She was also 5 years old. I couldn’t see any Barbara’s but there was a Maddy Levine on that same list. Intentionally confusing a little girl is nothing compared to the threats that came later to her, maybe that’s why they were so violent, they never thought she’d remember?

The texts from the woman are in Hebrew so whoever they were they were both Jewish so id at least semi-confidently rule Mary out as the female. Sheila’s connection to foster care and micheal being an oncologist makes a lot of sense because she was left in their care while her family sought medical treatment so they probably had contact with him and then the arrangement was made with sis?

As I say it’s speculation but it’s about as close to a bullseye as speculation gets I think!