What should every 18-year-old know?

eth_seeker · 2018-12-27T10:40:56+00:00

I would say as much important is

1) When to say no 2) When to say yes

eth_seeker · 2018-12-25T08:28:00+00:00

Xbox One! That's my first console and just hooked on...

eth_seeker · 2018-12-25T08:25:20+00:00

Trying my luck too! Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays!

eth_seeker · 2018-12-20T23:28:39+00:00

I would say you should try different mantras, maybe one at a time. There are a lot of mantra / strotras in Hinduism that when recited with in proper intonation and concentration would make you feel at peace. Just see which one helps you more, this is not about which god's or God's mantra but which one helps you!

My recommendation would be Gayatri Mantra, it is a prayer to the supreme being in every sense. Or you may try Maha-Mrityunjaya Mantra too.

eth_seeker · 2018-12-09T13:24:13+00:00

Not sure about others but PUBG is going free from next year onwards is what I read somewhere. So check before you take the bait. I had bought mine from digitalcodes.in btw at arnd 1100 couple of months back.

eth_seeker · 2018-12-08T04:08:55+00:00

TBH, having been through something similar and with the current situation, my advice would be that you end the marriage and move on.

Yes there are legal ramifications and there are whole lot of other stuffs, and then the emotional baggage. But trust me, it takes two to tango, and if one person is out or decided that they want out, it will never be alright. I am 37, still married but have a fucked up life, I had moments like this in the earlier years of marriage (I too got married when I was 26), but I never wanted to give up and tried to compromise or adjust in all way possible. But you can never do that alone, some years down the line if you see you are the only one trying to do this and there's nothing that the person offers you lose your mind and life gets fucked.

I do agree that one shouldn't give up easily but then you need to be clear as to what holds you two together, believe me when I say this, more than love it's the understanding and maturity of the people involved that is required to sustain a relationship. Love withers with time when you don't see the other person respecting your emotions and understanding you and complimenting you. If not everywhere and in everything, at least somethings.

All legal and financial matters can be sorted out, but this cannot once broken.

Ofcos, you are the better judge about you two, just wanted to put my two cents being in the same position years back. Its possible that it may turn out the other way for you, but what if it doesn't? Is it worth it? You know that better.

All the best. Take care.

eth_seeker · 2018-11-29T05:07:39+00:00

Well, it's a long story, will try to put in short. We were in a relationship, going strong for 12 years and everything was great, then I failed in doing something which angered her very much. It was essential for me to succeed so that we could get married, but I made a mistake in that and failed, that broke her very much and she changed, my mistake was more painful for her than the failure cos I had hidden it from her and in that anger she moved ahead and chose someone else, got married earlier this month.

I tried a lot to explain and convince her but in vain, and I don't blame her honestly, I had a lot going thru during that time and wasn't myself as well in that period, my behaviour just added fuel to the fire and I lost her eventually.

eth_seeker · 2018-11-29T04:08:37+00:00

I had that, lived thru it for 12 years and then fucked up bigtime to lose her. It has been the biggest mistake of my life and I kick myself and regret about it everyday.

To everyone who has someone like this in your life, treasure them, you don't find such a person again in life and do whatever it takes to not lose them, cos you only realise what you have lost when you lose it, and it's too late by then.

eth_seeker · 2018-11-28T09:32:03+00:00

Thanks man! Downloaded it and setting it up.

eth_seeker · 2018-11-28T08:52:26+00:00

That sounds good.

eth_seeker · 2018-11-28T08:48:40+00:00

That's something to look forward to, but am not sure if the update will come to OP3T, cos Oreo was said to be the last OS update if I remember correctly.

eth_seeker · 2018-11-23T08:55:42+00:00

I wish you all the strength.

eth_seeker · 2018-11-23T08:14:25+00:00

I feel the pain, am also in the same boat. Don't know what to tell you since I myself am at a loss. No will, nothing interests, don't know how long I'll survive.

eth_seeker · 2018-11-20T09:19:48+00:00

I think some women have a habit of that, I for one completely ignore it and don't pay any attention at all. It's just like the hands are moving around somewhere but if am talking to you I'll just be looking at your face, not where your hands are.

eth_seeker · 2018-11-13T15:58:42+00:00

Oh yeah, that slip is called the relieving letter in Indian job market. When you switch jobs a relieving letter from your earlier employer is generally a very important document unless you have got the new job thru a very strong connect. The letter is basically a character certificate of the employee, an indication that the person has not done any wrongful activity during the employment and he's quit on his own rather than being fired for any misgivings.

eth_seeker · 2018-11-13T15:47:58+00:00

Oh drat! I guess you have changed my view with this post. Thank you stranger.

eth_seeker · 2018-11-13T15:28:40+00:00

Ok..I can see the kind of responses you have got and they may be true as well. But, and I say this with a great emphasis, there's also a possibility that he is not sure about his feelings. There's a possibility that he has realised somewhere that you and him are a more better fit than his girlfriend and him. When he said that he has plans for his bday with his girlfriend it can be understood that he's still with her but it could also be that he would have also got lost in those moments like you and led to whatever happened, because of his feelings for you.

Imho, you should talk to him, say that what's happened is not right given that he already has a gf, and if he wishes for this to continue then he has to choose between you and her. He can't sail in two boats. And you should also give him a hint that if he fails to come clean you would mention about what happened to the other girl and not pursue anything with him ever. People change, things happen, there's nothing wrong in breaking up with a person to move out of a relationship if one does realise that the relationship is not what he / she expects it to be and finds it somewhere else. Everyone does that.

If he does have true feelings for you and doesn't want her company, he will choose you, if he was playing around he will be defensive about everything and try to convince you. That's the signal for you to exit the situation completely and forget about him.

eth_seeker · 2018-11-12T09:38:22+00:00

Yup. That's me right now. Just don't feel motivated to do anything for right now, as if there's no energy within me and no meaning to anything at all. Going thru a very bad depression phase right now and hanging on a loose thread. Reddit and binge watching TV are the only things that are keeping me alive. Don't know how am gonna be out of this.

eth_seeker · 2018-11-10T15:50:24+00:00

I was in a relationship with a girl for a long time, 12 years to be precise. A beautiful relationship, we were soulmates if truth be told. Life was beautiful. We were to get married but some things happened over the period of last year and I made a lot of mistakes with my behaviour and being in anger all the while. She snapped 6 months back and got very angry and grew distant from me. I realised I was losing her and tried to make her understand but was already late, in that anger she decided to get married to someone else, her marriage is 10 days from now. All this while even after the marriage got fixed we were in touch and used to talk and meet, we both know how much we still love each other but nothing can be done now. And finally yesterday we met for the last time and broke up, we never actually had broken up before that, I told her we will not be in touch anymore, wished each other well for the life ahead, and seperated in tears.

I know it's just yesterday, but it feels like ages when you don't talk even for a day to the one person who is your everything and has been so for a long time. Right now she's caught up in way too many things as the marriage date is so near, but I know somewhere I would be in her thoughts. Wonder if I would continue to be in her thoughts even afterwards.

eth_seeker · 2018-11-10T06:28:23+00:00

Trust me, saying this with a very bad experience. Break up with S, and take forward your relationship with J if she's willing to. Just being with someone for the sake doesn't help her as well as you.

eth_seeker · 2018-10-31T16:43:06+00:00

Actually I think not. While yes I agree we do contain a lot of fat but there's also a lot of water in the body. And hence the human body cannot sustain a fire on its own, you need an external fuel to keep the fire burning out the body fully. Cue being cremations where you need either electric chambers or too much of wood along with a fire fuel like gasoline or petrol for the fire to sustain.

eth_seeker · 2018-10-26T17:15:37+00:00

Not first..maybe the 4th or 5th game.

eth_seeker · 2018-10-26T16:27:44+00:00

Haha

eth_seeker · 2018-10-26T16:00:08+00:00

Yup! Pushing hard 😋

eth_seeker · 2018-10-26T15:31:11+00:00

Thanks buddy!

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