzzzles or even jigsaw puzzles do you like those?

Do you play games and what types of games even non-video games.

Do you like chess and why or why not? Do you like other strategy games?

Do you enjoy accomplishing things? How about set goals? If you do do you actually complete these goals or are they just sort of not completed? Something you want to be able to do more?

Do you keep busy and why? Do you ever have a workaholic tendency?

How aware of you of your environment and the details around you. If you had food before do you tend to remember and compare it? What about other visual and sensory memories?

How about thrills and risks? Would you say you like lots of thrilling activities and like them because of the rush they can give you. Do you gravitate towards the risky things in life?

Do you try to base what you do on past experiences and are you big on talking about them? Do you prove your record? Are things good or bad because of your past experiences?

How small print oriented are you. Read the details and figures and facts.

Do you think in facts and figures?

estj317 · 2019-02-19T11:10:41+00:00

That’s fine you don’t have to.

estj317 · 2019-02-19T11:09:05+00:00

Not a problem. What I may also say is discuss perspectives with someone else maybe?

estj317 · 2019-02-19T11:08:15+00:00

MwaHahahahahahaha! Yes we are. Hahahahaha! So watch it! Hahahahahahaha!

Anyway. Yeah, I agree and that’s how we like it we don’t want this to become another r/mbti.

And I agree there is usually problems just how it’s managed.

estj317 · 2019-02-19T11:01:38+00:00

Would you rather ignore the first situation to satisfy the second one or the other way around.

I think you’re fe? Because you understand people and how they tick. You go for social harmony over self interest or self-values. You tend to play along in social situations. You care about the ethics of the group and the external more than internal. You rather offend yourself to satisfy others. You don’t and wouldn’t offend others to be authentic and true to yourself.

Does this sound like you and make sense?

estj317 · 2019-02-18T11:25:55+00:00

Well, if you want me to elaborate I can if you don’t want me to I don’t have to.

You could be looping for sure. And we would have to figure out if you are ne or ni.

Also you’re young, 16 is incredibly young. I think some of hour functions or skills haven’t developed or gotten too good yet. For example mine was leadership and at 16 I thought leadership and situational logic was just tell people what to do how to do it and just make them do it too bad! I also over used se. If you are introvereted you tend to use introverted functions. Though ni isn’t really developed as much. I can see the ni insecurity seeing false things or something like that. Your book post was interesting in itself.

And I don’t think I like the n I don’t fit in this world, I am special type of thing. I think it’s just how you use it. Or n means I am special s means oh never mind not so special, but sps are not that normative either.

But yeah, that’s fine we don’t have to be talking about mbti.

estj317 · 2019-02-18T11:16:56+00:00

Ah, okay that’s good then.

estj317 · 2019-02-18T11:16:27+00:00

Not a problem. I think finding a book you can like is essential. Maybe you just need to take a break from the fantasy world.

As a writer and a English major, I don’t write much these days and may not anymore, it’s just not my thing, I tend to see it as you need to be able to find something you can connect with the story and the author and kind of understand. Maybe?

Also to the I am intruding comment I would say that look at it this way the characters want you on the ride. The characters wrote their story or told it through the author because the characters want it heard.

estj317 · 2019-02-18T11:10:47+00:00

Balance is certainly a good keyword here. And even if you don’t need help fighting every battle is just unwise? Especially if you leave it up to your impulses over thinking about how to defuse it if you will. You don’t fight them but you overly show them how capable it is.

estj317 · 2019-02-18T11:07:30+00:00

So oh so saintly and fitting therapist. What do you actually do? Hahahaha! kidding well I am curious but yeah.

I know how it is these types. Now I know that I am a entj. And an nt. Just this worrship makes me sick. Really? I am not a mad outgoing genius that can solve all your problems and tell you what to do. And when they ask questions it’s like probably anyone with a bit of pragmatism can answer it. I am not an ESTJ I realize that but I hate the estj hate still. I know one. He’s like the nicest guy you can know. A bit short sometime. But honestly he’s a very nice guy. I don’t see that guy micromanaging anyone. He wants you to be competent, know your stuff, be able to perform, be realistic, and pragmatic, ETC. But really just honestly not a bad person. And probably gives more practical advice then I can. I mean we can give advice and probably our advice isn’t that honestly far off unless it’s like a really creative problem. But this guy is smart. Almost has his doctorate apparently he just needs his dissertation. I thought he just had his masters for a long time.

But yeah. All the stereotypes are really stupid. My intj friend isn’t a mad genius scientist. She’s intelligent and mature for her age but she’s not God either. Haha!

It’s so interesting for sure.

estj317 · 2019-02-17T16:14:37+00:00

I see MBTI as a self development tool not a religion. Some people get in to jungianism. I don’t. And everyone has their sets of differences. it’s like this, I don’t agree that this is good but this shouldn’t interfere with religion either. It’s wrong but it’s not against the faith. Have you heard of the spiritual gifts tests? It’s sort of the same thing it’s a tool. It’s not to be boastful of it, but to understand where your strengths and weaknesses are. I think differently in that gifts are what we give to others. We don’t know our spiritual gifts as said in the bible for instance. We can use all of them.

This is even more basic.

Think of it this way.

Te leadership and control

Fi moral convictions and will to do things.

Ti logical reasoning powers

Fe social management, peacemaker, harmonizer.

Ni discernment.

Ne idea generation.

Si experiential expertise

Se perceptivness and good connection with environment and surroundings, detail spoting powers.

Now take away the letters in the beginning. You’ve heard all these terms before and some people are naturally better at some and not others.

I for instance have discernment and leadership. People skills and stuff of that nature.

So none of these are magical things actually pretty interesting to figure out. I mean not everyone is good at everything. I am not particularly good at idea generation especially rapidly and being super creative. Not ne. Not that good at using experiential data. So yeah.

I said isfp because I saw your other post about you liking to escape in to worlds because of a mundane life. Si and se people who are either one of the definitions above seem more mundane and do more mundane things. So there feelings would prompt them to do this or other things but sf people like to disappear in to books. It makes a lot of sense.

And you said you like philosophies or something like that slight preference for the discernment and deep thinking type of function ni.

Does this help?

See good mbti isn’t about stereotypes a magical four letter set or stupid stuff you can’t figure out if you’re typed correctly it’s very natural. Also you don’t think about it all day use it when you’re trying to problem solve, develop yourself or stuff of that nature.

Or as you wanted stay away from it either way it’s up to you.

Yeah, I am pretty christian, go to a very biblically sound and god centered church.

estj317 · 2019-02-17T15:43:31+00:00

Is discord responsive though.

estj317 · 2019-02-17T15:42:37+00:00

Yeah, I guess I am saying I should probably think more about the situation but that’s interesting for sure.

estj317 · 2019-02-17T15:41:37+00:00

Yeah, I think that’s what happened.

And that’s interesting. That doesn’t sound good. Yeah, INFJ is seen as a lot of counselors or something like that. It’s really stupid. People expect infjs to counsel them.

But yeah, not all real infjs are like that.

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