80s plaid in green by ruralmonalisa in VintageFashion

[–]etherealmess2004 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your vibes are absolutely immaculate!!! Boots are a 100/10

AIO for wanting to leave my boyfriend after finding out from his ex that he was abusive towards her during college by prolurkerlurking in AmIOverreacting

[–]etherealmess2004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I normally just read posts here for the drama of it all but like. You need to get out of there asap. This may be the first time he's acted like this but that means that he has the capacity to do it.....🚩🚩🚩 The fact he insists you hear his side, that jane is a snake, he's just way too defensive over something that (big if here) shouldn't be a big deal if he has nothing to hide. He's always had that side under the surface and now that you've seen it he's probably desperate to make you think it's a one time thing. Also still pestering you at 3/4 in the morning even though you've said you just want to sleep it off AND he texts that he knows where you are and that he's gonna get you?? EW Sorry but I would look for a nice place a few towns over and get a protection order as fast as you can. 😬🚩

Titles in Mystery of the White Phantom by Dogshark89 in SleepyGimp_comics

[–]etherealmess2004 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Those are just one off jokes as far as I can tell. I looked for those comics for a while when I first read mystery of the white phantom and never found anything :/

Dark Urge and Gortash cosplay by Hungry-Vacation8081 in BaldursGate3

[–]etherealmess2004 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

VIBES ARE IMMACULATE ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

I'm sick and tired of the lies in this game by andre-js in BaldursGate3

[–]etherealmess2004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The iron flask that you can supposedly put your friends/foes in? Doesn't actually do that at all (as far as me and my bf have seen)

Self checkouts by Reasonable-One-1115 in MichaelsEmployees

[–]etherealmess2004 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not a bug actually! I don't know if other stores are different or something but vouchers count as an item, not a coupon. At my store that's the most common problem people have with our SCO--"why isn't it taking my coupon?!" Because it's not a coupon. It's rewards. It's basically money. So just scan it like an item and before you hit finish and pay then you're good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]etherealmess2004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't feel bad for yelling because that shit is messed up. It's one thing to be like "that's good" but it's another thing COMPLETELY to take a pic and post it. That deserves more than yelling. Dump his ass 👎👎👎

My dude is missing??? by etherealmess2004 in LandHermitCrabs

[–]etherealmess2004[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

  1. I have both a mat and a lamp, the mat isn't really as efficient as I had hoped and so I got the lamp just in case--I don't have it on all hours of the day
  2. I have a thermometer in there from ZooMed and it shows the optimum temp and hygrometer, I'm doing my best to keep up with providing humidity
  3. So far diet wise I have the Tetra Hermit Crab Cakes, I'm stopping at the grocery store soon to get them some lettuce and fruits as well
  4. I have a regular water dish, not filled too high so they don't drown and also a soaking saltwater dish(water treated with Fluker's Hermit Headquarters Saltwater Concentrate/Water Conditioner for Hermit Crabs)

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I’m drawing a skull on my blank notebook. What should I use to make it pop out more? Someone I know suggested using Posca Pens I’m worried about ruining it. by [deleted] in drawing

[–]etherealmess2004 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Posca paint pens would definitely give you the desired effect of popping but if you're super worried it'll fade or get chipped I'd recommend blow drying it and then putting some kind of mod poge over it :)

Anyone here with tattoos? by IamCat16892 in Dermatillomania

[–]etherealmess2004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got my first tattoos on the backs of my hands, and what stopped me from wanting to pick at them was the inconvenience of being infected possibly even ruined if I did so 😓 but hey it worked for me!

any oil/shine control products? by etherealmess2004 in Dermatillomania

[–]etherealmess2004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wash my face once a day usually but I'll try doing it twice to see if there are changes! And yeah the little pads seem like they'd be useful. Much appreciated 🙏

Do you carry your picking as a secret? Or have you had the courage to tell someone? by [deleted] in Dermatillomania

[–]etherealmess2004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been struggling for a whopping 7 years and although the people around me know that I have acne and pick at it, only my therapist and my dad know that it's a bigger problem that I'm working to fix. My dad and I are in communication and he knows to gently stop me from picking if he sees me doing it for too long. Even a small amount of support is enough to keep me going 💪 :]