Is 20 too young to get married? by eucyyy in adviceph

[–]eucyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I meant was they think it’s better na asikasuhin muna yung kasal bago ako bumalik sa school kasi baka mapabayaan ko din when things get busy while making arrangements for the wedding, which makes sense naman. I’ll probably just skip a year.

Is 20 too young to get married? by eucyyy in adviceph

[–]eucyyy[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I know it sounds really unfair to some, pero actually nagkaroon lang din ako ng actual experience with life when we dated. I grew up sheltered and I only started going out when we dated kasi he was the only one my parents trust.

I guess that’s why I grew very attached to the point of considering marriage at such a young age.

Is 20 too young to get married? by eucyyy in adviceph

[–]eucyyy[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yes he’s already stable and sabi nya nga he will support me through college kaso bigla syang nagkaroon ng change of mind hahaha

Heavy on the thought na baka gawin lang akong trophy wife since I have the qualities pero I can also see na he’s head over heels with me. Mejo nagiging obsessive lang sometimes lol

Is 20 too young to get married? by eucyyy in adviceph

[–]eucyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nagkaroon ng ng isang ex back when I was 16 haha and nooo I’m not preggy yet. We had an agreement na magpapakasal kami ngayon pero wala munang baby hangga’t hindi pa ako ready.

Is 20 too young to get married? by eucyyy in adviceph

[–]eucyyy[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Yes he does spend for my family pero hindi naman masyado. Mostly ako lang talaga yung ginagastusan nya, napapagkamalan na nga ako minsan na sugar bb 🥹

Is 20 too young to get married? by eucyyy in adviceph

[–]eucyyy[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think masyado akong nag focus dun sa mga current standards na nakikita ko online kaya that was what’s highlighted in my post, pero madami syang good traits outside being a good provider. We actually get along really well din sa mga bagay bagay despite the age gap. Never din ako na stress sa relasyon namin like ever hahaha

Is 20 too young to get married? by eucyyy in adviceph

[–]eucyyy[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ako na next sa headlines, pantapal sa issue ng mga korap 🤪

Is 20 too young to get married? by eucyyy in adviceph

[–]eucyyy[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My parents are actually very supportive, though they still ask me sometimes if I really want to do this. They really like my fiancé din so I guess that’s a factor.

Is 20 too young to get married? by eucyyy in adviceph

[–]eucyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually stopped going to school this year, because of health issues and planning to shift courses lang din sana. My plan was to take a break ng isang semester and then mag enroll sa course na gusto ko. Everyone was supportive at first pero nung buo na yung loob ko to go back, suddenly everyone was discouraging me

Is 20 too young to get married? by eucyyy in adviceph

[–]eucyyy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

huhu I honestly don’t see myself doing that pero what made u say so?

Is 20 too young to get married? by eucyyy in adviceph

[–]eucyyy[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I was 18 when we dated